What are my chances guys? (paranoid guy)

[RadicalEdward]

Okay so me and my significant other had sex 2 says ago, What are my chances of getting her pregnant?

I ejaculated on her, most of it went on her shirt(shame to ruin a good shirt) but some of it went pretty much where it wanted to go. Well some of it, if I can recall droplets at best laded on her panties. I checked and she checked and we don't think any of my sperm touched her vagina.

I did go inside her without a condom but I did not cum in her(trust me i'm sure I didn't read my last thread. Nerves of steal guys.) My penis was all covered with lubricant from the condom, that kills sperm(it did not say on the box, but I was told all condoms have spermecide in the lube that comes with them).

P.S I don't want to have kids....

 

[zombieman]

It is possible for precum to impregnate a female.
If you don't want kids, then you should be a little more responsible where you stick your unwrapped cock.

 

[RadicalEdward]

It is possible for precum to impregnate a female.
If you don't want kids, then you should be a little more responsible where you stick your unwrapped cock.

I checked up on it and if you urinate you should not have any more sperm in your pre cum. I'm pretty sure there was none of my fuids when I put it in.

 

[ChicksDigGuitar]

I checked up on it and if you urinate you should not have any more sperm in your pre cum. I'm pretty sure there was none of my fuids when I put it in.

And you got that info where?

 

[phoenix1224]

It is possible for precum to impregnate a female.
If you don't want kids, then you should be a little more responsible where you stick your unwrapped cock.

Yep.

Also, if it doesn't say on the box that the lubricated condoms have spermicide, then they don't.

I would suggest that you, RadicalEdward, educate yourself a little bit more before you engage in sexual activity again.

 

[BlueSugar]

ok. *crackes knuckles*

sex is an activity with consequences.
Birth control and condoms are only 98% effective.
So is the Rhythm/Pull out and Pray method.
So is having sex while the female is on her period.
Using two or all of these methods are 99% effective.

Sperm is killed by air, water, lubricant, spermicide, even vaginal juices = truth.
All condoms DO NOT have spermicide in the lube.


Precum contains sperm. Period. End of story.
Iron Nerves, is bullshit, pure "it can't happen to me" ego crap.

You can get pregnant your first time, your second time, your third time ... all the way up till menopause.
You can get pregnant after a human male gets "the operation."


I know a couple who got pregnant through spermicide condoms while on the depo shot.

I know a couple who got pregnant through spermicide condoms while she was on her period.

My aunt got pregnant nearly a month after her husband had the operation.

IT ONLY TAKES ONE SPERM​

 

[luv1]

But saying all that, it's not that easy to get a women pregnant. It does take only one sperm but the journey is a tough one and many couples have a lot of trouble having a baby. But you never know you might have might sperm in which case we'll start calling you dad from now on The other thing is it's too early to have a test. Infact as you where writing she probably wasn't pregnant....untill you posted as like I said it's a tough journey and a long one for mr spunky and friends But if you two are really worried then there is something known as the morning after pill.

 

[Lynxie]

ok. *crackes knuckles*

sex is an activity with consequences.
Birth control and condoms are only 98% effective.
So is the Rhythm/Pull out and Pray method.
So is having sex while the female is on her period.
Using two or all of these methods are 99% effective.

Sperm is killed by air, water, lubricant, spermicide, even vaginal juices = truth.
All condoms DO NOT have spermicide in the lube.


Precum contains sperm. Period. End of story.
Iron Nerves, is bullshit, pure "it can't happen to me" ego crap.

You can get pregnant your first time, your second time, your third time ... all the way up till menopause.
You can get pregnant after a human male gets "the operation."


I know a couple who got pregnant through spermicide condoms while on the depo shot.

I know a couple who got pregnant through spermicide condoms while she was on her period.

My aunt got pregnant nearly a month after her husband had the operation.

IT ONLY TAKES ONE SPERM​

Blue's right. Never think that it can't happen to you. The above list is justification for your paranoia. If her next period is late, I'd recommend her taking a home pregnancy test (or going to the doc's for a blood test, to be absolutely sure). If you got lucky and she's not pregnant, I'd recommend that the two of you have a lengthy chat about birth control. Given the vast amount of misinformation you've received, you should probably do some research here in the How To forums or at Planned Parenthood. Before you start taking another person's future into your hands, you should at least be armed with the right information... and when you're not sure about something, ask someone who knows (family planning counsellor, your doctor, etc).

 

[Mary Hall]

If you`re not mature enough to use a condom, don`t have sex. The world is populated by too many idiots already

 

[INeedLove]

Sorry-

I have to add my finger shaking to the list-

BlueSugar is right on with her info. Also be reminded about STD's-it doesn't take any sperm for those to spread! HIV, venereal warts and many other diseases are on the rise. Cover up or face the risks!

The other note I wanted to add, getting pregnant also depends upon where your girlfriend is in her cycle. Ask her if she keeps track of when she has her period. Typically a woman is fertile about 10 to 14 days after her period.

I hope you have learned something from all of the posters. I understand that you don't get as much sensation if you wear a rubber when you are screwing but is this worry worth those few moments? Is your sexual health worth it? Herpes lasts forever man!

Best wishes!

 

[AppleBiter]

Wow . . . what's to add? I think everything's been covered. What they said.

 

[Ravin the Poet]

Okay so me and my significant other had sex 2 says ago, What are my chances of getting her pregnant?

I ejaculated on her, most of it went on her shirt(shame to ruin a good shirt) but some of it went pretty much where it wanted to go. Well some of it, if I can recall droplets at best laded on her panties. I checked and she checked and we don't think any of my sperm touched her vagina.

I did go inside her without a condom but I did not cum in her(trust me i'm sure I didn't read my last thread. Nerves of steal guys.) My penis was all covered with lubricant from the condom, that kills sperm(it did not say on the box, but I was told all condoms have spermecide in the lube that comes with them).

P.S I don't want to have kids....

This post makes you sound like your the king of cock, master of your area. Also makes you sound like some little child who got lucky and is bragging to his friends until the "Child" card comes into play.

I got to agree and add some more from the guy point of view. From one guy to another, thank you for making us look bad. And thank you for helping me. More on that in a moment.

First off, you have a responsibility to the women you are with to make sure everything is safe. Yes it's a two person deal, but looking at ALL the missinformation you got, you were not ready at all. You may have reassured the women everything was fine when it wasn't. You may have got her pregnant, which may be highly unlikely, but can happen. I got to say, you need to step up and be a man and take some responsibility for yourself and your actions.

I have never had sex, and after reading this, the next site I am looking at will be planned parenthood. There is lots of things I still don't know, but coming from this thread, it makes me want to read up on everything, to make sure I KNOW what I am getting myself into. I don't want a child either, not right now anyways, so it's a good reason why I don't whore myself around. But I will make sure now, that I have all the facts and info before I have my fun.

Everyone will tell you, sex is a great activity and is fun, but you first need to be mature and responsibile. Or like someone said, we get a lot of stupid people in this world.


Ravin

 

[therockap1]

Okay so me and my significant other had sex 2 says ago, What are my chances of getting her pregnant?

I ejaculated on her, most of it went on her shirt(shame to ruin a good shirt) but some of it went pretty much where it wanted to go. Well some of it, if I can recall droplets at best laded on her panties. I checked and she checked and we don't think any of my sperm touched her vagina.

I did go inside her without a condom but I did not cum in her(trust me i'm sure I didn't read my last thread. Nerves of steal guys.) My penis was all covered with lubricant from the condom, that kills sperm(it did not say on the box, but I was told all condoms have spermecide in the lube that comes with them).

P.S I don't want to have kids....

If you don't want kids you shoulda wrapped up. Thats your own dumb fault.

 

[LadyJeanne]

I never thought I'd be saying this, but, ABSTINENCE is the only way YOU are not going to get a girl pregnant considering all the things YOU DON'T KNOW about conception.

Please, please, please go to that Planned Parenthood site and STUDY it before you get near a girl again.

 

[Private_Label]

ok. *crackes knuckles*

sex is an activity with consequences.
...
Sperm is killed by air, water, lubricant, spermicide, even vaginal juices = truth.
All condoms DO NOT have spermicide in the lube.
...

IT ONLY TAKES ONE SPERM​

Also Sperm are MOBILE, which means, it don't matter if it falls on her leg, or outside her, those little swimers can still get to the egg, even if there is NO PENETRATION.
The moral of the story, she should be wearing/using spermacidal barriers (sponge, diaphram, cervical cap) when you are playing, even if you are wearing a condom (because sometimes they break).

To be playing with your parts, even if you did not cum inside her still leaves you open to prenancy as well as other things.

At this point (48 + hours) it will probably be too late for the "morning after pill" to be effective (which needs to be taken in the first 72 hours after sex, and even then may not be 100% effective).

My suggestions to you at this point:

• Pray
• buy several Early pregnancy tests
• get a calendar and start marking off the days

All the best to you.

 

[Mary Hall]

I think the guy needs to learn proper sex education before being even allowed to look at a girl....please god don`t let this dumbfuck produce offspring, the horror......

 

[English Lady]

Make sure the lady in question goes to a GP or family planning clinic ASAP,withink 72 hours the "morning after" pill is effective and will make sure (with a small percent chance of failure) that she doesn't get pregnant. then follow all the advice given before. Be sensible, it really, really matters.

 

[Eilan]

I suggest that you get to know your GF's menstrual cycle, and if she's not regular then you need to be ultra careful. This is something that I'm sure no guy likes to think about, but my husband knows (and my ex knew) my cycle at least as well as I do. However, it helps that I'm Queen Clockwork, and I have pretty obvious physical signs when I'm close to ovulating. Just because men don't get pregnant doesn't mean that they should be in the dark about these kinds of things. Yeah, it might be embarrassing, but if you can't deal with it, you shouldn't be having sex.

If you're going to have sex, definitely, as everyone has already said, use protection and be careful where you point that thing if it's not inside her.

I'm not advocating unprotected sex or fertility awareness methods or anything like that--just suggesting that it never hurts to arm yourself with as much info/knowledge as possible. Being familiar with a partner's menstrual cycle is just one weapon in the arsenal.

The ass rippin's been done already (x a bunch). I agree with all that and see no reason to add to it!

 

[BlueSugar]

I have to add my finger shaking to the list-

BlueSugar is right on with her info. Also be reminded about STD's-it doesn't take any sperm for those to spread! HIV, venereal warts and many other diseases are on the rise. Cover up or face the risks!

The other note I wanted to add, getting pregnant also depends upon where your girlfriend is in her cycle. Ask her if she keeps track of when she has her period. Typically a woman is fertile about 10 to 14 days after her period.

I hope you have learned something from all of the posters. I understand that you don't get as much sensation if you wear a rubber when you are screwing but is this worry worth those few moments? Is your sexual health worth it? Herpes lasts forever man!

Best wishes!

oh yeah.

by the way... with modern medicine and whatnot, most if not all women live through birth now-a-days ... modern medicine still needs to crack that whole STD/AIDS thing. ya.. theres other ways to deal with pregnancy - but its still the least of your problems

 

[Halo_n_horns]

Hold up, little doggies. Before circling the wagons in a trapazoid around this guy, there should be a bit more said about her baby chute. I used the rhythm method literally for over a decade with the same woman. I read up on it and got to know this method exceptionally well first hand.

With the issue of his sperm hitting the outside of her vaginal canal and migrating all the way to a fertle egg, that may or may not be there; Good fuckin' luck!!! There is a huge number of secretions within the vaginal canal that are hellbent on keeping her from getting infections and stopping unwanted intruders. These secretions also have a high ph, that means they're acidic as well as having natural bacteria for fighting off the funk of the outside world.

I'm not sure how many people here have ever really studied the logistics of getting a woman pregnant, but the greatest possibility of impregnation occurs when the sperm is ejaculated at the opening of the cervix. This is why there's MILLIONS of these little fuckers during ejaculation; sacrifices for the greater plan.

Now, while there's still a infinitesimally remote possibility of pregnancy from ejaculation outside of the vaginal canal, it is just that: infinitesimally remote.

By the way, our success rate for the rhythm method for over a decade was 100%. But I wouldn't recommend it to anyone who really doesn't know all the logistics of doing it successfully.

Now, back to your regularly scheduled program.

 

[karndav]

My youngest son was concieved on the rhythm method. If you don't want kids then don't have sex.

 

[Halo_n_horns]

My youngest son was concieved on the rhythm method. If you don't want kids then don't have sex.

Pardon the pun, but screw that! Like I said; I wouldn't recommend the rhythm method to anyone who doesn't know ALL of the logistics that come with it. It must've been a white guy. Most of us don't have any rhythm.

 

[INeedLove]

Most of these posts are focusing on the preggo issue. Let me repeat for you and other folks that might be taunting fate-

STD's!!!! I am not saying your gf is promiscous (ah the spelling is off at 5:40 am!). But you are having unprotected sex with everyone she has done and vice versa! Both of you can go to your doctors and get checked for them. The only way to know if a person has HIV, is to have a blood test done. You can't tell by looking at someone if they have it!

HIV is still an issue in America. Age, ethnicity, gender, religous preference and sexual preference have nothing to do with it's spread. It's all about BEHAVIOR!!! Unprotected anal, oral or vaginal sex are the most common transmission routes (mothers can pass it through breast milk or birth but that is putting the cart before the horse here). One person between the ages of 13 and 21 are infected with HIV every 6 to 8 MINUTES (as of 2004 data)!!

Please-take care and cover up??
Best wishes!

http://www.cdc.gov/hiv/

 

[Tele2047]

Yeah the rhythm method may protect you from pregnancy, but it won't from STDs. Now if you are both sexually young, perhaps both virgins then it's unlikely she's got anything, but you don't have to have sex to catch some of that stuff. Also, you may not want to think about this, but if she was a virgin when you guys had sex that doens't mean she won't have sex with someone else while you two are still seeing each other (cheating), and if you don't use protection well, you know how the saying goes, when you have sex with someone you're having sex with everyone who's ever been with that person.

 

[Halo_n_horns]

Yeah the rhythm method may protect you from pregnancy, but it won't from STDs. Now if you are both sexually young, perhaps both virgins then it's unlikely she's got anything, but you don't have to have sex to catch some of that stuff. Also, you may not want to think about this, but if she was a virgin when you guys had sex that doens't mean she won't have sex with someone else while you two are still seeing each other (cheating), and if you don't use protection well, you know how the saying goes, when you have sex with someone you're having sex with everyone who's ever been with that person.

Being that the original post for this thread was expressing concerns over pregnancy not STDs ...