MsMuffet
Rebel With a Pause
- Joined
- Apr 15, 2002
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A LITTLE OVER A YEAR AGO, I met this guy online. We got to know each other rather well, and anticipated spending lots of time together. When we actually did meet face-to-face, sadly, the magic was not as powerful as we had hoped. This was a mutual feeling, by the way. But what the hell, my children were off on a trip with the ex, and we knew the "fling" would be fun at least! HeHe
As the week came to a close, one of my online female acquaintences began chatting him. I was not worried for a few reasons...
A. He & I were not committed to each other,
B. I was keeping him pretty busy (or so I thought), and
C. She was married!
I was wrong, and evidently upon pursuing her, they got together - one night after he was with me! So badly I wanted to ask her how I tasted!
(no other details necessary).
Anyway, I found out about this "meeting" of thiers by the innocent slip of another friend the very morning after. What ensued after that, was amusing yet pathetic. He avoided me altogether... she acted as if she couldn't even remember his name, asking how the "lover" was. It was hard not to choke from laughing. Since she was never really a "friend" of mine, I never confronted her with my knowledge. But he, on the other hand... I did consider him a friend, and I felt like I could still be his friend. As his friend, I was worried about him - this woman was bad news. When I confronted him, which proved my coolness, by the way...
He was sorry. (He will never know just how sorry) Several digs later, over a couple of months, he and I were able to have a pretty solid friendship after all this. It turns out, he is inlove with her.
Some more time passes, and he asks a favor of me. He suspects she is cheating. Doh! Maybe her wedding ring was his first clue. He asks me to ask another friend to quiz her. Sheesh! A little while later, he starts getting IM's from someone he does not know but knows an awful lot about him. Obviously it is her. He enlists my help again. Wants me to get friendly with this "mystery" person. I refuse.
One night, I am innocently playing an online game with some friends, and who should enter the arena, but HER. He is also there under a name she does not know about. (A real lot of trust there, LOL!) She makes some rude comment to me... now mind you, I have not spoken or written not one word to her in over a year, and she has no idea that he and I are still friends, let alone that he is in the room as well. OH YEAH! Here is a kicker... Not a half an hour before that? He was jacking off for me on webcam - actually invited me over to work on the "issue" in person (this I did NOT request, by the way)!
Anyway, pretty much all hell has broken loose. I could not let her comment slide by - YES, it was that bad! I am not a spiteful or vengeful person. I do not hold grudges. I am too forgiving sometimes. I wrote her an email stating that her comment was inappropriate and uncalled for. For Pete's Sake, what did I ever do to her? She insists that I need to get over him! LMFAO!!! This angered me more, and his reactions showed me just what a pussy he really is. He and I had a very long phone conversation afterwards. I told him what I thought of the situation... that it was sick, and not right that there is so much distrust. He was so worried about this blowing up in his face... "not NOW!", he pleads. But the way the two of them have been acting? It was bound to happen sooner or later.
I am a busy woman. I have a good life. I have nothing to gain by being involved in this. But I am SO annoyed! She keeps emailing me - saying things like "I won and U lost"... WTF is that?
I have archiving features on my IM... lots of detail about that webcast.... Hmmmmm.....
As the week came to a close, one of my online female acquaintences began chatting him. I was not worried for a few reasons...
A. He & I were not committed to each other,
B. I was keeping him pretty busy (or so I thought), and
C. She was married!
I was wrong, and evidently upon pursuing her, they got together - one night after he was with me! So badly I wanted to ask her how I tasted!
(no other details necessary).Anyway, I found out about this "meeting" of thiers by the innocent slip of another friend the very morning after. What ensued after that, was amusing yet pathetic. He avoided me altogether... she acted as if she couldn't even remember his name, asking how the "lover" was. It was hard not to choke from laughing. Since she was never really a "friend" of mine, I never confronted her with my knowledge. But he, on the other hand... I did consider him a friend, and I felt like I could still be his friend. As his friend, I was worried about him - this woman was bad news. When I confronted him, which proved my coolness, by the way...
He was sorry. (He will never know just how sorry) Several digs later, over a couple of months, he and I were able to have a pretty solid friendship after all this. It turns out, he is inlove with her.Some more time passes, and he asks a favor of me. He suspects she is cheating. Doh! Maybe her wedding ring was his first clue. He asks me to ask another friend to quiz her. Sheesh! A little while later, he starts getting IM's from someone he does not know but knows an awful lot about him. Obviously it is her. He enlists my help again. Wants me to get friendly with this "mystery" person. I refuse.
One night, I am innocently playing an online game with some friends, and who should enter the arena, but HER. He is also there under a name she does not know about. (A real lot of trust there, LOL!) She makes some rude comment to me... now mind you, I have not spoken or written not one word to her in over a year, and she has no idea that he and I are still friends, let alone that he is in the room as well. OH YEAH! Here is a kicker... Not a half an hour before that? He was jacking off for me on webcam - actually invited me over to work on the "issue" in person (this I did NOT request, by the way)!
Anyway, pretty much all hell has broken loose. I could not let her comment slide by - YES, it was that bad! I am not a spiteful or vengeful person. I do not hold grudges. I am too forgiving sometimes. I wrote her an email stating that her comment was inappropriate and uncalled for. For Pete's Sake, what did I ever do to her? She insists that I need to get over him! LMFAO!!! This angered me more, and his reactions showed me just what a pussy he really is. He and I had a very long phone conversation afterwards. I told him what I thought of the situation... that it was sick, and not right that there is so much distrust. He was so worried about this blowing up in his face... "not NOW!", he pleads. But the way the two of them have been acting? It was bound to happen sooner or later.
I am a busy woman. I have a good life. I have nothing to gain by being involved in this. But I am SO annoyed! She keeps emailing me - saying things like "I won and U lost"... WTF is that?
I have archiving features on my IM... lots of detail about that webcast.... Hmmmmm.....
