Whats wrong with me?????

[Kinkybytch]

Okay need some input as to what you guys think here Im married to my hubby we been together for a while now and we have a great sex life but see here is the thing I am into everything exept sharing him I am too jealous to share him with another woman no no no cant and wont...the issue is this I am wondering what is wrong with me for the simple fact while I am masturbating alone obviously the only way i can get off quick and cum is if i think about my husband effing other chicks I cant get off while pleasing myself anyother way and with that being said I know damn well i could never share him but how come this is the only way i can get myself off is by having thease thoughts???

 

[bighornedsatyr]

Maybe you'd like to share him, but deep down you know you'd be jealous. Don't feel guilty about it though. Not all fantasies need to be acted on.

 

[RuReal]

Fantasy is an interesting thing and I think you are diving too deep on this one. You love and enjoy your husband having a fantasy of him giving it to other women is fine after all it is getting you off.

Question though is it always a particular person that you see him having sex with?

Okay need some input as to what you guys think here Im married to my hubby we been together for a while now and we have a great sex life but see here is the thing I am into everything exept sharing him I am too jealous to share him with another woman no no no cant and wont...the issue is this I am wondering what is wrong with me for the simple fact while I am masturbating alone obviously the only way i can get off quick and cum is if i think about my husband effing other chicks I cant get off while pleasing myself anyother way and with that being said I know damn well i could never share him but how come this is the only way i can get myself off is by having thease thoughts???

 

[gregy70]

I bet hubby would get excited if he knew you were getting off thinking off this. You should test the waters on this & have fun

 

[Kitty_Schrödinger]

I think fantasy is one and reality is other. We fantasise about many things, some about rape, but it doesn't mean one wants to be raped.

 

[DAA08]

Fantasies

Sometimes one will just get stuck in your mind, it happens, you might want to explore other ones and see if you can't replace it with another. Jelousy is one evil monster, and sometimes it is one best left alone. Pretend to be another woman, role play it out, have some fun, and leave some things as a dream.

Sharing is hard for some, the guilt, the second guessing, the doubt. So be realy sure you need this one to come true. Just because you think about it soes not mean you have to act on it.

Good luck, have fun, and enjoy it.

 

[TrueFox]

Wow

You've described my in-relationship masturbation mode exactly.

I agree with everyone that you don't have to act on it...it is so complex that it needs to be treated with caution. For me, and I've thought about this a lot, I think that it really plays into my feelings of inadequacy and jealousy. It liberates me: If my lover has cheated on me and is fucking another woman in front of me with reckless abandon, what more do I have to worry about? It is a liberating thought, but not one that I truly want to experience firsthand.

Fantasies and relationships can be delicate, and require care. Talking about it with your husband in any context is different from acting on it. Be careful and know that you don't have to do anything just because of a fantasy. It's just that - a fantasy. It's not real life. It doesn't necessarily mean that some deep-seated force is telling you that you'll never be sexually satisfied if you don't share your husband.

So just enjoy it for what it is!

 

[Kinkybytch]

Fantasy is an interesting thing and I think you are diving too deep on this one. You love and enjoy your husband having a fantasy of him giving it to other women is fine after all it is getting you off.

Question though is it always a particular person that you see him having sex with?

No no specific female just random chicks.