What's the most degraded thing you've done or would do? (Alone or in front of someone or a crowd)

[whoaitzbreezy]

I remember once, we met up in a hotel in London and as we were eating breakfast, the waitress had “knowing smirk”.
I really wanted to ask why lol.
It definitely has a hint of “I know what YOU’ve been doing!” About it.

Maybe word had got around about the language they’d overheard me using in the bedroom!

Oh by the way …in your case, did you (as my ex did) have to specifically ask to hear degrading language? I’m guessing not many people would come out with it as typical foreplay.

How did you discover you liked it?

last night we heard a man screaming at his wife from their room to "fuck my ass until i gape" and this morning the guy at table 4 is sitting on a pillow and eating soft foods. lol

he was someone i met thru another site so we knew each others kinks and had seen each other around the site and i'm the type that at least tries to comment pics or answer quetions when someone does that for me so eventually we got to talking privately and he asked if he could take my pics (which was his reg job) and he was very generous and there was enough attraction there that we would dirty talk jokingly at first and then it got to a point where he asked if i'd ever do private videos with him and i did that but it stopped being practical and i changed partners at home so it felt like the right time to end things. it makes me sound a certain way but i didn't feel right about it anymore and that made it harder to see things as just doing this one thing together and at a certain point just feeling like "its thanksgiving and shouldn't we get together?" but him wanting nobody else to know how or why we even knew each other.

 

[munch2much]

last night we heard a man screaming at his wife from their room to "fuck my ass until i gape" and this morning the guy at table 4 is sitting on a pillow and eating soft foods. lol

he was someone i met thru another site so we knew each others kinks and had seen each other around the site and i'm the type that at least tries to comment pics or answer quetions when someone does that for me so eventually we got to talking privately and he asked if he could take my pics (which was his reg job) and he was very generous and there was enough attraction there that we would dirty talk jokingly at first and then it got to a point where he asked if i'd ever do private videos with him and i did that but it stopped being practical and i changed partners at home so it felt like the right time to end things. it makes me sound a certain way but i didn't feel right about it anymore and that made it harder to see things as just doing this one thing together and at a certain point just feeling like "its thanksgiving and shouldn't we get together?" but him wanting nobody else to know how or why we even knew each other.

For me, it was a real surprise to be encouraged to say certain things. I’d never done it before and as the requests got more extreme I actually found much of it hard to say. BUT. My god it unleashed such a raw, carnal side to her. And seeing her in that hyper aroused state, turned me on so much that I got past my reservations.
Even though I found myself wondering if we might get the police called on us
Damn it’s a good memory!

 

[whoaitzbreezy]

For me, it was a real surprise to be encouraged to say certain things. I’d never done it before and as the requests got more extreme I actually found much of it hard to say. BUT. My god it unleashed such a raw, carnal side to her. And seeing her in that hyper aroused state, turned me on so much that I got past my reservations.
Even though I found myself wondering if we might get the police called on us
Damn it’s a good memory!

its stories like that that make me glad i quit working at a motel lol motel fucks are fun but i've found that there's some things that you need to do at home or at the other ppls house. but i've also made alot of risky choices and gotten really lucky to come back home every time lol and i've been told that there's something about a motel room or a getaway that lets ppl feel like they can do things that they don't feel right doing at home. maybe it was that way for you and her.

 

[munch2much]

its stories like that that make me glad i quit working at a motel lol motel fucks are fun but i've found that there's some things that you need to do at home or at the other ppls house. but i've also made alot of risky choices and gotten really lucky to come back home every time lol and i've been told that there's something about a motel room or a getaway that lets ppl feel like they can do things that they don't feel right doing at home. maybe it was that way for you and her.

There were several reasons for the hotel. Distance was certainly a thing. She had to be careful due to culture. I was in a messy break up situation.
The hotel thing actually felt like a safe haven at the time.

I bet you have some entertaining hotel stories!

 

[whoaitzbreezy]

There were several reasons for the hotel. Distance was certainly a thing. She had to be careful due to culture. I was in a messy break up situation.
The hotel thing actually felt like a safe haven at the time.

I bet you have some entertaining hotel stories!

those stories aren't for this thread lol i'm sorry to derail the topic again

 

[liqueur]

failing in that scene or play bc its part of the turn on and power exchange. but then also knowing that he had a great time and he appreciates that you did this thing with him in a society that treats him like he doesnt get to have that kind of enjoyment. its actually really special and i probably do a shit job of explaing it.

No, I think I get what you're saying, and if I understand it, it's somewhat similar for me

 

[liqueur]

those stories aren't for this thread lol i'm sorry to derail the topic again

I've read through this conversation and I think it's interesting and not a derail. I think motels/hotels are a great place for exploring degradation kinks. Likewise, your stories, if they involve degradation, do belong here.