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Dr. PHIL? Cops?
What does this have to do with how womens' body images are portrayed?
Please clarify.
Second degree burn.Too careless.
Ouch. Sry meek. I've used vinegar before for burns. It actually really helped.
I'm trying to be gentle with it. I've used black tea bags in the past but this one makes me feel very cautious about what to put on it. I may try vinegar another time, thanks.
I'm a Dom. I post a personals for an online submissive...
It's like, suck it up buttercup. If you're going to submit and enjoy having demands placed on you...then freaking do what you said you're going to do, or stop answering personals! FFS.
Occurs to me the average person wouldn't have a similar response to an employee having trouble/hesitating to do a job, & your overly-harsh reaction is (ironically) tied to your Dom positioning.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jne9t8sHpUc
If someone was hired to do a job, and then decided after they started on the job training, that they didn't want to do it, they'd be kicked to the curb just as much.
It's not only harsh. It's called do what you said you're going to do. Additionally, don't presume to tell me how I must or must not, should or should not, act in my relationships.
I'm a Dom. I post a personals for an online submissive.
Get going, have someone who's a bit more out there than I'm really comfortable with, but I figure what the hell. If I'm a Dom, and she's answering my personal ad, I can at least communicate and try to see if this has longer potential than just a couple of really quick mail exchanges.
So, since she says she's submissive and will do what I demand (her wording), I figure I'll make a demand. So I send off my demand, and she's all "i'm so disappointed and my heart broke when I read this. I can't do it!"
It's like, suck it up buttercup. If you're going to submit and enjoy having demands placed on you...then freaking do what you said you're going to do, or stop answering personals! FFS.
I'm sure everyone is curious what this demand was that made her cry "uncle" so quickly.
You can't be sure of something you're incorrect on.
Is your entire purpose of being on Lit to be critical of things other people post?
You can't be sure of something you're incorrect on.
I'm sure everyone is curious what this demand was that made her cry "uncle" so quickly.
*snags a chip off your shoulder and dips it into my salsa*

Did you and the sub discuss and agree upon limits, and then you requested something within those limits, and she refused? Or did she simply give you the blanket.. "I'll do anything", and then decide she couldn't live up to that when you made your request?
I'm asking for no particular reason other than that I'm the curious sort![]()
*snags a chip off your shoulder and dips it into my salsa*
So yes, there had been limits that I had brought up as part of what I view as my duty as a Dom to learn about the sub. The request was well within the comfort zone that had been discussed. I won't get into the specifics because that wold be between her and myself, but to answer your question, it was not too large a stretch. Definitely personal, but not a hard limit.