what gets you off fastest?

[mdiaz451]

anal?

I love to teach a sub to enjoy anal sex... I'm really good at that. I'm patient, persistant, and gentle to the point of making sure lube and relaxation and sensuality are key... So far I've had the anal cherries of 4 sub girls, and each one has come to really love anal sex. One sub sub had some "Dom" try anal with her, hurt her in the process (I'm sure he justified it as, "she's a sub, it's ok if it hurts her") and I had to really go gently with her until I got her stretched out and into it enough to enter her ass. After about 5 or 10 minutes of gentle to ass fucking she asked me to fuck her harder. Ah, what a nice morning that was!

MD

 

[bisexplicit]

So, I'm not a big fan of this poll because I can't orgasm by anal or oral.

 

[AppleBiter]

Vaginal, then oral is a close second. I don't do anal, so that's out.

 

[silverwhisper]

i have a good friend who's the same way, bi. i don't think it's all that common for women to be unable to achieve orgasm from anal stimulation, but i'll confess i'm surprised you can't get there from a good tongue lashing.

ed

 

[bisexplicit]

i have a good friend who's the same way, bi. i don't think it's all that common for women to be unable to achieve orgasm from anal stimulation, but i'll confess i'm surprised you can't get there from a good tongue lashing.

ed

Yeah, go figure. I can orgasm without touching myself, but I can't orgasm from oral. I think thats quite far from the norm.

 

[midwestyankee]

Yeah, go figure. I can orgasm without touching myself, but I can't orgasm from oral. I think thats quite far from the norm.

It may also be something that changes over time. Sometimes what seems like an absolute is really just a factor of current circumstances. Recent personal experience reinforced this for me.

 

[bisexplicit]

It may also be something that changes over time. Sometimes what seems like an absolute is really just a factor of current circumstances. Recent personal experience reinforced this for me.

Yeah, you're probably right - I still have plenty of time to learn what works for me and what doesn't.

 

[midwestyankee]

Yeah, you're probably right - I still have plenty of time to learn what works for me and what doesn't.

Exactly. I'm probably more than twice your age and I'm still learning.

 

[silverwhisper]

bi, might i suggest taking things in a deliberately pavlovian vein? if so far you've only come from vaginal stimulation, perhaps you should consider adding other forms of stimulation during intercourse? if you do that consistently, you'll eventually forge an association.

...not, of course, that i would dream of giving sexual pointers to my sweet & innocent little sister.

ed

 

[bisexplicit]

bi, might i suggest taking things in a deliberately pavlovian vein? if so far you've only come from vaginal stimulation, perhaps you should consider adding other forms of stimulation during intercourse? if you do that consistently, you'll eventually forge an association.

...not, of course, that i would dream of giving sexual pointers to my sweet & innocent little sister.

ed

Thanks for the advice, I actually hadn't thought of that.

And this didn't happen; we'll never speak of this again.

 

[silverwhisper]

what advice?

[blinks, looks innocent]

 

[M's girl]

Oral gets me off most of the time; vaginal and anal never do.

Fingers on my clit get me off every single time, though.

Ditto, and am very surprised about how many women do cum from anal. I do anal 'cause M likes it and I think it's kinda sexy but it doesn't do anything for me in the feel-department....
In fact anal does so little that I have a hard time believing anyone (women) can cum from it. Then again.... I have a hard time cumming from vaginal (PIV) too and have to "help out" by stimulating my clit, otherwise nothing happens. It's not that I don't like it, I do... for the intimateness (does that word excist, oh well, you know what I mean) etcetera and I do love the feeling that he is inside me, but that's it. I think "they" forgot to build in my G-spot...

I even have a hard time cumming from oral sometimes. Foreplay ánd not touching my clit too soon and too direct are very important. Sometimes wish I could be rewired...

 

[bisexplicit]

Foreplay ánd not touching my clit too soon and too direct are very important.

Isn't that true for almost every girl? I don't think your abnormal in the least.

 

[M's girl]

Isn't that true for almost every girl? I don't think your abnormal in the least.

Hmmm, thought so too, but the poll results say differently, no? I don't remember the stats (not from LIT) exactly but I thought that it was about 14% (only!) of women who cum from PIV, while a large percentage NEVER orgasms (from any kind of sexual act) PERIOD. I don't see that here, although of course that was not really an option to choose from.

It's also funny that the poll was set up with anal in almost every option. Plus.... is this a poll for women to answer only? I mean, I understand a vaginal orgasm is a bit hard to reach for men but....

 

[silverwhisper]

well, the intention w/ the poll options was to ensure that straight, bi and gay respondents could answer as was appropriate: hence the inclusion of anal and vaginal in the poll options is intended to include straight men, cuz it isn't their cocks that are getting them off. :>

ed

 

[M's girl]

well, the intention w/ the poll options was to ensure that straight, bi and gay respondents could answer as was appropriate: hence the inclusion of anal and vaginal in the poll options is intended to include straight men, cuz it isn't their cocks that are getting them off. :>

ed

Okay, clear...

It's not an attack on your poll in any way but why are there no options without anal, exept for the last box? Is anal so common nowadays and is it to believed to get most people off? I'm just wondering....

 

[bisexplicit]

Okay, clear...

It's not an attack on your poll in any way but why are there no options without anal, exept for the last box? Is anal so common nowadays and is it to believed to get most people off? I'm just wondering....

Well, I think if you're a gay male, then yes it is. I believe thats what the reasoning was - at least thats what I assumed.

 

[sinnamongyrl]

oral is number one,,god i love it.BUT my husband does not give it,,,,,,next is vaginal......

 

[silverwhisper]

m's girl: what bi said. :>

ed

 

[M's girl]

oral is number one,,god i love it.BUT my husband does not give it,,,,,,next is vaginal......

Just curious..... (sorry).... does he want you to give him BJ's? And do you do that then...?

 

[bisexplicit]

Just curious..... (sorry).... does he want you to give him BJ's? And do you do that then...?

I was thinking the same thing, but decided to leave it alone...

Although, I always yell at my friends about that. *shakes head* Stupid girls do just about anything to make guys happy.

 

[M's girl]

m's girl: what bi said. :>

ed

Okidoki get it!

 

[M's girl]

I was thinking the same thing, but decided to leave it alone...

Although, I always yell at my friends about that. *shakes head* Stupid girls do just about anything to make guys happy.

Hihi

Never came across a man who wouldn't want to give oral. Am not sure but I think I would refuse to give a BJ if they didn't want to go down on me too.

 

[sinnamongyrl]

Just curious..... (sorry).... does he want you to give him BJ's? And do you do that then...?

he always wants blow jobs and he gets them.I do feel stupid since i dont get the pleasure returned.......

 

[M's girl]

he always wants blow jobs and he gets them.I do feel stupid since i dont get the pleasure returned.......

Wow.... that's very generous of you then. Although you may enjoy giving blowjobs (I do) and I believe you cannot or should not force anyone into sexual acts that they don't want to do.... hmmmmm, I don't know....

Unless you are very much enjoying giving the BJ I would say he should return the favour or do not expect you to do it again anymore eighter....