What Are You Thinking? Continued 14

[Abeona1]

It's a beautiful day, I'm on holiday I can see the sea.
As expected had a row last night.
How much longer can I put up with this. Probably longer than most.

 

[SpicyBean99]

I don't

I don't usually defend my own gender, but we don't ALL leave the seat up or boxers everywhere, I'd be divorced if I did. Maybe not entirely true. If I wasn't a clean human being able to take care of my own shit I wouldn't be married to the woman I am, and therefore not married. Clean capable guys are out there.

Oh don’t worry, I know it’s not all men. Just like not all women can cook, want to carry babies or are good folding fitted sheets. I was being a lil dramatic for comedic effect

 

[Jaws82]

Please please feel free to dm me and tell me the choice you ended up making. I feel forever stuck in a loop of… do I choose me. But stay lonely. Because I’m not afraid of admitting I do get… lonely. Or do I settle.
(Dating just doesn’t work for me.)
Advice from women just hits different and I would seriously, seriouslyyyy appreciate it.
Sorry for the thread hog!

Never ever settle

 

[cheekygirl75]

If I can ask...is it men or women who think this?

In my ignorance, and as A Man On Lit, I just figured that with  x women and 4x men here, women who want a man can be relatively picky, while lots of guys won't always get a date. Purely because of the maths.

What about the other way round? Do people similarly think it's just a handful of women who get all the men?

Sometimes, I think that in spite of being here for seven years I understand fuck all about this place.

It’s men I’ve seen saying this - they seem to resent the men who they think “get” all the women… but really, I just think that the men who they think get women are on the boards engaging with the women as if, shocker, the women are just other people! Radical approach, I know. And therefore they get more engagement from women and it makes the men who are all about just blatantly hitting on women feel like they are “getting” them in some sexual sense.

 

[Sexy_Singer]

 

[SimplyMsT]

I think it's time to get ready for my dr's appointment ...

ACK!

 

[EvaLane]

If I can ask...is it men or women who think this?

In my ignorance, and as A Man On Lit, I just figured that with  x women and 4x men here, women who want a man can be relatively picky, while lots of guys won't always get a date. Purely because of the maths.

What about the other way round? Do people similarly think it's just a handful of women who get all the men?

Sometimes, I think that in spite of being here for seven years I understand fuck all about this place.

The knots people twist themselves into here is something I consider a special interest

It’s men and women.

Like @cheekygirl75 said, men assume the “popular” men on the boards, such as redacted and redacted for example, have complete access to any woman he wants based on their like/post ratio. Women assume the “popular” women are being fawned and lusted after by their Lit crush because they left a heart react. Men assume that “popular” women regularly and joyfully swap/share Lit men between each other. Women assume that men see them as disposable.

It all leads to apathy and typically, their solution is to withdraw which only perpetuates the self induced cycle of isolation, comparison, shame/depression, and more isolation.

Counter argument to all the losers claiming loserism - we are all losers and that’s why we’re here and not shaking our ass on a yacht

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

The knots people twist themselves into here is something I consider a special interest

It’s men and women.

Like @cheekygirl75 said, men assume the “popular” men on the boards, such as redacted and redacted for example, have complete access to any woman he wants based on their like/post ratio. Women assume the “popular” women are being fawned and lusted after by their Lit crush because they left a heart react. Men assume that “popular” women regularly and joyfully swap/share Lit men between each other. Women assume that men see them as disposable.

It all leads to apathy and typically, their solution is to withdraw which only perpetuates the self induced cycle of isolation, comparison, shame/depression, and more isolation.

Counter argument to all the losers claiming loserism - we are all losers and that’s why we’re here and not shaking our ass on a yacht

I would tack on the idea that "popular" men are simply the one's who aren't taking it all so seriously and, in actuality, aren't trying too hard to fuck anyone. It's amazing how attractive "normal" can seem on Lit. I think its the highest of compliments.

 

[LordofDargaardkeep]

shaking our ass on a yacht

I don't have yacht but I have a canoe and a blow up raft... You're welcome to shake either but we are likely to tip over
None of us are losers! We are all pretty fortunate to have the opportunity to be here

 

[LostHorizon]

What list? The haters of blue cheese? I mean it’s a bit stinky I’ll admit.

Blue cheese sucks ass… well, figuratively not literally anyway.

It literally tastes like sucking ass…

 

[Crownvic]

Great song from the mid 60s...

 

[cocokittysurprise]

The knots people twist themselves into here is something I consider a special interest

It’s men and women.

Like @cheekygirl75 said, men assume the “popular” men on the boards, such as redacted and redacted for example, have complete access to any woman he wants based on their like/post ratio. Women assume the “popular” women are being fawned and lusted after by their Lit crush because they left a heart react. Men assume that “popular” women regularly and joyfully swap/share Lit men between each other. Women assume that men see them as disposable.

It all leads to apathy and typically, their solution is to withdraw which only perpetuates the self induced cycle of isolation, comparison, shame/depression, and more isolation.

Counter argument to all the losers claiming loserism - we are all losers and that’s why we’re here and not shaking our ass on a yacht

Hey now... shaking ass on a smaller, well-maintained catamaran is just as good as doing it on a yacht.

 

[LostHorizon]

I was going to sleep, then she said hi, now my penis doesn't know what to do

The penis always knows what to do. It’s more like we don’t know what to do with it sometimes.

 

[PotNoodle79]

The penis always knows what to do. It’s more like we don’t know what to do with it sometimes.

When the dick is hard, the mind is soft.

 

[LostHorizon]

When the dick is hard, the mind is soft.

That’s brilliant! That explains why my mind is mush.

 

[LostHorizon]

The knots people twist themselves into here is something I consider a special interest

It’s men and women.

Like @cheekygirl75 said, men assume the “popular” men on the boards, such as redacted and redacted for example, have complete access to any woman he wants based on their like/post ratio. Women assume the “popular” women are being fawned and lusted after by their Lit crush because they left a heart react. Men assume that “popular” women regularly and joyfully swap/share Lit men between each other. Women assume that men see them as disposable.

It all leads to apathy and typically, their solution is to withdraw which only perpetuates the self induced cycle of isolation, comparison, shame/depression, and more isolation.

I am more of a visual learner. This explanation needs a flow chart.

Counter argument to all the losers claiming loserism - we are all losers and that’s why we’re here and not shaking our ass on a yacht

I’ve been on the yacht. There are plenty of losers there too.

I would tack on the idea that "popular" men are simply the one's who aren't taking it all so seriously and, in actuality, aren't trying too hard to fuck anyone. It's amazing how attractive "normal" can seem on Lit. I think its the highest of compliments.

I don’t take any of this seriously and stopped trying a long time ago. I don’t know if that puts me in the “popular” crowd but I appreciate the friendships I have made here.

I don’t really think about popularity. I come here for recipes and stock tips. If I happen to get eboned while I’m here that’s a bonus.

 

[ToPleaseHim]

What am I thinking right now?

To be totally honest… I miss having a person. My person. Someone to split a bottle of red with over a warm home-cooked dinner, curled up on the sofa with candles burning and the scent of freshly washed laundry in the air. I want those deep, passionate kisses that turn into ripping each others clothes off, not bothering to pick them up as we run and chase each other upstairs to fuck like rabbits on the corridor floor outside of the bedroom.

I want all of that until I realise that late nights binge watching Yellowjackets with a Pinot in hand, kitties on the bed and my titties hanging out of my vest top will be ruined. The toilet seat will always be up. Someone’s dirty boxers all over the house. And my peace forever ruined.

Is it really worth it ladies. .

You gotta find a guy like mine

He’s super passionate and intimate, but we will settle in and binge watch a whole season (including Yellowjackets - a major fave) while eating nachos and beverage of choice, in the comfiest clothes possible.

He’s also naturally tidier than I am, so I have to make the effort there.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

I don’t take any of this seriously and stopped trying a long time ago. I don’t know if that puts me in the “popular” crowd but I appreciate the friendships I have made here.

I don’t really think about popularity. I come here for recipes and stock tips. If I happen to get eboned while I’m here that’s a bonus.

You have the right idea. I think the idea of Lit popularity is so.... peculiar.

 

[Sexy_Singer]

You have the right idea. I think the idea of Lit popularity is so.... peculiar.

I was uber popular back in the day

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

I was uber popular back in the day

Lol what was your popularity metric?

 

[cocokittysurprise]

You have the right idea. I think the idea of Lit popularity is so.... peculiar.

This. The concept of popularity on what amounts to a written-form sex website is hilarious.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

This. The concept of popularity on what amounts to a written-form sex website is hilarious.

Exactly. Popular according to who??
There are so many better words to be described by.

 

[Xerxes82]

I don’t take any of this seriously and stopped trying a long time ago.

It took me a long time to get here, but this is mostly where I fall as well.

I've always felt like I Lit weird. I definitely don't feel like I fit in, but that isn't a Lit thing. I don't feel like belong ANYWHERE. So clearly that's a me issue.

I've got every notification I can turn off in the off position, I have DM's turned off. I'm not here for some dopamine hit of "ooh, I got likes!" Fuck that. I've been down that rabbit hole and guess what I found? The rabbit shits there.

I like having a place where I can vent or speak my mind. I like being able to be silly and stupid when I feel like it. So that's what I'm going to do. Where that falls on the popularity spectrum is the rest of y'all's problem.

 

[bookworm69]

When the dick is hard, the mind is soft.

Also, the blood flow is going where it “needs” to go.

 

[cocokittysurprise]

Exactly. Popular according to who??
There are so many better words to be described by.

My life's goal is to be (lovingly) described as a "curmudgeonly old bat" by the people I know.