What does it feel like?

theman69

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ive been kind of curious about anal sex (reciveing) and was curious what it actually feels like?


I have experimented with putting things in my butt for now and i cant help but pumping them in and out and it feels good but honestly not that good. Everytime i come out it feel like im pooing? does the real thing feel like that?????



any help is great! Im a guy btw!
 
depends...

sometimes it hurts like hell... other times it feels great... i would suggest using something that stimulates your prostate. That feels great!

good luck...
 
sdedalus said:
depends...

sometimes it hurts like hell... other times it feels great... i would suggest using something that stimulates your prostate. That feels great!

good luck...


like what would you recommend/?? and like i said... what does the real thing feel like/??????
 
when ever im jerking off with something in my ass it feels amazing but when ever im done and trying to get it out it is very unplesent. maybe because i use household items and nt real sex toys. you never know.
 
are there any real answers??? like what does the REAL thing feel like?

like if a guy is doing me in the ass what would it feel like?
 
theman69 said:
are there any real answers??? like what does the REAL thing feel like?

like if a guy is doing me in the ass what would it feel like?

in my limited experience, it feels much the same as using a dildo. Effectively, much as you describe your own experience so far. It does feel like your trying to empty your bowel, but in a sexual arena, that sensation can be rather pleasant. And if you're prosatate is being rubbed as well.....very nice...very nice indeed.

And the major difference between a fake one and a real one... a real cock is warm, soft on the outside, hard on the inside, controlled by someone else, and all together, so much better.
 
I think the reason it hurts on the way out after an orgasm is because all the muscles contracted and stay like that for a few minutes before they can relax. I have told my husband that if I orgasm first, he can't go out and back in again. He has to settle for the other hole to finish.
 
If you are planning to enjoy this pleasure with a real person and not a toy let your friend know that it is your first time and use plenty of lube.

My first time hurt at first but when he pulled back and slowly pushed in and out gentely I was eventually able to take him entirely and he is one dude with what I would describe as have a good size cock, at least in width. I believe the secert is is doing it slowly and not forcefully.

The most pain was at the initial insertion but by giving me and the muscels time to relax things weren't as bad as I expected.

I am not overly keen on anal sex but if the time, place and cock is right then I may be tempted to go for it.
 
I have been curious about anal sex also. I had anal sex once with my ex-wife. I don't remember much of what it was like to have my cock in someone's ass.

I wonder what it is like to be on the receiving end of cock. I have used dildos on me also and sometimes it is great, other times not so great. I know the skin around the inside of the anus can give a lot of pleasure, but how is it different when it is a cock that is doing it?

I wonder also about the emotional side of things. I think I would have to like the guy who was fucking me. I don't think I would be up for going to a bath, although I used to fantasize about that, and doing two guys at once. I looked up something about baths here in Seattle and the web site that referenced them said that the visitor should be prepared for an emotionally empty feeling when leaving.

I still wonder what it would be like to feel the head of a cock slip in to my ass.
 
apexpark said:
it feels like taking a dump. i dont enjoy it...but thats just me.

I don't doubt that you are correct. But I won't know until I try it.
 
apexpark said:
it feels like taking a dump. i dont enjoy it...but thats just me.

I heard this as well, but I would have to disagree with that since when taking a dump everything is going 'out' and during sex it's 'in and out'

I've had dildos and vibes in me at different times and the only thing I can say is I have a "full" feeling during it. But as for an actual cock, I can't say.
 
I can try to answer a couple of questiions/statements here:

1) I guess you can equate it to the feeling of taking a dump, but more like the full feeling when you really need to have a dump, but beyond that feeling there is also the stimulation of the prostrate which if your partner doesn't just try to ram in and out is like nothing I have never felt before. I have cum during anal sex quite often, you can just be a will partner and without any other stimulation cum like you have never cum before. Although I am not over active with anal sex I have had some great feelings while having someone penetrate me that will go slow and steady.

2) regarding the empty feeling after being at the baths, you are there for a reason, your own pleasure. So what you do there is up to you. I have visited baths quite often and have only decided on having anal sex there twice, both times I was able to control the situation and although it was ok it wasn't great. As far as receiving pleasure there are a lot of people there who want to suck cock ( I for one). So you can be passive and let someone do to you what is pleasureable, who doesn't like a blow job or you can be active and seek out your own activities. I think I was only let down once or twice after leaving and it was because I chose a bad time and there we few ( hardly anyone) there. I often visit around noon as there always seem to be a decent number of visitors there and I can usually find activites that get me off. I am not there for an emotional experience but for my own gratification which I have usually enjoyed. But I am not looking for any relationship.

It is all in your frame of mind.


Try both and be the judge.
 
the first time it did feel like taking a dump; it also hurt!
It's all in getting used to it, working up to it if you will. Fingers first. Then a petite sex toy. Then a bigger one... and so on, till you crave the deeper penetration of the real McCoy. The head is usually a shock though, at least at first.
It's great when you're prepared. Like most things it takes practice!
 
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