What a sub wears?

[Netzach]

Think about how often porn features makeup that needs a chisel to remove, as well as the bizarre dichotomy of huge fake tits and cunts sporting the prepubescent look.

None of that reflects my personal tastes. Where do the stereotypes of porn come from? I don't know enough about the industry to say.

I don't think this one came down to us from porn, I think it's ingrained in the SM culture imagination. Generic male bottom #2323232 wants to be dressed as "a slut" because it makes him feel "so submissive." It's pervasive across genders and SM interests.

 

[Netzach]

Well, some like the doll thing. So in that case more expensive clothes would also be appealing.

Some people would rather have a pet tiger than a pet bunny. If I have to make my girl look classy it's as disappointing to me as making her look slutty.

If she just IS, that's sweet ass hot.

 

[intothewoods]

Think about how often porn features makeup that needs a chisel to remove, as well as the bizarre dichotomy of huge fake tits and cunts sporting the prepubescent look.

None of that reflects my personal tastes. Where do the stereotypes of porn come from? I don't know enough about the industry to say.

That's so funny because it's true.

Some people would rather have a pet tiger than a pet bunny. If I have to make my girl look classy it's as disappointing to me as making her look slutty.

If she just IS, that's sweet ass hot.

Oh yes, that's true. I think mine would rather watch paint dry than pick clothes for me. I think the most direction I've received is - that's hot, why don't you wear it for me sometime?

 

[Netzach]

That's so funny because it's true.



Oh yes, that's true. I think mine would rather watch paint dry than pick clothes for me. I think the most direction I've received is - that's hot, why don't you wear it for me sometime?

T just tells me what he likes. It only took me like another year to realize that I might you know, duh, wear it when he's around.

 

[intothewoods]

T just tells me what he likes. It only took me like another year to realize that I might you know, duh, wear it when he's around.

Ahem. I think I had an illuminating exchange once with JM on this subject in the nightcap thread. No wait. Mister Man said something like, wear whatever you want. I thought that meant where whatever you want, but JM advised that meant I trust your judgment, don't dress like a prostitute.

Damn I gotta go look that up.

 

[rosco rathbone]

I like picking clothes.

 

[Homburg]

I like picking clothes.

Freak. How can you live with yourself?

 

[CutieMouse]

Let me guess, if you dress as you dress you MUST be a Domme, right?

Kinda sorta.

The very few [like 3] munches I've attended over the last 5 or so years, I've dressed casual [for me] - hair up in a twist, glasses, black cami-tank, Banana Republic jeans, good heels. Cell phone in the back pocket; keys/ID/Visa in the front. Hands free, casual, low key, unencumbered; approaching the socializing thing as equals (because outside of a defined relationship - hi, we're equals).

What people see -

A 6' tall [in heels] redhead, on the thin-ish side, somewhat confidant/self-assured, "hot librarian"... who is obviously a Domme because she doesn't "act submissive". [Whatever that means.]



It extends to relationship sorts of things I don't care to go into here, and I do recognize that the "trappings" can be a boon to setting the mood/etc... at the moment, however, I find myself rather resenting them.

 

[intothewoods]

I like picking clothes.

Aw, bubbe. Do you need a support thread? Your smart enough, good enough, domly enough, and gosh darn it, people like you!

My PYL just self-identifies as lazy. No deep theory here.

 

[rida]

I like picking clothes.

I probably could not stand to have my clothes picked all the time, especially if the PYL tastes do not run like mine but ... I have been known to ask my dates what they wish me to wear

 

[MissKelli]

what a sub wears

A slave should be kept naked, except for a collar of course. Naked and clean shaven and even waxed. and he should naked as often as legally possible.
I've read stories where slaves give up the rights to their clothes, i like it.
I am wondering if i should keep him naked when my friends are over, they have seen pics of him naked, but then a lot of girls i know have nude pictures of their boyfriends these days. So it is getting more casual all the time.
if i let them see my husband naked then I get to see their husbands naked though.

 

[CutieMouse]

Aslave should be kept naked, except for a collar of course. Naked and clean shaven and even waxed. and he should naked as often as legally possible.
I've read stories where slaves give up the rights to their clothes, i like it.
I am wondering if i should keep him naked when my friends are over, they have seen pics of him naked, but then a lot of girls i know have nude pictures of their boyfriends these days. So it is getting more casual all the time.
if i let them see my husband naked then I get to see their husbands naked though.

Someone has been reading too much erotica.

 

[subtle_Dom]

It obviously depends on the situation, but I very much enjoy a sub to be very classy and ladylike in public. I often prefer an elegant dress or business suit with classy heels. I may request lingerie underneath, something only known to us. The contrast can make it enjoyable. In a more casual situation it may be a sundress or skirt with sandals or flats. I will seldom if ever request jeans or slacks. In private the options are endless and depends on the situation or mood, however, you can never go wrong with a sexy bra n panties along with wrist and ankle restraints.

 

[Stella_Omega]

Someone has been reading too much erotica.

One can never read too much erotica.

One can, however, start believing erotica too much-- which can have embarrassing consequences...

 

[Lizzie_Borden]

It's hot, so a t shirt and 3/4 pants and thongs/flip flops/whatever you call the ones on your FEET people!

I was in a maxidress, but there was too much material and it got in the way of my tidying up.

Not exactly sexy, but much more practical.

 

[YourCaptor]

If I had the talent I would dictate.

Thing is I know what I like when I see it, but I can't construct it.

If I was rich I could see myself relaxing with some drink as designers dress the girl and I make final selections.