What in the hell am I doing wrong? I'm a nice guy!

[LJ_Reloaded]

Oh HELL, you people know the shitstorm that would erupt in a thread based on that message.

Nice guys aren't owed sex, women are entitled to make their own choices about men, blah blah blah.

Betcha the same shitstorm never occurred when this woman wrote essentially the same thing about men's choices not to date her.

http://columbus.craigslist.org/rnr/2870722205.html

(Backup link: http://www.experienceproject.com/stories/Think-Nice-Guys-Finish-Last/2114479 )

"Ok, so I don't get it at all. What in the hell am I doing wrong? I'm an attractive woman, fit, tall, long blond hair, blue eyes... I have an education and a good job. I take care of myself financially and otherwise. I'm FUN, adventurous, really smart, not arrogant, sweet, compassionate, sexual... Yet, I go out on date after date after date and the guy tells me he just wants a fuck buddy relationship. WHY???

Why are guys in their 30's like that? It's ok for you to fuck me for months on end but you don't actually want me? I don't understand why. What am I missing?

Why can't I find a guy who's as attractive as me, smart, funny, adventurous, has a big dick and likes to fuck ... who wants me to be his girlfriend? WTH!

This is my first time being single since my early 20's when I got married and now I'm divorced. At 34 years old, with all I have going on, why am I not the total package? I'm not pushy, I'm not a bitch, I'm not rude, I'm not demanding (except in bed lol).

I've been single now for going on 2 years and all I've managed to find is guys who are really really perfect but they suck in bed or guys who are total losers and incredible in bed or guys who are what I would deem the total package but they don't want me!!!!!!!!! UGH!!!!!!!!!!

I'm so frustrated. I hate dating. Guys, I really wish there weren't so many players. I just want someone to go out with, have a good intelligent conversation with, have a good fuck, and be accepted for who I am ... is that so bad???"

 

[badbabysitter]

yes, she speaks for all women everywhere

thusly if I found something stupid by one man on the internet...it would, by your impeccable logic... mean that all men think that way

 

[Laurel]

Men's Issues

• Societal expectations of masculinity

• Societal expectations to provide for women

• No long term reversible male birth control

• Men who are raped are more likely to remain silent and be dismissed or outright laughed at

• Unfair treatment in child custody battles

• No support for male victims of domestic abuse

• Media portrayal of married men as weak morons

Not Men's Issues

• The friend zone

• Women not dating you

• "Fucking femnazis"

[stolen from this Tumblr]​

 

[LJ_Reloaded]

Men's Issues

• Societal expectations of masculinity

• Societal expectations to provide for women

• No long term reversible male birth control

• Men who are raped are more likely to remain silent and be dismissed or outright laughed at

• Unfair treatment in child custody battles

• No support for male victims of domestic abuse

• Media portrayal of married men as weak morons

Not Men's Issues

• The friend zone

• Women not dating you

• "Fucking femnazis"

[stolen from this Tumblr]​

I'm sorry, but you don't get to decide what men's issues are.

Men decide that.

I think you'd be wise to remember that whenever you step outside your domain that is Literotica. We men don't take kindly to being told what issues we're allowed to have.

 

[Tryharder62]

She took it from tumbler. Your example is a woman frustrated with dating venting. If you want to change the sexes in the story I still think it would still be applicable. Venting is venting and a person has the right to say what they think. BTW isn't the premise of most of your posts telling woman what their issues are.

 

[richard_daily]

I'm sorry, but you don't get to decide what men's issues are.

Men decide that.

In that case, you have no say in the matter.

 

[tactful]

I seriously think, LJ, hurt his head really bad when he ran into that curb, running from Bel Aire.

 

[badbabysitter]

I'm sorry, but you don't get to decide what men's issues are.

Men decide that.

I think you'd be wise to remember that whenever you step outside your domain that is Literotica. We men don't take kindly to being told what issues we're allowed to have.

Dude you constantly tell women what their issues are and how wrong they are

it's like on your to-do list each day

 

[LJ_Reloaded]

She took it from tumbler. Your example is a woman frustrated with dating venting. If you want to change the sexes in the story I still think it would still be applicable. Venting is venting and a person has the right to say what they think. BTW isn't the premise of most of your posts telling woman what their issues are.

It is? How so?

And no, you're wrong - you can't hope to show where men even remotely get away with venting like this woman did.