What do Women Want?

[A-nonimous]

Ok, women. Here is your chance to really let us guys know what we are doing wrong.

I am a single man. Attractive, in a clean cut manner. Hard working. I make good money. I am sensual and romantic, sending flowers and surprise dinner and dancing dates. Yet I am still alone on a Friday night.

Any thoughts Ladies? Give me your advise....

 

[Succulent-one]

Ok, women. Here is your chance to really let us guys know what we are doing wrong.

I am a single man. Attractive, in a clean cut manner. Hard working. I make good money. I am sensual and romantic, sending flowers and surprise dinner and dancing dates. Yet I am still alone on a Friday night.

Any thoughts Ladies? Give me your advise....

First of all don't ask unless you really want a response.....may not be what you want to hear.

You are probably picking the wrong women. Don't go for the "Baywatch" or "Barbie Fluff" granted this appeals to men, but you are much better off picking a woman that is of substance and is real in her thinking and beliefs. Can she get past superficial conversations. Can she go head to head with you on a conversation. Does she like the dinners and dancing on Friday night, yet on Saturday she is just as comfortable on a long hike in the woods......pick women who can be your best buddy as well as your partner....then you will have a woman. Good luck sweetie!

 

[A-nonimous]

Way ahead of you. I was into the whole "Babewatch" thing when I was in college. I found that I was MUCH more attracted to women who could actually hold a conversation. Problem is, I get the whole "Friend" thing to a "T"... I find a woman who is pretty, and intelligent. someone whom I can have a conversation with. Who shares my interests and she says "But we are Friends! I would never ruin that." Then she goes on to ask my advise about how to pick up her latest "Stud".

Now what?

 

[Nxtacy]

Re: Re: What do Women Want?

First of all don't ask unless you really want a response.....may not be what you want to hear.

You are probably picking the wrong women. Don't go for the "Baywatch" or "Barbie Fluff" granted this appeals to men, but you are much better off picking a woman that is of substance and is real in her thinking and beliefs. Can she get past superficial conversations. Can she go head to head with you on a conversation. Does she like the dinners and dancing on Friday night, yet on Saturday she is just as comfortable on a long hike in the woods......pick women who can be your best buddy as well as your partner....then you will have a woman. Good luck sweetie!

I have never really looked at dating like and I'm having the same troubles with girls but know I'm going look at it like that. Thanks heaps sexy

 

[Nxtacy]

Way ahead of you. I was into the whole "Babewatch" thing when I was in college. I found that I was MUCH more attracted to women who could actually hold a conversation. Problem is, I get the whole "Friend" thing to a "T"... I find a woman who is pretty, and intelligent. someone whom I can have a conversation with. Who shares my interests and she says "But we are Friends! I would never ruin that." Then she goes on to ask my advise about how to pick up her latest "Stud".

Now what?

That is one of the worst situations I have two freinds that are exactly like that but they will never take the risk. My current flat mate is my ex-gf and we managed to still be friends after our relationship because we had such a good connection before and thats what I hate the most is they cant take the risk and say well we were freinds before we can be friends after. Well the biggest thing with my two friends is that the rnt mature enough to be friends after the relationship. Anyways thats jus my two cents worth and I dont know if it made any sense or not and if it didn't I'm sorry!!

 

[Succulent-one]

Way ahead of you. I was into the whole "Babewatch" thing when I was in college. I found that I was MUCH more attracted to women who could actually hold a conversation. Problem is, I get the whole "Friend" thing to a "T"... I find a woman who is pretty, and intelligent. someone whom I can have a conversation with. Who shares my interests and she says "But we are Friends! I would never ruin that." Then she goes on to ask my advise about how to pick up her latest "Stud".

Now what?

Ahhhh a fine line....once you have identified a woman of substance.....make it very clear to her that you intend to get her in your bed, and that you want the "whole package" both inside the bedroom and out, and you think she fits the bill nicely! All women want to feel desireable, even if you are buddies. Make sure she knows that you find her laugh attractive, her latest sweater.....that she makes your heart beat faster when you see her walking towards you....that she pops into your thoughts during the day at work....that she is the last thing you think about when you go to sleep.....even if it isn't necessarily 100% true.....stretching the truth never hurts....I think you get the gist of it.....Don't make her guess....tell her

 

[A-nonimous]

Thanks for the tip, but tried that too. The woman that I am currently interested in, I have made it perfectly clear that I want "The whole package" Still no dice.

and it isn't the first time. Most of my friends are women. I tend to get along with them better than guys, or maybe I am just drawn to how beautiful all women can be. I don't know. Anyway, I try to enter their lives and add meaning too them. That is where I fail.

I offer compassion and interest where the men that they become interested in offer neglect and abuse and a beautiful body. Does that make sense? And when it comes to sex, I am all about satisfying HER. That is what gets me off the best.

Any more ideas?

 

[Succulent-one]

Thanks for the tip, but tried that too. The woman that I am currently interested in, I have made it perfectly clear that I want "The whole package" Still no dice.

and it isn't the first time. Most of my friends are women. I tend to get along with them better than guys, or maybe I am just drawn to how beautiful all women can be. I don't know. Anyway, I try to enter their lives and add meaning too them. That is where I fail.

I offer compassion and interest where the men that they become interested in offer neglect and abuse and a beautiful body. Does that make sense? And when it comes to sex, I am all about satisfying HER. That is what gets me off the best.

Any more ideas?

I see you chose "Spike" as your AV.....So......be a little bad sometimes......women like that.....I personally can't stand a steady diet of it, but I like it some of the time....Keep them guessing......once they think they have you all figured out, things tend to lose their appeal.......I like the tease.....I like the chase....I want to be taken....change your love-making around a bit.....try new adventurous things

 

[Succulent-one]

That is one of the worst situations I have two freinds that are exactly like that but they will never take the risk. My current flat mate is my ex-gf and we managed to still be friends after our relationship because we had such a good connection before and thats what I hate the most is they cant take the risk and say well we were freinds before we can be friends after. Well the biggest thing with my two friends is that the rnt mature enough to be friends after the relationship. Anyways thats jus my two cents worth and I dont know if it made any sense or not and if it didn't I'm sorry!!

Fear keeps most people apart in these friendship cases. I personally have had 2 friendships where I hoped they would progress into something else....but I too was too scared to make the move....I have always wondered.

 

[Modern Mephisto]

I see you chose "Spike" as your AV.....So......be a little bad sometimes......women like that.....I personally can't stand a steady diet of it, but I like it some of the time....Keep them guessing......once they think they have you all figured out, things tend to lose their appeal.......I like the tease.....I like the chase....I want to be taken....change your love-making around a bit.....try new adventurous things

Be a little bad...keep them guessing...

Yeah. Like, when they pull that "But we're friends! I wouldn't want to ruin that!" shit...slap them, call them a bitch, and tell them that if you wanted friends you'd join a fucking social club. Then smirk, shake your head, and casually walk away.

Kidding!!!

I know exactly where you're coming from though. Well, except for the whole attractive part. I'm semi-cute, at best. But the rest of it...I could have written this post myself. I'm that guy that all the women find easy to open up to and talk to. I'm intelligent, funny, charming, genuinely sweet and caring. I've had more than my fair share ask, "Why can't I find a guy like you?"

God that pisses me off... A guy like me...but not me.

Bah! If you find some answers, I'm definitely curious to know what they are. In the meantime, I'm seriously thinking of looking into one of those sexy little Asian mail-order brides. And they say you can't buy love... Heh.

 

[A-nonimous]

Fear keeps most people apart in these friendship cases. I personally have had 2 friendships where I hoped they would progress into something else....but I too was too scared to make the move....I have always wondered.

Fear is definitely NOT the issue where I am concerned. In most cases, it simply never occured to these women that getting flowers at the beginning of the evening, going to a fancy french resturaunt and having it paid for and then dancing accompanied by great conversation and a little wine constitute a Date.

It is more along the lines of people in general, and not just women, only see what they want to see.

As for being bad once in a while, I am all over that. One of my Ex's really taught me all about the tease, and how it could last all evening, or sometimes all day long. Touches as we walked, caresses as we passed, whispers in the ear, secret glances in crowded rooms. Even phone calls in the middle of the day to kick things off. And as for adventurous in bed, there are very few things that I haven't/won't try. There is a time and place for vanilla, but there is a time and place for spicy also.

 

[Succulent-one]

Fear is definitely NOT the issue where I am concerned. In most cases, it simply never occured to these women that getting flowers at the beginning of the evening, going to a fancy french resturaunt and having it paid for and then dancing accompanied by great conversation and a little wine constitute a Date.

It is more along the lines of people in general, and not just women, only see what they want to see.

As for being bad once in a while, I am all over that. One of my Ex's really taught me all about the tease, and how it could last all evening, or sometimes all day long. Touches as we walked, caresses as we passed, whispers in the ear, secret glances in crowded rooms. Even phone calls in the middle of the day to kick things off. And as for adventurous in bed, there are very few things that I haven't/won't try. There is a time and place for vanilla, but there is a time and place for spicy also.

Dang, so where in the heck are you and why aren't you older?? I would snatch you up in a heart beat!. Seriously though......I will stop with the philosphy and move on to traits I find admirable..... I know all ready that you possess some of these, but I will list them anyway.....You have to be able to laugh, not just at jokes but at what little surprises life brings along, .....enjoy the tease......capable of carrying on an intelligent conversation......is interested in more than what is on TV.......likes to be adventursome in the bed room and out side the bed room as well....you need to be financially responsible but not a cheap scate......punctual.....neat, clean and well groomed (take a bath, brush your teeth, cut you hair, and wear clean clothes LOL), enjoys public displays of affection, ......has to be romantic to some extent......tries to use some self control over gasious bodily emissions.....decent table manners......kind, gentle, not a drama queen or king LOL,......likes some physical activity, no not a super jock, just active.... hold down a job.....no scratching in public LOL.....hey, these are just basics, there is no mystery or rocket science here......I wish you the best

 

[A-nonimous]

...You have to be able to laugh, not just at jokes but at what little surprises life brings along,

"Laugh and the world laughs with you. Cry and you cry alone."

...enjoy the tease...

"Watch, Tease, Play, please. What more are these then tools of our "Adult" pleasure?" "Or, more simply, if it feels good to her, go with it."

...capable of carrying on an intelligent conversation...is interested in more than what is on TV...likes to be adventursome in the bed room and out side the bed room as well.

Intelligent, observant, occasionally insightful, mildly entertaining, playful, attentive, spontaneously romantic. Also, Voyeuristic, hedonistic, inventive, insatiable, kinky and adventurous.

...you need to be financially responsible but not a cheap scate......punctual.....neat, clean and well groomed (take a bath, brush your teeth, cut you hair, and wear clean clothes LOL)...

I make ends meet and still have money left over for the fun things in life.

...enjoys public displays of affection, ......has to be romantic to some extent...

Sorry, when I am kissing the right gal, it doesn't matter if the whole world is looking on, it is just the two of us.

...tries to use some self control over gasious bodily emissions...

I will, if you will.

...decent table manners......kind, gentle, not a drama queen or king LOL,...

Hold the door for a lady? Please and thank you? Helps clean up the dishes after a meal? Introductions, thank you notes, has all his teeth? That what you mean?

...likes some physical activity, no not a super jock, just active....

Now, what EXACTLY did you have in mind?

hold down a job.....no scratching in public LOL.....hey, these are just basics, there is no mystery or rocket science here......I wish you the best

Thanks for the list. and the good wishes.

 

[Succulent-one]

"Laugh and the world laughs with you. Cry and you cry alone."



"Watch, Tease, Play, please. What more are these then tools of our "Adult" pleasure?" "Or, more simply, if it feels good to her, go with it."



Intelligent, observant, occasionally insightful, mildly entertaining, playful, attentive, spontaneously romantic. Also, Voyeuristic, hedonistic, inventive, insatiable, kinky and adventurous.



I make ends meet and still have money left over for the fun things in life.



Sorry, when I am kissing the right gal, it doesn't matter if the whole world is looking on, it is just the two of us.



I will, if you will.



Hold the door for a lady? Please and thank you? Helps clean up the dishes after a meal? Introductions, thank you notes, has all his teeth? That what you mean?



Now, what EXACTLY did you have in mind?



Thanks for the list. and the good wishes.

You sound like one heck of a great guy! Keep trying......it is their loss for not snatching you upShe is out there waiting just for you!

 

[A-nonimous]

You sound like one heck of a great guy! Keep trying......it is their loss for not snatching you upShe is out there waiting just for you!

Always looking to find someone nice to lavish with affections. thanks for the ideas.