EvaLane
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Hmm, lot’s of folks seem to talk to each other off of Lit.
I kind of feel out of the loop.![]()
Me too but I’d lose interest and then it would just be yet another app piling up notifications and anxiety
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Hmm, lot’s of folks seem to talk to each other off of Lit.
I kind of feel out of the loop.![]()
I edited my original comment. I think I was unclear.Wow.
Have you similarly manicured your contacts on the iPhone? I feel like it’s becoming irresponsible to leave some of these people in my contacts list.I have drastically trimmed my contacts on all of my social media. I’m surprised how long I held onto contacts.
I haven’t….I've actually added to it with some people from here. I should probably go through it.Have you similarly manicured your contacts on the iPhone? I feel like it’s becoming irresponsible to leave some of these people in my contacts list.
I get serenity in parts. It’s never complete. I found it for like 45 minutes earlier today. But, ultimately, it doesn’t take much to bring me back to the chaos.Serenity is the perfect combination of wisdom and knowledge. It is one of my life pursuits. One of. I have not completely achieved it. Some days archives are closer. Some days it is still out of my reach. Life is about the journey so this wild ride continues. Yippie Ki Ah Motherfucker!
I found you can hold on to it by learning to not let outside forces interact with you. It is not easy but I have been working on cultivating that and many other things.I get serenity in parts. It’s never complete. I found it for like 45 minutes earlier today. But, ultimately, it doesn’t take much to bring me back to the chaos.
I'm not sure what thatthe sunrise of skirts…
The idea of not letting outside forces interact/interfere seems pretty impossible to me. I still get my shoulders tight from friendly group texts…not sure how you stay balanced with the bigger stuff.
If that’s you, I’m jealous…but also wonder what gets your juices flowing…because if I did find what I imagine serenity to be, I’d still need something to excite me.
The reward for doing good work is more work. Sorry...Someone please tell me why I just got handed 3,717 billing errors to correct while my two coworkers sit and watch videos on their phones and do their nails.![]()
Is it Serenity? Because with the posts above, that would be delightful.I am having a hard time concentrating on this show.
Oh, it is a battle long fought.
Few things that help me.
1) don't look for logic where it does not exist
2) you can't save everyone. Sometimes trying to hurts their growth.
3) I am enough. Anyone who tells you differently is showing you their issues. Those are not yours to care about.
4)you are not captain save a hoe. I know I stated this before but it was really important for me.
5) fill your cup often and with all that brings you joy. Anything positive will do.
6) people come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. Treat them accordingly. When someone tells you who they are… believe them.
7)it is ok to say no. Don't feel bad for protecting your bounties. Those who try to guilt trip you are not your people. Ignore the living fuck out of there bs.
8) people hate or dislike you because of your light. Shine like a supernova and ignore them like a supernova would a grain of sand.
Well, those are some of my ways to not be affected. Everything is not my problem. Everything does not need my comment. Everyone is not worthy of my attention or energy. I protect my peace.
Thank you. I’m not sure my situation deserves the effort you’ve paid to it. But it confirms a lot of the impressions most probably have of you. I need to review this tomorrow. But you’re good people.Oh, it is a battle long fought.
Few things that help me.
1) don't look for logic where it does not exist
2) you can't save everyone. Sometimes trying to hurts their growth.
3) I am enough. Anyone who tells you differently is showing you their issues. Those are not yours to care about.
4)you are not captain save a hoe. I know I stated this before but it was really important for me.
5) fill your cup often and with all that brings you joy. Anything positive will do.
6) people come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. Treat them accordingly. When someone tells you who they are… believe them.
7)it is ok to say no. Don't feel bad for protecting your bounties. Those who try to guilt trip you are not your people. Ignore the living fuck out of there bs.
8) people hate or dislike you because of your light. Shine like a supernova and ignore them like a supernova would a grain of sand.
Well, those are some of my ways to not be affected. Everything is not my problem. Everything does not need my comment. Everyone is not worthy of my attention or energy. I protect my peace.
Nope it’s Yellowstone. I’m missing things not paying close attention and having to rewind to catch it lolIs it Serenity? Because with the posts above, that would be delightful.
Currently I am at 0 peopleHmm, lot’s of folks seem to talk to each other off of Lit.
I kind of feel out of the loop.![]()
Awe, thank you. That is very nice of you to say publicly. I know some here have said worse about me in DM. I hope you have a goodnight.Thank you. I’m not sure my situation deserves the effort you’ve paid to it. But it confirms a lot of the impressions most probably have of you. I need to review this tomorrow. But you’re good people.