Romantic, Intense & Genuine Heartfelt connections - Is that still possible on Lit? Seeking that spark......intently.

[Glamguy7]

Bumping this ad, after around 2 years. I am grateful for 2 beautiful friendships that I found here, it was love-passion-and connection all in a nutshell. Our lives did come together for some time. I miss that spark once more and hope to find somebody who rhymes with what I search for. Are you looking for the same?

 

[Samantha47]

Bumping this ad, after around 2 years. I am grateful for 2 beautiful friendships that I found here, it was love-passion-and connection all in a nutshell. Our lives did come together for some time. I miss that spark once more and hope to find somebody who rhymes with what I search for. Are you looking for the same?

Very nice

 

[SPARTAN047]

I would really enjoy what you found, I wish you good luck!

I wish it was the same for a cynic like me. Good luck to everyone who found this.

 

[Glamguy7]

Very nice

Sweet of you to comment. How are you doing? I remember you are in my friends/fan list. I feel that genuine connections and sparks are the true flavor of life, it allows us to feel human, desired and celebrated for who we are. That is what sparks true sensuality! I am hoping to find it once more.

 

[SPARTAN047]

It's easy to get cynical in our society and even here, just keep in mind there are diamonds in the rough everywhere.

Agreed, I've grown very tired mining them though.

 

[Glamguy7]

I wish it was the same for a cynic like me. Good luck to everyone who found this.

Hi @SPARTAN047 I hear you. It is not easy but yes I am grateful there are some very sweet and lovely souls here. A million times have I lost hope here. But sometimes when the timing is right beautiful sparks happen. What starts as a friendly hello, takes us on a journey which fills the yearning of the hearts.

 

[SPARTAN047]

Hi @SPARTAN047 I hear you. It is not easy but yes I am grateful there are some very sweet and lovely souls here. A million times have I lost hope here. But sometimes when the timing is right beautiful sparks happen. What starts as a friendly hello, takes us on a journey which fills the yearning of the hearts.

Theoretically possible. Very difficult to do IRL.

 

[Glamguy7]

Bump

 

[Glamguy7]

Hmm....thinking if I should still keep this thread/search alive...?

 

[_BassAckwards_]

Have you tried the Politics Board?
Jokes aside, good luck in your search.

 

[Glamguy7]

Have you tried the Politics Board?
Jokes aside, good luck in your search.

I am grateful, I have found nice beautiful people here when I first started looking. So yes, it does not have to go to the politics board, I suppose it takes time for the right person to appear.

 

[Ssbbw4u1974]

Is there nobody who has ever experienced this?

I have found a few great connections here

 

[Glamguy7]

Looking for the one is a lot of pressure, connections are sort of tricky - you got it till it's gone. I heard it's good to cast a wide net and cultivate all bites until you click.

That is so wise of you to say @SeleneLuna. You are so correct! That is the exact intent I had with this ad. Appreciate you chiming in.

 

[Glamguy7]

Giving this search a soft "Bump".

And, please don't April Fool me

 

[Glamguy7]

Bump

 

[Glamguy7]

Still hoping...

 

[Samantha47]

Still hoping...

Me too

 

[Glamguy7]

Greetings from Abu Dhabi: YES…indeed the best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even be touched - They must be felt with the heart.

It’s like the mind remembering the words, but the heart remembers how it feels. The mind can forget, but the heart never will. As such true and meaningful connections here at LIT are generally hard to come by. Like someone here commented way earlier: “It’s like trying in finding a needle in a haystack.” Almost everywhere. As such many of us woman when we are alone, spend a lot of time fantasizing and wishing for certain types of men. Accompanied during late nights in our ever-ending hyper romantic feelings and dreams.

There must have been dozen of my dates where we were out in the wide open desert and the stars spreading their millions of lights down below us, brilliant against the night's black backdrop. These are bittersweet memories. After a while there was always something missing in our touches; our scents, something missing in our deep kisses. Soon after these nights together he would go to another city, another continent and we lose contact. I often think of contacting him again, but then, perhaps, it is better to remember our moments without wanting more. But we desperately wanted to be in love. I suppose we were trying too hard. But yet I keep on sending him ’Love Letters’ and tossing them out there against the cloud-scudded sky and having them glow brilliant as comets against the endless black. Hope keeps on floating. Best…lilly!

Pictures:

1. Abu Dhabi at the Palace, where Trump will be arriving today in a mere few hours time. The Etihad Towers in the background. It’s a small world after all.

2. Expat Times: With the boys on the job. 110 F degrees in the shade.

3. Every Friday night out for dinner. Here: Seafood Buffet at the Shangri La Hotel Qaryat Al Beri.

4. Incognito at the Qasr Al Watan Presidential Palace. It’s all in my eyes.

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Loved your words Lillian!! Those eyes are so fascinating and full of fire, I love those kind of intense deep eyes. Thanks for sharing your world so openly and for sharing a glance of the mesmerizing middle-east. I hear your words and feel what you have shared, the heart always remembers. I am glad that you chose to express them here, it brings me joy and solace that these are not mere yearnings, but a deep desire of the heart which you reflected so well. So here is a gentle kiss for your lovely eyes and lips! You share about "Love-letters" and those messages glowing back as stars in the dark night shy....oh....you are a romantic at heart! I would love to hear more.
I love these pics you shared. Shangri La IS GORGEOUS! The Qasr Ai Watan palace is mesmerizing! I have heard of them. And yes, you look gorgeous in black.

 

[Glamguy7]

I must confess, I have found some of my most beautiful connections here came from mature women, who seem to deeply rhyme with the feelings of the heart, carried the old romance vibe and balanced the erotica & sensuality of the body & heart in a meaningful way! These were meaningful friendships beyond the casual play or surface banter! I learnt a lot and perhaps that is why I have a deep respect & admiration/love for the feminine. I wonder if the romantic sensuality/erotica era is becoming rare in this fast food economy of instant pleasure??

 

[Glamguy7]

My Dear Pawan: I do not get these kind of ’heart felt’ responses very often. Yours is a Lit first and so very special to me. Thank You! As such I will now write for you and while voices of my pasts and in foreign tongues speak to me.

WHERE OR WHERE CAN MY TRUE LOVE BE: Indeed there is no place to better working and residing in the UAE. I have been here for over 12 expat years and with previously having held similar senior executive posts in Singapore, Jakarta, London-Canary Wharf, HK with CK Hutchison and in Berlin at SONY HQ. A full life, a true adventure and total independence...it has been.

Yes...one my previously posted picture does show a glimpse of my architectural background and education as it has always fascinated me. Thanks to the cross registration and coordination with MIT’s architecture program, I was able at Wellesley to complete a variety of design studios. Little did I know then that these and my certifications in the many years ahead would play a major expat tune?

WHAT WOULD YOU SEE BEING NOW HERE WITH ME? Perhaps my deep blue eyes sparkling and seeing a glint of longing, aroused by my every sense, sight, sound, and touch about you? Tickling my senses; wandering through the edges of my emotions and sensually amid my forest of thoughts bursting of erotic desire. “Parles-moi d'amour, toi, vieux metteur en scene de toutes mes fantasies.” (Talk to me of love, you who orchestrates the aspects of all my fantasies)

Pictures:

1. Dubai: Boardroom Times: A weekly mandatory meeting for updates on site development, design, construction, marketing, financial accountability and leasing progress.

2. Abu Dhabi Weekend Entertainment: A repeated trip to a private island, a private boat and a secluded Villa. After a hard week of work it’s now a time for fantasies and desires needing to be revisited and to cumming true again. In the background the looming Etihad towers with its Avenue shops the very best luxury shopping in the Capital city! Life is good!

3. An Early Afternoon Moment. Lunch was about to be served and delivered. I always loved the small pleasure pavilions in the form of Itheir slamic architecture, filled with oriental nostalgia, pieces with Napoleon III furniture, creating interiors that can be described as serenely exotic. Marveling at the labyrinth layout of rooms with soaring ceiling heights, the corridors and terraces and with floors continuously paved with diamond-pattern black-and-white tiles. So perfect in walking that walk and talking that talk and parading for him in my 4-inch stilettos gleaming like lipstick!

4. Waiting and Hoping: For him at the door. I love these moments not knowing what our ensuing days and nights together may bring. My hopes, my highly charged romantic visions, my D/s needs and fantasies merging into one complete tableaux vivant.

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Appreciate your words Lillian! You are so welcome. Your story is so fascinating both on the professional and personal front! Congratulations on taking the gauntlet and running with it. It is when we truly give ourselves the opportunity to truly flower on all fronts that our souls furl in glory. And yes, I mean in our private lives too!!

An Architectural landscape you have painted with your career stints in so many countries, but most importantly an opportunity to delve in the culture of these places. I have desired such a life too. Have explored a bit but not to the full depths you have engaged as of date. Simply marvelous! Affiliated with the MIT program you say and Wellesley? Wow that is stupendous! I adore women who carve their own paths.

What do I see!! Hmm.....I see a deep longing, a fire that can be a fuel to my own yearning!! Sight, sound, touch......add "smell", "taste" to it but yes the right spices arise from the depths of the soul when there is mutual intent and engagement. I like how you touch upon the details of everything. Of love, I love to talk about....these forces are beyond imagination, not to be bound and controlled, for these are as natural and raw as the call of nature, to rise, to merge and to explode in ways that bring new journeys and fulfilment to the anvil! I hear and sense your words...!!

The pics are gorgeous! Thanks for sharing them here. They incite something deep and primal in me. You do talk about "For him", which brings to me a feeling that you might have no dearth of suitors and those who have walked with you enjoying and partaking of these moments I talk about. So perhaps you do have lovers and those who value you as a person and soul. That is a blessing! Romance and the bliss of D/S, it is an enticing deep world, the surface of which, I have only started to know and understand.

 

[Glamguy7]

Yes indeed for me the romantic sensuality/erotica era has been a rarity to see and to experience. Perhaps it is because I never took enough of my time? Not looking hard and deep enough into the right opportunities. Too much moving around from city to city and working internationally!

But I am still maintaining our family home in Rancho Mirage which used to be our ’mid-century’ snowbird residence. The feeling in keeping something permanent in the USA allowed me a sense of security; belonging and keeping great childhood memories. Besides I love the ’laissez faire’ lifestyle of Palm Springs. Returning permanently to the USA will however be major challenge for me, as having worked on several continents; being showered with many open and unbiased views of the world; closely working with over 30 different nationalities and cultures; being fancy-free for all of this time…did bring about certain consequences. Including the many matters of love and its given commitments. For me unfortunately those commitments continuing to be high walls for me and which ultimately may be closing-in onto and over my world.

Like you I have always been deeply pulled to the depths of romance and love. My dream. Your dream. Our collective dream. We share the same dream you and I and where the real world could never come for us. I cannot promise I'll be back to you, for I will be keeping and continue in seeking refuge within my present world and exorcising my D/s demons lurking in the deeps.

Thus I must run, and please don't deny me that pleasure. But I instinctively know that once I do find the right one, I will hold him tightly; pressing him with ferocity within the pages of my life as you might press a rose within the pages of a favorite book. Allowing the pages of the book to suck the very essence of the rose, the color, the taste of a petal crushed between my teeth; the scent of rose; the somewhat private scent of memory. And then...“Je suis libre: comme le vent, je suis libre.” (Like the wind, I am finally free)

Pictures:

1. Abu Dhabi: My company apartment. ThIs is only a small part of the extra privileges that corporate expats enjoy. Making it all worthwhile working internationally and in a land where ’Thousand and One Nights’ always seem to come true.

2. Late Evening Dinner: Not many times like these exist. An intmate at home dinner arranged two weeks before Christmas in the U.S. This was after we felt committable to each other and sparks were flying in my heart! And then there was I in a simple Chanel dress. A fabulous strand of golden South Sea pearls and walking over to him with a see-saw sway of my inviting hips. I was fascinated by his charm and was a sucker for his accent. But like so many times before…in the end the baggage is starting to arrive, like with so many Men in my life before and turning everything upside down.

3. Abu Dhabi: Bad girls work harder. Villa times and playing his submissive fantasy Nurse. I knew what he expected of me. Looking back we started sharing our fantasies on FetLife and along with his fine literary qualities, gave our merged fantasies an inescapable intensity. We would communicate for months on end; late into the night and taking almost a year before we finally met in the flesh.

4. Abu Dhabi: At the Grand Mosque. Under cover in a black Abaya and a Sheila, a headscarf, a crucial element of traditional Emirati attire. He often complimented me the way I gotten dressed-up for him. The way I moved; walking that walk and talking that talk. My full pouty red painted lips and the ‘’tick tack track’’ of my heels on the Mosque tile loors singing its siren song. The way my FF nylons rubbed greedily against each other under the Abaya.

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Thanks for sharing more, Lilian. These pics are just out of the ordinary. I have a deep fascination and love for architecture especially of the past, among different cultures, Christianity, Islam, Buddhism and Hinduism included. But Islamic architecture is something!! I hope I can travel some day to these places of yore and bathe myself in the splendor of human and god's creations!!

Rancho Mirage at the Palm Springs! I have heard of the opulence and beauty of the Palm springs. The Coachella valley is so famous for its stunning desert landscapes, I have never been there though. I do have a feeling that this search for the ultimate transcendence in love has brought in its wake a hundred lovers, all experiences partaken of, in that light, I am still unexperienced, having led a very conservative, behind the scenes life, however I hear and feel the whisperings of the soul. Yes, after a lifetime of working around the world, coming back to the US for life, can be tricky. I have been a loner in some sense but have delved in the mysteries of the world in ways that has helped me tap into the blessings and magic that life brings.

Yes, my yearning for the depths of romance and the rawness of deep desire is primal and in a way sacred. I do hear you what you state when you say about exorcising your D/S demons, and I respect your individual journey. Abu Dhabi is really beautiful! I love it. Enjoy it.

These pics and the beautiful architecture reminds me of the "Aladdin movie" and the Paulo Coelho classic - "The Alchemist" and "Maktub".

 

[Glamguy7]

Yes indeed for me the romantic sensuality/erotica era has been a rarity to see and to experience. Perhaps it is because I never took enough of my time? Not looking hard and deep enough into the right opportunities. Too much moving around from city to city and working internationally!

Returning permanently to the USA will however be major challenge for me, as having worked on several continents; being showered with many open and unbiased views of the world; closely working with over 30 different nationalities and cultures...did bring about certain consequences. Including in he many matters of love and its given commitments. For me unfortunately those commitments continuing to be high walls for me and which ultimately may be closing-in onto and over my world.

Like you I have always been deeply pulled to the depths of romance and love. My dream. Your dream. Our collective dream. We share the same dream you and I and where the real world could never come for us. I cannot promise I'll be back to you, for I will be keeping and continue in seeking refuge within my present world and exorcising my D/s demons lurking in the deeps.

Thus I must run, and please don't deny me that pleasure. But I instinctively know that once I do find the right one, I will hold him tightly; pressing him with ferocity within the pages of my life as you might press a rose within the pages of a favorite book. Allowing the pages of the book to suck the very essence of the rose, the color, the taste of a petal crushed between my teeth; the scent of rose; the somewhat private scent of memory. And then...“Je suis libre: comme le vent, je suis libre.” (Like the wind, I am finally free)

Pictures:

1. Late Evening Dinner: Not many times like these exist. An intmate at home dinner arranged two weeks before Christmas in the U.S. This was after we felt committable to each other and sparks were flying into my heart! And then there was I in a simple Chanel dress. With my fabulous strand of golden South Sea pearls and walking over to him with a see-saw sway of my inviting hips. I was fascinated by his charm and was a sucker for his accent. But like so many times before with my Men…in the end their inevitable baggage and final truths are starting to reval themselves and turning everything upside down. For me love, a dream and hope all coming to an end!

3. Abu Dhabi: Bad girls work harder. Villa times and playing his submissive fantasy Nurse. I knew what he expected of me. Looking back we started sharing our fantasies on FetLife and along with his exeptional literary qualities, gave our merged fantasies an inescapable intensity. We would communicate for months on end; late into the night and taking almost a year before we finally met in the flesh.

4. Abu Dhabi: At the Grand Mosque. Never a cloud in the sky. It never rains. Under cover in a black Abaya and a Sheila, a headscarf, a crucial element of traditional Emirati attire. He often complimented me the way I gotten dressed-up for him. The way I moved; walking that walk and talking that talk. My full pouty red painted lips and the ‘’tick tack track’’ of my heels on the Mosque tile loors singing its siren song. The way my FF nylons rubbed greedily against each other under the Abaya.

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Lilian, I love the honesty and openness that you exude in your replies.It allows me to see and feel you better. Love and its commitments. I sense it but also love your attention to it. I enjoyed these lines so much - once I do find the right one, I will hold him tightly; pressing him with ferocity within the pages of my life as you might press a rose within the pages of a favorite book. Allowing the pages of the book to suck the very essence of the rose, the color, the taste of a petal crushed between my teeth; the scent of rose; the somewhat private scent of memory.
This is exactly the intensity I feel within myself, To consume all of my beloved in all ways, until there is nothing left - In and out! Even for once or a hundred times again and again.

 

[kathyisgr65]

I have been a member of our for a billion years..ok slight exaggeration..but for a long time and I have made a few dear friends..many naughty friends.. but til recently not caught feelings..in fact I always thought it was silly to get attached to someone u have never met . physically.
As I said until recently.. but I have met my match in personality and goofiness..warm kind and definitely my twisted dark desires .
So .yes it is.. but it's not a common occurrence...for me anyway

 

[Glamguy7]

I have been a member of our for a billion years..ok slight exaggeration..but for a long time and I have made a few dear friends..many naughty friends.. but til recently not caught feelings..in fact I always thought it was silly to get attached to someone u have never met . physically.
As I said until recently.. but I have met my match in personality and goofiness..warm kind and definitely my twisted dark desires .
So .yes it is.. but it's not a common occurrence...for me anyway

So nice of you to share your thoughts here @kathyisgr65 . I am glad that you found somebody lovely who treasures you. I would so love such a person, somebody to open up to and spend some time with. It brings such a deeper fulfillment to our lives.

 

[hotcpu]

Greetings from Abu Dhabi: YES…indeed the best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even be touched - They must be felt with the heart.

It’s like the mind remembering the words, but the heart remembers how it feels. The mind can forget, but the heart never will. As such true and meaningful connections here at LIT are generally hard to come by. Like someone here commented way earlier: “It’s like trying in finding a needle in a haystack.” Almost everywhere. As such many of us woman when we are alone, spend a lot of time fantasizing and wishing for certain types of men. Accompanied during late nights in our ever-ending hyper romantic feelings and dreams.

There must have been dozen of my dates where we were out in the wide open desert and the stars spreading their millions of lights down below us, brilliant against the night's black backdrop. These are bittersweet memories. After a while there was always something missing in our touches; our scents, something missing in our deep kisses. Soon after these nights together he would go to another city, another continent and we lose contact. I often think of contacting him again, but then, perhaps, it is better to remember our moments without wanting more. But we desperately wanted to be in love. I suppose we were trying too hard. But yet I keep on sending him ’Love Letters’ and tossing them out there against the cloud-scudded sky and having them glow brilliant as comets against the endless black. Hope keeps on floating. Best…lilly!

Pictures:

1. Abu Dhabi at the Presidemtial Palace, where Trump will be arriving today. The Etihad Towers in the background. It’s a small world after all.

2. Expat Times: Onsite in Dubai with the boys on the job. 110 F degrees in the shade. Loving my Job and the people.

3. Every Friday night out for dinner. Here: Seafood Buffet at the Shangri La Hotel Qaryat Al Beri.

4. Incognito at the Qasr Al Watan Palace. It’s all in my eyes.

The idea of being where black skies still can be seen is such a romantic and seemingly far away place here on the island. Love reading your exploits!!