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[Amonara]

I've finally decided to ask you good folks in the How To Forum, about this unusual problem I've been having.

It's got me a little aprehensive about having sex, and that's never a good thing!

SO I've been masturbating for a few years, call me a late bloomer if you will, but interestingly enough I've only been bringing myself to orgasm with dildos and other objects. The first time I tried clitoral stimulation it was just too intense so I didn't try again until recently. I've been "practicing" in the shower almost every night or whenever I'm in the mood. Lately I've noticed that when I orgasm, you know I have the usual muscle spasms and clenching all over, but I ride it out by sqeezing and looking down I saw I was, I guess, either peeing or squirting. I can't figure it out and now every time I orgasm I see liquid bubbling/jetting out of me. And I really don't know if I'm peeing or not. I'm terrified something like this will happen during sex.

If anyone can help me or has had a similar experience I'd really like your advice.

 

[Bandit58]

You're not peeing, you're ejaculating I do it too, my partner loves it! Try reading this thread, don't worry you're perfectly normal - and with the right partner it can be mindblowing

Try This & Report Back

 

[Amonara]

You're not peeing, you're ejaculating I do it too, my partner loves it! Try reading this thread, don't worry you're perfectly normal - and with the right partner it can be mindblowing

Try This & Report Back

Well that's certainly comforting. I knew ejaculation was possible with Gspot stimulation, but not clitoral. I'll have just how to figure out how to forwarn whoever goes down on me. Thanks very much.

When you ejaculate do you get dehydrated? The first time, I was so shaky and thirsty I downed 2 or 3 water bottles after I got to my room. It was a little intense.

 

[Bandit58]

Well that's certainly comforting. I knew ejaculation was possible with Gspot stimulation, but not clitoral. I'll have just how to figure out how to forwarn whoever goes down on me. Thanks very much.

It's virtually impossible to pee when you're sexually aroused - I know I have to wait a while afterwards before everything relaxes enough for me to go!

I have warned someone before by just saying to them, "Oh by the way I tend to squirt when I cum" - no big problem and she was amazed when it happened

Regarding dehydration - I'm usually pretty thirsty afterward but not to the extent of downing more than a bottle of water, though I do wake in the morning with a dry mouth

 

[lettinggo]

I've heard about squirting, and about the sensations of needing to go when working towards a g-spot orgasm. I experience the same sensations when using the shower massager before I peak. Is it possible to describe how it feels when you actually squirt? The sensations of the clitoral orgasm from the shower massager are far more intense than others I've ever experienced. But based on the OP, since I'm already well soaked from the shower, I may be ejaculating and not know it. I would love to hear more specific details of how it feels. And then I would love to find a way to duplicate the intesity without having to jump into the shower.

 

[Bandit58]

I've heard about squirting, and about the sensations of needing to go when working towards a g-spot orgasm. I experience the same sensations when using the shower massager before I peak. Is it possible to describe how it feels when you actually squirt? The sensations of the clitoral orgasm from the shower massager are far more intense than others I've ever experienced. But based on the OP, since I'm already well soaked from the shower, I may be ejaculating and not know it. I would love to hear more specific details of how it feels. And then I would love to find a way to duplicate the intesity without having to jump into the shower.

For me it's like a wave of heat and then fluid gushes out of me. This mainly happens with Gspot stimulation although I have done it occasionally with a lot of clit play. If the stimulation keeps up it just keeps happening Not as intense as a clitoral orgasm but in some ways much more satisfying

 

[Quoll]

Just thought I would put in a male perspective, most of us LOVE it.
Don`t hold back, just bring a towel or two with you, and if he asks, just say "Have I got a suprise for you."

 

[Amonara]

Just thought I would put in a male perspective, most of us LOVE it.
Don`t hold back, just bring a towel or two with you, and if he asks, just say "Have I got a suprise for you."

Well that is certainly good to know. I just have this fear of him going down on me and getting squirted in the face. Maybe he won't mind?

 

[Quoll]

Well that is certainly good to know. I just have this fear of him going down on me and getting squirted in the face. Maybe he won't mind?

Well I can`t speak for him, so it would probably be best to give him some sort of warning, but speaking for myself, and if you read some of the other threads the chances are he wont mind at all.
Me, no I don`t mind at all, in fact I do my best to help my SO squirt/gush as often as possible and truthfully I love being in the firing line.

 

[Halo_n_horns]

I've finally decided to ask you good folks in the How To Forum, about this unusual problem I've been having.

It's got me a little aprehensive about having sex, and that's never a good thing!

SO I've been masturbating for a few years, call me a late bloomer if you will, but interestingly enough I've only been bringing myself to orgasm with dildos and other objects. The first time I tried clitoral stimulation it was just too intense so I didn't try again until recently. I've been "practicing" in the shower almost every night or whenever I'm in the mood. Lately I've noticed that when I orgasm, you know I have the usual muscle spasms and clenching all over, but I ride it out by sqeezing and looking down I saw I was, I guess, either peeing or squirting. I can't figure it out and now every time I orgasm I see liquid bubbling/jetting out of me. And I really don't know if I'm peeing or not. I'm terrified something like this will happen during sex.

If anyone can help me or has had a similar experience I'd really like your advice.

You're a lucky, lucky, LUCKY woman.

I've always wanted to experience this from a woman, but alas I never have. Have fun with it.

Congratulations!

 

[Bandit58]

Well that is certainly good to know. I just have this fear of him going down on me and getting squirted in the face. Maybe he won't mind?

I have sprayed Gil in the face, it's no problem and in fact he thinks it's wonderful, because I didn't used to cum with a partner before (some sort of mental block, I was just fine by myself). He loves that I am able to relax and trust him and let it all go (oops bad pun )

Though recently I've been having a bit of a hard time believing that it's not urine, because there's so much of it! But he says it's not - it's clear, slippery and practically odourless. We've been doing quite a bit of stimulation in that area recently and maybe the more you play the more you get??

 

[Amonara]

I have sprayed Gil in the face, it's no problem and in fact he thinks it's wonderful, because I didn't used to cum with a partner before (some sort of mental block, I was just fine by myself). He loves that I am able to relax and trust him and let it all go (oops bad pun )

Though recently I've been having a bit of a hard time believing that it's not urine, because there's so much of it! But he says it's not - it's clear, slippery and practically odourless. We've been doing quite a bit of stimulation in that area recently and maybe the more you play the more you get??

Well, your post re-reassures me that it's not urine, because I've noticed that I ejaculate clear, slightly slippery, oderless liquid, thats salty to the taste(er...yeah, I wanted to be thorough). And I have noticed the more I masturbate with clitoral stimulation the more I seem to be able to squirt. Some sort of practice makes perfect?

EDIT: Sweet! I'm no longer a virgin.

 

[Gil_T2]

Well that is certainly good to know. I just have this fear of him going down on me and getting squirted in the face. Maybe he won't mind?

A 69 with you on top might not be the best position but I have & enjoy ladies squirting while I'm enjoying oral sex with them.

LETTINGGO I think it's time for you to forget the shower & take a few towels to bed with you & explore you will soon know if your squirting or not.

G spot orgasm arn't the only way to squirt either.

Something for you to try is as your getting the orgasm strated spank your clit rapidly which for many,many ladies causes a large gush of the loverly fliuds.

 

[Gil_T2]

Well, your post re-reassures me that it's not urine, because I've noticed that I ejaculate clear, slightly slippery, oderless liquid, thats salty to the taste(er...yeah, I wanted to be thorough). And I have noticed the more I masturbate with clitoral stimulation the more I seem to be able to squirt. Some sort of practice makes perfect?

EDIT: Sweet! I'm no longer a virgin.

It's not a bad taste at all as both BANDIT & I often test it, another interesting thing is it's a good lube too.

 

[fathom7]

One of the interesting aspects of this site (to which I am painfully new) is the wonderful support offered by those commenting on postings and inquiries from others.

Amonara -- you are a lucky woman and the possibilities of wetting your partner should excite him as much as yourself. Relax, enjoy and have at it.

 

[Amonara]

One of the interesting aspects of this site (to which I am painfully new) is the wonderful support offered by those commenting on postings and inquiries from others.

Amonara -- you are a lucky woman and the possibilities of wetting your partner should excite him as much as yourself. Relax, enjoy and have at it.

Well, I just hypothetically posed that senario to him and he didn't sound too excited about as he put it "getting soaked in the face." Maybe I can change his mind if we ever make it to bed? Which is something I am beginning to doubt will ever happen.

Oh well, I guess the search is on.

 

[Quoll]

Well, I just hypothetically posed that senario to him and he didn't sound too excited about as he put it "getting soaked in the face." Maybe I can change his mind if we ever make it to bed? Which is something I am beginning to doubt will ever happen.

Oh well, I guess the search is on.

*sigh* Men, I just don`t get them sometimes.

Sorry you got such a negative response.

*Walks out shaking head*

 

[Gil_T2]

Well, I just hypothetically posed that senario to him and he didn't sound too excited about as he put it "getting soaked in the face." Maybe I can change his mind if we ever make it to bed? Which is something I am beginning to doubt will ever happen.

Oh well, I guess the search is on.

*Gil is stunned at the lack of sexual excitement for the guy *

I can only put it down to inexperience & hope that some day you do find a guy who appriciates the pleasures of a real lady like you.

*Gil joins QUOLL shaking his head*

 

[Mr.L.J.M]

you have nothing to worry about it.... as a guy, i would find thid to be a HUG turn on!!

 

[pupper]

I love when my wife squirts in my face,I feel this is a payment for a job well done.lately she gets in a doggy style position and I get under her on my back and we go to town she squirted last nite in this position.I ask her"would you like to sit on my face?".when in this position she rocks and thrusts on my tongue.sometimes she gets up on her heels and lays back on her hands with her beautiful hair falling on my hard cock.She says blended orgasms are the best we have a doc johnson bullet we call dr. J I use the bullet while stroking her G-spot.she also ejaculates from vaginal sex and when I lick her clit.the clitoral orgasm she says is more like a prickly or little pins in her clitoral area before she cuts loose of her girl spunk.I cansay from experience she ejaculates more with the blended,it seems to wipe her out she cums with alot of force.both ways her legs start to tremblethats how I KNOW ITS Ffixin to happen.Also she adds with the clitoral I stimulate her nipples to get her over the edge.We sleep nude and sometimes I wake her in the middle of the night with oral until she ejaculates.another good technique is to lick the clit until she cums then have intercourse until she cums alternating until I can't keep from cumming anymore.

 

[swjunckie]

Women who ejaculate and the men w/ them are so Lucky!

I had a lover who gushed and ejaculated. I loved the rush of warms from her cumming like that.

It is def. not urine. I does vary in taste. Not sure what all the variables there are. I'd say your man should like it, but he may be the type to not want to get dirty or wet. That's really too bad. There are ways around wet spots etc. Towels. Even going as far as those crib pads that will catch the wetness.

Sigh.. I could go for a little G-spot stimulation and ejaculation work now.

 

[The_old_man]

The only time I have not enjoyed my wifes squirting is when it goes up my nose. This has happened a few times while she was sitting on a happy face.

Normaly we use a small crib size waterproof pad. The first time she squirted was from G-spot stim through the anus.

 

[HoldenMcCrank]

Your bf or SO lack of excitement

should be reason enough for you to start looking for a replacement. If you chose not too look for a replacement right away. I would at least get him to come to LIT and look aroung and see what he can learn.

Either way good Luck and congradulation

Holden

 

[sxylegs]

Well that is certainly good to know. I just have this fear of him going down on me and getting squirted in the face. Maybe he won't mind?

Oh I guarantee that he wont mind.....In fact he will probably tell everybody he knows for years how you squirted in his face........

Have Fun!!!