Weekend BDSM Report

[MzChrista]

Re: Re: Weekend BDSM Report

Well, i hadnt announced any weekend plans, but Ill report back anyhow.

I would love to say that i met up with Asia Argento, who immediately collared me for the weekend, using me and George Clooney as her personal threeway fucktoys, theres this thing called reality, and i will TRY and stay within its bounds.

So most of the weekend was hectic, with multiple work/vanilla/friends/family commitments. Saturday, the Iowa State Cyclones rolled over the Jayhawks....yay! Saturday night, the company i work for sponsored the AAA baseball game, and i got to shoot the giant hot dog gun off into the crowd! (insert joke about making a giant hot dog shoot multiple times, onto a few thousand people here)

Sunday...hectic hectic.....then around 7 i went over to my friend Mistress Jaedyn's house for a little informal play party. Not really a play party, more of a play gathering, because a play party has limits besides personal ones of the participants, and this had none such. I was really hoping that i would have my first experience getting fucked by a strap on (if anyone is gonna do that, Jaedyn is one of the people who i trust enough not to harm me) Alas, what happened was a really good, long extended ass beating, not mean or anything, just good friends who love each other, tying one another up for fun and happiness. I took more implements, i dont know which ones, because, well, you fellow painsluts know that floaty feeling, and how can i tell one crop from another? I also ended up with "SLUT" and "SLAVE" drawn on my back with chopsticks, and a number of round hickeys from those verdamnt snake bite removal sucker things.....Damn, those mark up a body good.

All tolled, a pretty good time, given that it was the first time this particular mix got together.

Next weekend: Munch and a "field trip" to the nudie bar!

And now, it's Miller time!

 

[MzChrista]

Oh, MzChrista -- I completely understand. I would never cast aspersions on you...but with Caroline -- it's just so obvious that one can't help commenting on it.

I of course realize that it must have been embarrassing being dragged in there by her. I'm so sorry you had to deal with that.




P.

Well and its right down the street from the Gay & Les Bookstore and what if one of my friends was in there and saw me with her?

 

[Persephone36]

Well and its right down the street from the Gay & Les Bookstore and what if one of my friends was in there and saw me with her?

So true, so true! What fortitude and kindness you showed MzChrista -- indulging Caroline's *shudder* perversions.

Beyond the call of duty and friendship. Truly.


P.

 

[Mr. Dork]

Re: Re: Re: Weekend BDSM Report

And now, it's Miller time!

hehehehehe.......

**smile**

 

[Ebonyfire]

Their base is in Seattle -- so you went to the original! They opened a second store in NY, that I don't think was all that long ago. They're my favorite place to patronise for toys. Mostly I go to them online -- but my last partner took me there and bought me some toys. Including a harness and a double dildo -- which we used on him, hehehe. There's that switch in me, lol.

Just as an aside I also like www.libidia.com too. I like to go to the sites that are particularly focused for women.

P.

I found it Perse,

[http://www.womynsware.com/[/URL]

 

[Persephone36]

Very cool

I bought a harness from a toy store owned by and for women, based in Canada. I will look for the link.

Eb

MzChrista could be very right. They certainly could be in Chicago too. I think I'm out of the loop on how much storefront expansion they've done.

Eb -- here's the Toys in Babeland link -- www.babeland.com

I *showed* activesense my collection of toys this weekend (it's still relatively small at this point.) Didn't even *think* about using them on him (not that he'd let me, or that I'd want to, lol.) After all, this was my chance to explore a little of my budding subbiness. Hmm, so actually I didn't just *show* them to him. *sigh* -- okay I admit he used some of them on me. In a few new ways. Come to think of it -- it was rather an enlightening weekend .

My harness is pretty cool too. It's just going to be sitting in the drawer for a l-o-n-g time, lol.

P.

 

[Ebonyfire]

So true, so true! What fortitude and kindness you showed MzChrista -- indulging Caroline's *shudder* perversions.

Beyond the call of duty and friendship. Truly.


P.

And she seemed so nice...you just never know! Oh the humanity!

Eb

 

[Persephone36]

I found it Perse,

[http://www.womynsware.com/[/URL]

I don't know them -- thanks Eb!!

P.

 

[Persephone36]

And she seemed so nice...you just never know! Oh the humanity!

Eb

*sniff, sniff* -- so true Eb, so true.


P.

 

[Ebonyfire]

MzChrista could be very right. They certainly could be in Chicago too. I think I'm out of the loop on how much storefront expansion they've done.

Eb -- here's the Toys in Babeland link -- www.babeland.com

I *showed* activesense my collection of toys this weekend (it's still relatively small at this point.) Didn't even *think* about using them on him (not that he'd let me, or that I'd want to, lol.) After all, this was my chance to explore a little of my budding subbiness. Hmm, so actually I didn't just *show* them to him. *sigh* -- okay I admit he used some of them on me. In a few new ways. Come to think of it -- it was rather an enlightening weekend .

My harness is pretty cool too. It's just going to be sitting in the drawer for a l-o-n-g time, lol.

P.

Well, I have two now. When I bought the Nexus, and just HAD to buy a new one! Now if I can find a way to wear them both at once!

Eb

 

[Ebonyfire]

And she seemed so nice...you just never know! Oh the humanity!

Eb

Well there is a spot open now that Mother Teresa is gone!

Eb

 

[Persephone36]

Well, I have two now. When I bought the Nexus, and just HAD to buy a new one! Now if I can find a way to wear them both at once!

Eb

LOL, my partner who bought the harness for me bought me a Nexus too! Mine's all psychedelic with blue and white swirls.

Now at least that won't go to waste! He made some use out of it on me. Although I didn't realize it at first -- because of the blindfold you understand.

Two harnesses huh? If a Domme could figure out a way to use both at the same time -- it would be you Eb -- I have nooooo doubt.

P.

 

[Mr. Dork]

you ladies and your harness talk is driving me CRAZY!

hee hee

D

 

[MzChrista]

I been loking at those sites, very cool.

I want to get one of those thigh harnesses.
Actually, come to think of it, Pers, no reason you couldnt use 2 of those at the same time.

 

[Persephone36]

I been loking at those sites, very cool.

I want to get one of those thigh harnesses.
Actually, come to think of it, Pers, no reason you couldnt use 2 of those at the same time.

Well, lol, I won't be even using one.

I will tell you that the one I do have sitting in the drawer from Babeland is a single strap (more fun for me was the idea) rather than the two strap that wraps around your legs. Too much d-ring adjusting for my taste in that one, lol. The one I got is probably something akin to pleather. It's black -- very simple. They did have some pretty funky ones in teal, magenta, pink, orange -- all with silver sparkles worked in. Kinda Vegas-y but cute all the same.

P.

 

[Ebonyfire]

I been loking at those sites, very cool.

I want to get one of those thigh harnesses.
Actually, come to think of it, Pers, no reason you couldnt use 2 of those at the same time.

Me too. I want to tie bitch boy to the bed, blindfold him, and gag him. Put a vibe in his ass, and attach the thigh harness to his thigh and ride his thigh while I work his ass with vibe. That may drive him a bit nuts.

Eb

 

[Quint]

Jeebus Crow, y'all!

What a terrific thread! Why do I have to come in so damned late on it? My gloating shall never be read...it shall languish away in the dusty corner of a 6 page thread. Alas, alack, and all that.

On to the fun stuff...

T was everything I hoped for. I really could leave it at that, but of course I wouldn't do that to you diligent souls who are still reading this thread. He arrived early Saturday, put up with me giggling like an adolescent girl facing her idol, and after Real Life stopped kicking our asses (more on that in a minute), we managed to get ourselves in a nice secluded hotel room. All sorts of fun ensued.

Saturday was pretty straightforward D/s. We fucked (a lot). We tested my boundaries of r/l humiliation and pain. I ended up with most of my back, stomach, ass, and thighs all red from clawing, spanking or biting. Sunday we brought out my toys. He tied my arms to the convenient overhead lights at either side of the bed, blindfolded me, and proceeded to use me as an outlet for his sadism. Terrified me numerous times; calmed me with nothing but his voice and a light caress; terrified me again.

Although our toy/activity list is nothing as impressive as MissT's, here it is:

Arm restraints
Blindfold
Ice
Silk scarves
Spanking...lots. He gave me his first over-the-knee. I was almost constantly on the edge of screaming "yellow" but I held out, because this was about pushing my pain tolerance. Damn did that tolerance get pushed. It was phenomenal. I was so proud of myself, and I know that he was equally proud of me.
Slapping. I wasn't sure how well this would translate from online play to r/l, but oh it was better than I could have imagined.
Verbal humiliation
More fucking in two days-and-an-hour than I've had in a month before
Breath control....lots
General serving. He woke up in the middle of the night coughing and without thinking I got up and brought him a glass of water. I wasn't even awake, really--just thought "T is coughing; he wants something to drink." We laughed about that the next morning when we were both conscious.
Schoolgirl/teacher scenario. Details on THIS upon request...and a little begging wouldn't hurt ya either. Trust me...it's worth it.

Again, he was amazing. I felt incredibly lucky to have been able to experience that, and to know how very much I pleased him. It was everything I could have hoped for in a first meeting, although there were lots of things I really wanted to do that we simply didn't have time/energy for. That's why more weekends are on the way, although not anytime within the next couple of months.

Now, for the Real Life shit. Saturday he picks me up and we go around to the hotel that I'd circled in the phonebook. Only people 21 and over can rent a room there. T is 20 and I'm 19. We shrug, go to another. 21 and up. After circling my city, we return to the apartment and call around; there are no hotels or motels or inns anywhere in a 30-mile-radius location that will let us rent a room. That just sucked. It gets worse. Hunny, who had been dealing remarkably well (so I thought) with T's presence, calls his brother and asks him to rent a room for us. I did not in any way ask him to do this and I thought it was pretty fucked up and awkward in the extreme, but it got us the room. Saturday goes on and all sorts of euphoria results.

Sunday I checked back at the apartment to let Hunny know that I'm still alive (upon his request). He pulls me into our bedroom and tells me that I have to move out because he can't take this anymore. The combination of my happiness with someone else and his inability to see me as Just A Friend piled up and so he just does not want to live with me anymore. So this weekend I've lost my lover, as T went back to his college at noon, and my best friend. All the responsibilities that I've neatly sidestepped for the past two-and-a-half years of being part of a couple are now crashing in on me. I need to go totally self-sufficient, and that's pretty scary. And I have to do it alone. I don't know when I'll be able to see T again; I doubt it will be before Winter Break.

And so there was a great deal of good...and then we got kicked out of the Garden. I'm still trying to dwell on the happy memories, and the rest I'm taking one step at a time. I do believe that it was worth it. And that's really all that matters.

 

[CarolineOh]

Well ya know, I wouldnt ordinarily go a place like that, but Caroline is a pervert.

Yeah, right. So how come when we walked in the door, the sales clerk said "Hi Christa"?

 

[Ebonyfire]

Dear Quint

we have been waiting for you to report in to us with much anticipation. I am happy that you enjoyed your weekend, and sad that your elation is mixed with sadness, and the reality of life.

I am sure that you are ready for the challenges ahead. I know that this is the beginning of more RT experiences. We are all here for you if you need our support.

Eb

 

[CarolineOh]

And she seemed so nice...you just never know! Oh the humanity!

Eb

My fiendish plan is paying off!

 

[Ebonyfire]

All our chicks are accounted for

I feel like a mother hen. So what have we learned?

That a lot of sh__ happens on a holiday weekend!

Eb

 

[CarolineOh]

Quint, we have all been anxiously waiting to hear your report.
I am glad your experience with T lived up to your expectations. It is too bad you had to face the downside of your situation so starkly, but in the long run, this moment was bound to come and perhaps getting it over with now will turn out to be the best scenario.

 

[Daddyslilpet]

Quint, Glad to hear that all in all you had a great weekend. I'm sure you will always look back on it with very fond memories.


dixi

 

[Ebonyfire]

I been loking at those sites, very cool.

I want to get one of those thigh harnesses.
Actually, come to think of it, Pers, no reason you couldnt use 2 of those at the same time.

MzC, I bought The strapper harness from womynsware. It is nice and it fits good with my Nexus.

Eb

 

[cellis]

Well to all... I am happy to hear that your weekend adventures went well...

Quint darlin... I am sorry about Hunny.