What Are You Thinking? Continued 14

I don't
What am I thinking right now?

To be totally honest… I miss having a person. My person. Someone to split a bottle of red with over a warm home-cooked dinner, curled up on the sofa with candles burning and the scent of freshly washed laundry in the air. I want those deep, passionate kisses that turn into ripping each others clothes off, not bothering to pick them up as we run and chase each other upstairs to fuck like rabbits on the corridor floor outside of the bedroom.

I want all of that until I realise that late nights binge watching Yellowjackets with a Pinot in hand, kitties on the bed and my titties hanging out of my vest top will be ruined. The toilet seat will always be up. Someone’s dirty boxers all over the house. And my peace forever ruined.

Is it really worth it ladies. 🥱.
I don't usually defend my own gender, but we don't ALL leave the seat up or boxers everywhere, I'd be divorced if I did😂. Maybe not entirely true. If I wasn't a clean human being able to take care of my own shit I wouldn't be married to the woman I am, and therefore not married. Clean capable guys are out there.
 
I don't usually defend my own gender, but we don't ALL leave the seat up or boxers everywhere, I'd be divorced if I did😂. Maybe not entirely true. If I wasn't a clean human being able to take care of my own shit I wouldn't be married to the woman I am, and therefore not married. Clean capable guys are out there.
This needs one of these... 😂

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I’ve seen some people here opine that there are a handful of men who get all the women here, at one time or another.
If I can ask...is it men or women who think this?

In my ignorance, and as A Man On Lit, I just figured that with  x women and 4x men here, women who want a man can be relatively picky, while lots of guys won't always get a date. Purely because of the maths.

What about the other way round? Do people similarly think it's just a handful of women who get all the men?

Sometimes, I think that in spite of being here for seven years I understand fuck all about this place.
 
It's a beautiful day, I'm on holiday I can see the sea.
As expected had a row last night.
How much longer can I put up with this. Probably longer than most.
 
I don't

I don't usually defend my own gender, but we don't ALL leave the seat up or boxers everywhere, I'd be divorced if I did😂. Maybe not entirely true. If I wasn't a clean human being able to take care of my own shit I wouldn't be married to the woman I am, and therefore not married. Clean capable guys are out there.
Oh don’t worry, I know it’s not all men. Just like not all women can cook, want to carry babies or are good folding fitted sheets. I was being a lil dramatic for comedic effect ;)
 
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Please please feel free to dm me and tell me the choice you ended up making. I feel forever stuck in a loop of… do I choose me. But stay lonely. Because I’m not afraid of admitting I do get… lonely. Or do I settle.
(Dating just doesn’t work for me.)
Advice from women just hits different and I would seriously, seriouslyyyy appreciate it.
Sorry for the thread hog! 🐷
Never ever settle
 
If I can ask...is it men or women who think this?

In my ignorance, and as A Man On Lit, I just figured that with  x women and 4x men here, women who want a man can be relatively picky, while lots of guys won't always get a date. Purely because of the maths.

What about the other way round? Do people similarly think it's just a handful of women who get all the men?

Sometimes, I think that in spite of being here for seven years I understand fuck all about this place.
It’s men I’ve seen saying this - they seem to resent the men who they think “get” all the women… but really, I just think that the men who they think get women are on the boards engaging with the women as if, shocker, the women are just other people! Radical approach, I know. And therefore they get more engagement from women and it makes the men who are all about just blatantly hitting on women feel like they are “getting” them in some sexual sense.
 
If I can ask...is it men or women who think this?

In my ignorance, and as A Man On Lit, I just figured that with  x women and 4x men here, women who want a man can be relatively picky, while lots of guys won't always get a date. Purely because of the maths.

What about the other way round? Do people similarly think it's just a handful of women who get all the men?

Sometimes, I think that in spite of being here for seven years I understand fuck all about this place.
The knots people twist themselves into here is something I consider a special interest 😋

It’s men and women.

Like @cheekygirl75 said, men assume the “popular” men on the boards, such as redacted and redacted for example, have complete access to any woman he wants based on their like/post ratio. Women assume the “popular” women are being fawned and lusted after by their Lit crush because they left a heart react. Men assume that “popular” women regularly and joyfully swap/share Lit men between each other. Women assume that men see them as disposable.

It all leads to apathy and typically, their solution is to withdraw which only perpetuates the self induced cycle of isolation, comparison, shame/depression, and more isolation.

Counter argument to all the losers claiming loserism - we are all losers and that’s why we’re here and not shaking our ass on a yacht 🛥️ 🙄
 
The knots people twist themselves into here is something I consider a special interest 😋

It’s men and women.

Like @cheekygirl75 said, men assume the “popular” men on the boards, such as redacted and redacted for example, have complete access to any woman he wants based on their like/post ratio. Women assume the “popular” women are being fawned and lusted after by their Lit crush because they left a heart react. Men assume that “popular” women regularly and joyfully swap/share Lit men between each other. Women assume that men see them as disposable.

It all leads to apathy and typically, their solution is to withdraw which only perpetuates the self induced cycle of isolation, comparison, shame/depression, and more isolation.

Counter argument to all the losers claiming loserism - we are all losers and that’s why we’re here and not shaking our ass on a yacht 🛥️ 🙄
I would tack on the idea that "popular" men are simply the one's who aren't taking it all so seriously and, in actuality, aren't trying too hard to fuck anyone. It's amazing how attractive "normal" can seem on Lit. I think its the highest of compliments.
 
The knots people twist themselves into here is something I consider a special interest 😋

It’s men and women.

Like @cheekygirl75 said, men assume the “popular” men on the boards, such as redacted and redacted for example, have complete access to any woman he wants based on their like/post ratio. Women assume the “popular” women are being fawned and lusted after by their Lit crush because they left a heart react. Men assume that “popular” women regularly and joyfully swap/share Lit men between each other. Women assume that men see them as disposable.

It all leads to apathy and typically, their solution is to withdraw which only perpetuates the self induced cycle of isolation, comparison, shame/depression, and more isolation.

Counter argument to all the losers claiming loserism - we are all losers and that’s why we’re here and not shaking our ass on a yacht 🛥️ 🙄
Hey now... shaking ass on a smaller, well-maintained catamaran is just as good as doing it on a yacht.
 
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