What about anal sex turns you on?

[Marquis]

There are a lot of women on this board who talk about how much they love anal sex, and I was wondering what specifically about it turns you on so much? I think most women who do it enjoy the feeling, but what about the idea of anal do you like so much? I often wondered what turns me on about it and I think I have come up with some reasons:

1 It's taboo, and therefore feels naughty

2 Assholes are dumb tight (even though this is more a feeling, the idea of me penetrating something that tight is a big turn on)

3 On some level I like the idea that I am gaining pleasure from something my partner may find displeasurable.

4 Most women wouldn't let just anyone there, so there is a certain feeling of being special when I am allowed to enter a woman there. It's like a showing of trust and in some ways submission.

5 I love ass! I guess some guys are breast-men and some guys are ass-men. I am definitely belonging to the second group and it is such a turn on to bury my dick and feel it surrounded by the object of my lust.

 

[MissTaken]

I have tried several responses and deleted them all.

I will have to think further.

It is one of my favorite ways to fuck, but I have never given the "why" much thought.

Be back later!

 

[SexyChele]

I do love anal sex - not everytime, but definetely as a way to spice things up every now and again! What about do I like? Actually, it really depends on my mood and who I'm with, so will answer accordingly.

With a 'nilla partner:

1. Love the way a man's eyes will light up at the suggestion. Especially true with 'nilla men as they either have not done it before, or were with women who did not enjoy it.

2. Enjoy the feeling of fullness from that particular part of the body.

3. Really get off at the that first initial feeling of being stretched, almost to the point of wondering if I will truly be able to take it.

4. Love the way that, when I'm on my hands and knees, I have to lift my ass higher than normal in order to enable him access. It just feels more revealing and naughty and slutty.

With a Dom:

1. All of the above, with the exception of #1.

2. I am usually very much into a "subbie" frame of mind, so I get off on the feeling of feeling submissive towards him.

3. Having my ass spanked at the same time. (Though could also go with the above!)

4. Name calling that only a Dom knows how to do well.

During my period:

1. It is convenient and non-messy.

I'm sure I've forgotten one or two, but this is the beginning list.

 

[Marquis]

Good answers! I'll have to read some of your writing.

 

[A Desert Rose]

SC covered it very well. I have nothing to add except... Ditto.

 

[LadyGwenhevare]

Anal sex

Love it - why?

Love the feeling of the pleasure/pain. Not sure which is going to be stronger or which I want stronger.

I love the way he grabs my hips and slams into me over and over.

I love the thoughts of it. I use an enema (water) daily. I read erotic stories or fantasize during that time. I love the private time. Love thinking about that cock stretching me. I shower or bathe afterward and get ready for the evening. Kind of a mental foreplay time. No interruptions - with kids that is great in and of itself. I love that he knows what I am doing and knows its for him.

I love for him to cum deep in my ass after fucking my ass hard. I love saying. "Fuck me, fuck me hard, fuck my ass with your cock..." Guess I love feeling slutty. I love that we have oral sex and vaginal sex but that our favorite place to end it all is deep in my ass.

I love the feel of a vibrator in my pussy while he fucks me in the ass. I love the way the two feel inside me. I am stretched. I can feel every little twinge.

I love the way a cock snuggles into the crack in your ass.

I love the instant it stretches that ring. I can come just from that. Each time is new and keeps me hovering on the edge of pain/pleasure.

I love the way I feel when my ass is bared and I am open for him. That I submit to this and really love it.

I love the way I finally gave him my anal virginity as a gift. That I determined I would complete the act as an example that I would give him anything. I love the way his fantasy became our reality and that I now love this intimate act.

I love that he loves my ass. I love the wiggle to my walk that anal sex has given me.

I love the way after he has cum deep inside me and his cock has gone soft that I can feel his heartbeat deep in my ass.

I love the way when we reluctantly part that I tingle and throb there for at least an hour. I love to fall asleep with us both smiling and that delicious well fucked feeling flowing through my body.

I love that I know the secret of great anal sex and I feel sad for those who will never know.

 

[Marquis]

I don't know what to say. That was absolutely awesome.

 

[LadyGwenhevare]

*blushes*

Thanks, Glad you liked it.

*wiggles ass*

 

[Hecate]

Q: What about anal sex turns you on?
A: the same that turns me on about any sex - it feels good!

 

[AvaAdore]

a mix of things that have already been said...mostly the submissive aspect and that it's not something we do normally, it's more of a special occasion type of thing. i have to be really relaxed in order to enjoy it fully though. i can relax physically, but mentally there's always the thought of "oh no, what if something happens resulting in a mess or something embarrassing" etc. it also brings a lot lot of feelings together. in some ways it's really good and others it's somewhat unpleasant. it makes my body confused as hell and i enjoy it

he sometimes lets me penetrate (fingers only), but it's a hard barrier for him because of his past. it's extremely flattering that he lets me do it sometimes because it shows how much he trusts me (i dont push for it, he usually brings it up). also it's fun

 

[P. B. Walker]

Wow, that was truely great LadyGwenhevare!

Thank you for sharing with us... and please do it again sometime

PBW

 

[Hexiegirl]

Wow! Yes, yes, and yes on what the other ladies have said. I definatey like the feel of it. When done while giving my clit stimulation, I get the strongest orgasms! I also like the naughtiness and submission aspects of it~

 

[JeanMarc31M]

To me it is the ultimate submission.

I love the idea of being an anal slave to the right woman.

 

[AnelizeDarkEyes]

Anal sex

Love it - why?

Love the feeling of the pleasure/pain. Not sure which is going to be stronger or which I want stronger.

I love the way he grabs my hips and slams into me over and over.

I love the thoughts of it. I use an enema (water) daily. I read erotic stories or fantasize during that time. I love the private time. Love thinking about that cock stretching me. I shower or bathe afterward and get ready for the evening. Kind of a mental foreplay time. No interruptions - with kids that is great in and of itself. I love that he knows what I am doing and knows its for him.

I love for him to cum deep in my ass after fucking my ass hard. I love saying. "Fuck me, fuck me hard, fuck my ass with your cock..." Guess I love feeling slutty. I love that we have oral sex and vaginal sex but that our favorite place to end it all is deep in my ass.

I love the feel of a vibrator in my pussy while he fucks me in the ass. I love the way the two feel inside me. I am stretched. I can feel every little twinge.

I love the way a cock snuggles into the crack in your ass.

I love the instant it stretches that ring. I can come just from that. Each time is new and keeps me hovering on the edge of pain/pleasure.

I love the way I feel when my ass is bared and I am open for him. That I submit to this and really love it.

I love the way I finally gave him my anal virginity as a gift. That I determined I would complete the act as an example that I would give him anything. I love the way his fantasy became our reality and that I now love this intimate act.

I love that he loves my ass. I love the wiggle to my walk that anal sex has given me.

I love the way after he has cum deep inside me and his cock has gone soft that I can feel his heartbeat deep in my ass.

I love the way when we reluctantly part that I tingle and throb there for at least an hour. I love to fall asleep with us both smiling and that delicious well fucked feeling flowing through my body.

I love that I know the secret of great anal sex and I feel sad for those who will never know.

Ohhhhhhh...what SHE SAID. Took the words right out of my mouth. Brava *applauding*

 

[Guest]

Anal sex

Love it - why?

Love the feeling of the pleasure/pain. Not sure which is going to be stronger or which I want stronger.

I love the way he grabs my hips and slams into me over and over.


I love for him to cum deep in my ass after fucking my ass hard. I love saying. "Fuck me, fuck me hard, fuck my ass with your cock..." Guess I love feeling slutty. I love that we have oral sex and vaginal sex but that our favorite place to end it all is deep in my ass.

I love the feel of a vibrator in my pussy while he fucks me in the ass. I love the way the two feel inside me. I am stretched. I can feel every little twinge.

I love the way a cock snuggles into the crack in your ass.

I love the instant it stretches that ring. I can come just from that. Each time is new and keeps me hovering on the edge of pain/pleasure.

I love the way I feel when my ass is bared and I am open for him. That I submit to this and really love it.

I love the way I finally gave him my anal virginity as a gift. That I determined I would complete the act as an example that I would give him anything. I love the way his fantasy became our reality and that I now love this intimate act.

I love that he loves my ass. I love the wiggle to my walk that anal sex has given me.

I love the way after he has cum deep inside me and his cock has gone soft that I can feel his heartbeat deep in my ass.

I love the way when we reluctantly part that I tingle and throb there for at least an hour. I love to fall asleep with us both smiling and that delicious well fucked feeling flowing through my body.

I love that I know the secret of great anal sex and I feel sad for those who will never know.

omg yes yes yes! mmmmm well said ! My thoughts exactly ......... I love the way you think!

 

[WynEternal]

This isn't something I do all the time, but when we do, I love the pre-fuck foreplay. Sometimes, I'm so turned on that we don't need lube. I love the feel of anticipation as one finger enters and starts stretching it out, followed by another and another. I love the feel of my ass clenching around his fingers as he stretches me wide, getting it ready for his dick. Anticipation builds as he places his dick at the entrance. The sharp pain of penetration gives way to warmth, radiating throughout my body. I love it the look in his eyes as my ass grabs tighter and tighter around his dick, sometimes a vibrator on my clit to intensify the feeling. Of course, I also love being on my knees in front of him as he grabs my hips and drives it in harder and harder, me begging him for more or screaming in extasy. When he comes, my ass grabs him and pumps him for more and more until we're both exhausted.

I love the feeling of power he has over me and the naughyness of it all.

 

[VIKING511]

For me...

I love the fact that my partner is the one who always initiates it, although I use a lot of oral-anal and anal finger play as part of our regular foreplay, she will offer it to me as a special gift, occaisionally when I have given her more pleasure then she can stand, when we (I) have both come at least once (always several for her) she will breathlessly ask me, do you want to fuck my ass?
Of course the answer is always yes...
On those nights she is my naughty fuck toy and we get little or no sleep before morning...

I like that it is never routine, and always mind blowing.

 

[MissTaken]

WynEternal did a much better job of responding for me than I ever could!


There is that special something about it.

It isn't easy and when my lover goes for my ass, it is a pleasant surprise. There is an anxst that is associated with ass fucking, because there is usually some pain or discomfort in the beginning, but once entrance has been gained. I feel very full.

That a cock inside my bottom can so stimulate my pussy as to make me cum, is it's own little miracle. I also enjoy the "taking " of my bottom in a figurative sense. It is naughty, it feels naughty and even when with virgin lovers, I feel very much as though I am being taken rather than being intimate. The sensations and the taboo of ass fucking also lends itself to trust and intimacy. Not just anyone gets there. A clumsy anal fuck is the worst sexual experience I believe one can have.

On several occasions, I have been with men who have only fantasized about the act. I don't mind coaching as I so love their reaction to a fantasy becoming reality.

Hmm perhaps there is a bit of ego involved, too, I suppose.

In summation, it just feels good

 

[WriterDom]

Tied to the bed with spreader bars on arms and legs. Legs tied tight to the bed. Helpless, Whimpering, knowing her ass is mine

 

[WynEternal]

WynEternal did a much better job of responding for me than I ever could!

Thanks

 

[James G 5]

Thanks

<sigh>
And I passed up a shot at it

 

[cellis]

What everyone else said!

I can only add that to me it is the ultimate act of submission for me.

 

[Hexiegirl]

Oooh! WriterDom! That sounds good!

 

[Angelofsex]

Anal sex

Love it - why?

Love the feeling of the pleasure/pain. Not sure which is going to be stronger or which I want stronger.

I love the way he grabs my hips and slams into me over and over.

I love the thoughts of it. I use an enema (water) daily. I read erotic stories or fantasize during that time. I love the private time. Love thinking about that cock stretching me. I shower or bathe afterward and get ready for the evening. Kind of a mental foreplay time. No interruptions - with kids that is great in and of itself. I love that he knows what I am doing and knows its for him.

I love for him to cum deep in my ass after fucking my ass hard. I love saying. "Fuck me, fuck me hard, fuck my ass with your cock..." Guess I love feeling slutty. I love that we have oral sex and vaginal sex but that our favorite place to end it all is deep in my ass.

I love the feel of a vibrator in my pussy while he fucks me in the ass. I love the way the two feel inside me. I am stretched. I can feel every little twinge.

I love the way a cock snuggles into the crack in your ass.

I love the instant it stretches that ring. I can come just from that. Each time is new and keeps me hovering on the edge of pain/pleasure.

I love the way I feel when my ass is bared and I am open for him. That I submit to this and really love it.

I love the way I finally gave him my anal virginity as a gift. That I determined I would complete the act as an example that I would give him anything. I love the way his fantasy became our reality and that I now love this intimate act.

I love that he loves my ass. I love the wiggle to my walk that anal sex has given me.

I love the way after he has cum deep inside me and his cock has gone soft that I can feel his heartbeat deep in my ass.

I love the way when we reluctantly part that I tingle and throb there for at least an hour. I love to fall asleep with us both smiling and that delicious well fucked feeling flowing through my body.

I love that I know the secret of great anal sex and I feel sad for those who will never know.

Oh my, were you reading my mind.........have to agreed with this woman here....so true.

 

[WynEternal]

<sigh>
And I passed up a shot at it

If it makes you feel better, it probably woudn't have been any good at the time... inexperience and all you know. But practice makes perfect (or somewhere on the road to it)