What pissed you off today? Mark II

[firefighterscott]

There isn't enough subs out her on lit. Too many doms.

 

[Collar_N_Cuffs]

It's "aren't"
I won't mention the other issues...

 

[firefighterscott]

It's "aren't"
I won't mention the other issues...

My apologies

 

[Collar_N_Cuffs]

My apologies

No need.
Verb agreement is just a pet peeve of mine

 

[cookiecat]

There isn't enough subs out her on lit. Too many doms.

There's a ton of us!

That being said, here in the BDSM cafe -- there aren't a ton of people posting here. Whenever I sign on, I can see how many people are viewing each forum. It's usually 13 in the BDSM forum to 87 in the General Board and over 100 in Fetish and Sexuality. So your odds are pretty slim. Plus - not a dating site, reallly.

Maybe interact with all the folks here? Post some stuff. Let people get to see your personality. Maybe someone who lurks but doesn't post would message you if you see fun, smart, sweet and all that gooey good stuff!!!

Also - there's a bdsm personal forum down in the playground!! Look there.

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[firefighterscott]

There's a ton of us!

That being said, here in the BDSM cafe -- there aren't a ton of people posting here. Whenever I sign on, I can see how many people are viewing each forum. It's usually 13 in the BDSM forum to 87 in the General Board and over 100 in Fetish and Sexuality. So your odds are pretty slim. Plus - not a dating site, reallly.

Maybe interact with all the folks here? Post some stuff. Let people get to see your personality. Maybe someone who lurks but doesn't post would message you if you see fun, smart, sweet and all that gooey good stuff!!!

Also - there's a bdsm personal forum down in the playground!! Look there.

I have a thread there already. Please feel free to check it out.

 

[firefighterscott]

No need.
Verb agreement is just a pet peeve of mine

I will try my best next time. Thank you.

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[firefighterscott]

Cookie is right, lit is crawling with pyls, not only on bdsm but gb and fetish board. And if not people who define as pyls then people who express some desire for some of the dynamic.

Just because they are here doesn't mean they are looking. People DO meet here , there are fun tales and ones that make my heart happy ( as well as some very sad ones) but there has to be appeal. Surely any old dub wouldn't do ? And just the same, there has to be attraction from her ( sorry I haven't double checked it's a she you are looking for ) .

I find the way people behaved and interact really interests me ( or not) . It says way more about a person that an advert or the list type threads. Your thank you to collar for example, gracious and noteworthy

Good luck, and enjoy lit for what it is too.

Thank you and yes it is a she I seek for a sub.

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[firefighterscott]

You are welcome.

A couple of suggestions, Fill out your profile more meaningfully and with no resort to cliches. Try a more real, ( but not dock pic) av. personally I relate to people. Doesn't have to be a face or a sexy pic. A ( platonic) male friend on lit knows I like his abs that show his beautiful hands. Were I interested his hands would certainly attract me. Or a real picture of something in your life, an interest. Shrug. I don't know because this is based on gut feeling rather than research or even prolonged observation.

I also note I get far fewer unsolicited with pictures that aren't me so I cannot see why it would not work the same with looking for people to meet.

Thank you again

 

[Bramblethorn]

( meek quoted just because end of run)

Every step you take......

That song is really popular so some people love stalkers

I understand Sting is horrified by how many people get married to that song. "No no it was meant to be about a creepy obsessive!"

 

[Downfor]

Having to be a adult!

 

[MeekMe]

Stalking
In movies it's cute and endearing because aaaawwww, he would do anything for her! Including lying his face off and following her around until the end of the movie where she finds out and he has to make the grand gesture/confession.
In real life she freaks out because this weird guy keeps popping up everywhere she goes and she's starting to wonder if he's safe to be around or if she should get a restraining order.

Personal ads
Are probably the least effective way to find female pyls here. I read personal ads for funsies and wouldn't give any male d-type the time of day that only posts over there. The men that post in BDSM Talk/Café have my attention and are more likely to keep my attention because they show an understanding of the topic and also function here like real people with distinct personalities. You can't convey that easily in a laundry list on a personal ad.

 

[Eva_Star]

My foot massager is broken. Damn.

 

[Bramblethorn]

Work trip. Got through two days of high-intensity people stuff. I gave a talk, I even chaired a large meeting, and we got through everything and finished on time. Go me.

Got to the airport to fly home. Both major airlines have flights to the exact same city at the exact same time. So I went to the wrong gate and because I was hyperfocussing on music to decompress from all the people stuff, I didn't notice my mistake until I tried to board and the nice fellow at the gate pointed it out, by which time of course I'd missed the flight I was supposed to be on.

I got another flight, and it's not me paying for it, but I felt pretty stupid.

 

[Bramblethorn]

Freelance employers (who previously got me to fill in a big spreadsheet of contact hours) tried to phone me repeatedly at 3:30 a.m. to check up on an urgent project. Which I had emailed to them four hours earlier.

As it happened, I'd had just enough foresight to leave the phone a good distance from my bedroom. But seriously guys. Boundaries, I haz them.

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[jezzilee]

Nothing Hass upset me so far on this glorious day. I'm hoping it stays that wY.

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[Blue]

Urhhhh
Think I'm coming down with some mystery ailment.
If I am then I can already tell it's going to involve a lot of headaches...

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[cookiecat]

I haven't had more than 3 hours sleep reach might since Saturday.

 

[pensivepoet]

I haven't had more than 3 hours sleep reach might since Saturday.

We can tell