What do smart, sexy younger women look for in older guys?

All of this, but particularly that last point. Matched with a guy who seemed normal. His mother still does his laundry, cooks his food, cleans up after him and takes care of his children. This "man" is 40 years old.
We're all lazy creatures and if someone will look after us we tend to take the easy way. But females have responsibility thrust on them early in life and have role models, in their mothers, that do a lot of the work in raising a family and often dote on their sons
 
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I'm an older man, 54, with some stories here, but I am always curious about what makes the older man/younger woman dynamic click. Yes, I'm experienced in this area, but one can never learn too much :) Any thoughts from younger women would be much appreciated. And who knows what can happen from there?
Its the fact that they are experienced both in and out of the bedroom and they know how to treat a lady well, at least from my perspective coming from dating 5 older men in my early 20s haha!
 
Its the fact that they are experienced both in and out of the bedroom and they know how to treat a lady well, at least from my perspective coming from dating 5 older men in my early 20s haha!
I’m 8 years older than my wife, who I started dating when she was in her early twenties. By then I had bedded around 50 women. She had done about 20 guys. So we each knew what we wanted and how to treat the opposite sex. I value not only her beauty and sexuality, but also her brains and sense of humor. And I never take her for granted, always tell her that too. She’s probably bored of hearing it, lol.
 
I’m 8 years older than my wife, who I started dating when she was in her early twenties. By then I had bedded around 50 women. She had done about 20 guys. So we each knew what we wanted and how to treat the opposite sex. I value not only her beauty and sexuality, but also her brains and sense of humor. And I never take her for granted, always tell her that too. She’s probably bored of hearing it, lol.
You sir are the definition of a real man
 
Took me a while to realize that making a woman orgasm is more sexually satisfying than having my own orgasm (although I like that too). It’s so amazing that you can bring a woman to that level of pleasure; that her legs are shaking and she begs you to stop. But you don’t….
I don't usually give personal details. But my husband is yelling at me to reply, "YES! Tell him he's right!" I am happy to say, my hubby is in your corner, on this!

I can attest that he lives by that, from my side.
 
Not unlike the scene in "Broadcast News" when Albert Brooks (Aaron) is on the phone with Holly Hunter (Jane).

Jane - "I have passed some line some place. I am beginning to repel people I'm trying to seduce."
Aaron - "He must have been great-looking."
Jane - "Why do you say that?"
Aaron - "Because nobody invites a bad-looking idiot to their hotel room."

lots and lots of it too!
"There's an intersection point on the male "Goofy-looking/Rich" chart, that shows when a man reaches a certain level of wealth, it no longer matters how goofy he may look."

Taken from a Youtube video on a scientifically presented (tongue in cheek) chart of male attractiveness to women based on whether the guy is goofy-looking or wealthy.

 
You sir are the definition of a real man
Thank you, but I’m just an average guy that was raised to respect women. Had a strong mother and two sisters. Always open doors for girls when I dated, always open doors for my wife. I look at my wife as my intellectual equal and seek her wisdom when making decisions. Her point of view maybe different than mine, but I find that in life and work, seeking different opinions and points of view make for wiser decisions. I don’t have all the answers. Nobody does.

A woman’s intellect is something that compliments her beauty and her body. It completes the package, and when you have all that, you have someone worthy of your love and devotion, and fiery passion.
 
"There's an intersection point on the male "Goofy-looking/Rich" chart, that shows when a man reaches a certain level of wealth, it no longer matters how goofy he may look."

Taken from a Youtube video on a scientifically presented (tongue in cheek) chart of male attractiveness to women based on whether the guy is goofy-looking or wealthy.

I couldn't say it any better LOL
 
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