What pissed you off today? Mark II

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Ouch. Sry meek. I've used vinegar before for burns. It actually really helped.

I'm trying to be gentle with it. I've used black tea bags in the past but this one makes me feel very cautious about what to put on it. I may try vinegar another time, thanks.
 
I'm trying to be gentle with it. I've used black tea bags in the past but this one makes me feel very cautious about what to put on it. I may try vinegar another time, thanks.

Np 😏 burns suck. By far my least favorite injury, and I've had a few :rolleyes:
 
Kids pulled my kitchen aide mixer off the counter this afternoon, breaking something inside it right as it finished kneading a bread dough. The dough all stayed on the hook, in the bowl so it was good but I was livid. Thought dad had the two year old, apparently not.

Bread is now baking in the oven and hubby may be able to fix the mixer that won't turn off when plugged in. So can't afford a new one, so it hurts worse. Very tempted not to share the cinnamon raisin Cranberry bread.
 
The weather forecast has not played out as predicted last weekend. I also managed to turn off my alarm this morning, instead of just snoozing, and lost valuable playwithfire hours. I feel derailed and annoyed with myself. I am going to MAKE time over the weekend, when the energy prices are lower anyway.
 
After issues with hospital stay that was originally scheduled to start 2 weeks ago yesterday with no end in sight (but began 2 days later & ended abruptly 2 days after that), tried to contact "medical team" regarding next steps, only to read partway through that I had already typed too many characters in the text block. (Never noticed it having a character limit before.)

Also, made call to cable & ISP yesterday to work-out bill-payment plan (even though cable cut out last Wed/Thurs briefly) & got nowhere... Minutes ago, got phone call asking how my DirecTV was doing (a service I've never had).
 
Can't Make up your flipping mind

I'm a Dom. I post a personals for an online submissive.

Get going, have someone who's a bit more out there than I'm really comfortable with, but I figure what the hell. If I'm a Dom, and she's answering my personal ad, I can at least communicate and try to see if this has longer potential than just a couple of really quick mail exchanges.

So, since she says she's submissive and will do what I demand (her wording), I figure I'll make a demand. So I send off my demand, and she's all "i'm so disappointed and my heart broke when I read this. I can't do it!"

It's like, suck it up buttercup. If you're going to submit and enjoy having demands placed on you...then freaking do what you said you're going to do, or stop answering personals! FFS.
 
I'm a Dom. I post a personals for an online submissive...

It's like, suck it up buttercup. If you're going to submit and enjoy having demands placed on you...then freaking do what you said you're going to do, or stop answering personals! FFS.

Occurs to me the average person wouldn't have a similar response to an employee having trouble/hesitating to do a job, & your overly-harsh reaction is (ironically) tied to your Dom positioning.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jne9t8sHpUc
 
Occurs to me the average person wouldn't have a similar response to an employee having trouble/hesitating to do a job, & your overly-harsh reaction is (ironically) tied to your Dom positioning.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jne9t8sHpUc

If someone was hired to do a job, and then decided after they started on the job training, that they didn't want to do it, they'd be kicked to the curb just as much.

It's not harsh. It's called do what you said you're going to do. Additionally, don't presume to tell me how I must or must not, should or should not, act in my relationships.

Edit: I should probably tell you that, since you decided to jump on someone getting something off their chest, which is horrible form, I've added you to the ignore list. Congrats, you're my first!
 
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If someone was hired to do a job, and then decided after they started on the job training, that they didn't want to do it, they'd be kicked to the curb just as much.

It's not only harsh. It's called do what you said you're going to do. Additionally, don't presume to tell me how I must or must not, should or should not, act in my relationships.

If they made that decision, there'd be no kicking to the curb, as the person who made that decision would probably go on their choice, not leave it to you.

You agree "it's not only harsh", but then seem to act like you're not being harsh at all by claiming they're not doing what they said they would. (The way you posted it, you hadn't gotten them to say they'd do anything yet.) Also, I won't "presume" to tell you how to act in your relationships, but seems you had none here, & even if they were there with you right now, not sure I'd use that word for it.
 
I'm a Dom. I post a personals for an online submissive.

Get going, have someone who's a bit more out there than I'm really comfortable with, but I figure what the hell. If I'm a Dom, and she's answering my personal ad, I can at least communicate and try to see if this has longer potential than just a couple of really quick mail exchanges.

So, since she says she's submissive and will do what I demand (her wording), I figure I'll make a demand. So I send off my demand, and she's all "i'm so disappointed and my heart broke when I read this. I can't do it!"

It's like, suck it up buttercup. If you're going to submit and enjoy having demands placed on you...then freaking do what you said you're going to do, or stop answering personals! FFS.

A little question for you, in the off chance that you were opening this up to discussion and not just venting. If you were just venting, no problem.

Did you and the sub discuss and agree upon limits, and then you requested something within those limits, and she refused? Or did she simply give you the blanket.. "I'll do anything", and then decide she couldn't live up to that when you made your request?

Also, maybe her heart is broken because she wants to do anything, but finds that perhaps she aimed a bit high, and felt a bit too stretched right off the starting line.

I'm asking for no particular reason other than that I'm the curious sort :)
 
I'm sure everyone is curious what this demand was that made her cry "uncle" so quickly.
 
Is your entire purpose of being on Lit to be critical of things other people post?

Not hardly, but it's clearly your aim to ask off-topic questions about other members that you could learn the answers to on your own in less time than it takes to type those same questions.
 
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*snags a chip off your shoulder and dips it into my salsa*

*Points out that my shoulder never had any chip, much as your eyes never had any working balls (like rest of your anatomy), & hands you ticket to send you & beloved salsa back to Mexico before any wall gets built.*
 
I came in to bitch about how they still haven't brought back Crystal Pepsi, but instead got a good laugh out of the current ridiculousness happening in here.

Needed that, thanks :D
 
Did you and the sub discuss and agree upon limits, and then you requested something within those limits, and she refused? Or did she simply give you the blanket.. "I'll do anything", and then decide she couldn't live up to that when you made your request?

I'm asking for no particular reason other than that I'm the curious sort :)

So yes, there had been limits that I had brought up as part of what I view as my duty as a Dom to learn about the sub. The request was well within the comfort zone that had been discussed. I won't get into the specifics because that wold be between her and myself, but to answer your question, it was not too large a stretch. Definitely personal, but not a hard limit.
 
*snags a chip off your shoulder and dips it into my salsa*

What kind of Salsa? Personally, I like to do homemade guacamole with rotelle tomatoes. Gets the guacamole just a little extra loose so it can work as a chip salsa rather than the thicker, more widely known, guacamole consistency.
 
So yes, there had been limits that I had brought up as part of what I view as my duty as a Dom to learn about the sub. The request was well within the comfort zone that had been discussed. I won't get into the specifics because that wold be between her and myself, but to answer your question, it was not too large a stretch. Definitely personal, but not a hard limit.

The part I have boldfaced is also a personal opinion (as you finish by stating) & not an inarguable fact.

I don't care to read any specifics... Simply an admission it was minimally as much your fault as theirs.
 
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