Weekend BDSM Report

[WillowPuss]

This isn't a long weekend for us

And to cap it all ... we were going off to meet somebody for lunch - but I woke with a streaming head cold, and feel like ... well, a bag of sawdust with a concrete block on top.

(Hope it goes by Tuesday!)

 

[cymbidia]

Blackbich!
Blackbich!
Rah rah rah!

Hello, BB.
How are you?
It's been awhile.

Look!
We've grown!







MissT?
Awesome description, darlin'. I'm so glad you had a wonderful, fulfilling, exciting, adventurous, sexually charged, kinky, perverted time.

Fisting = red = not forever, i promise you. It's a matter of relaxation and trust, though, that's for sure. It's a full feeling you're not likely to forget, when it happens, and a sense fo being utterly possessed that does totally wild things to my head. I think you'll like it a lot, too, when you get there.

 

[MissTaken]

Fisting:

We were so close.

And what a horrible feeling to use the safe word.


Another time....

 

[CarolineOh]

So many people having fun, and so many people filled with high hopes! What a wonderful read to start my day.

I already wrote about my Friday night (I'm still a little sore!). Last night we didn't "play" but it is interesting to reflect on how much bdsm colors our love making now, even when nothing is overt. Every time he touches me, or I do anything to give him pleasure, I am awash in the awareness that I am his. And he has become so comfortable in his ownership of my heart, that there is no longer a hesitation when he exercises his power.

In plain English, he fucked my brains out, and I loved every second of it.

 

[CarolineOh]

Fisting:

We were so close.

And what a horrible feeling to use the safe word.


Another time....

Sweetie, I think you ought to be proud of yourself that you had the courage to use your safeword, and risk disappointing him, and you ought to feel elated that when you used it, he demonstrated his trustworthiness.

I am overjoyed that you had such a wonderful time. You deserve nothing but the best.

 

[Ebonyfire]

Oh Wizard! The playroom sound wonderful. I'm going to try to set something up in my garage, i think, not having a basement, but have to do some serious soundproofing first.

The toys...those I beams and the ~delicate shudder~ horse! It's certainly an inducement to come visit your house!~giggling madly~
Uh, no. It's only bdsm if it's consensual, darlin'. If it's being done for profit then, well, it's...it's...well, ummm, it's...prostitution? What's that song about raining men?
Oh yeh...

Humidity's rising
Barometer's getting low
According to all sources
The street's the place to go

'Cos tonight for the first time
At just about half past ten
For the first time in history
It's gonna start raining men

It's raining men
Hallelujah it's raining men, Amen
It's raining men
Hallelujah it's raining men, Amen

Humidity's rising
Barometer's getting low
According to all sources
The street's the place to go

'Cos tonight for the first time
At just about half past ten
For the first time in history
It's gonna start raining men

It's raining men
Hallelujah it's raining men, Amen
I'm gonna go out
I'm gonna let myself get
Absolutely soaking wet

It's raining men
Hallelujah it's raining men
Every specimen
Tall blond dark and mean
Rough and tough and strong and lean

God bless Mother Nature
She's a single woman too
She took on a heaven
And she did what she had to do
She taught every angel
To rearrange the sky
So that each and every woman
Could find her perfect guy

It's raining men
Go get yourself wet girl
I know you want to

I feel stormy weather moving in
About to begin
Hear the thunder
Don't you lose your head
Rip off the roof and stay in bed

It's raining men Hallelujah
It's raining men, Amen
It's raining men Hallelujah
It's raining men, Amen

It's raining men Hallelujah
It's raining men, Amen
It's raining men Hallelujah
It's raining men, Amen

Yep! Let's change that "men" to "subs" and I would be one happy Domme!

Eb

 

[Wizard]

MissTaken, thats is awsome that you did all of that......what a wonderful time you must have had. There are folks that only wish they could have had a night like that!!!!!

I wouldn't worry at all about using the "Red" word thats what it is there for and there is not a thing wrong with using it.
You did the right thing ..........

Have fun and be safe...............

Glad to hear of you playtime, thanks for sharing it with us.

 

[MissTaken]

Sweetie, I think you ought to be proud of yourself that you had the courage to use your safeword, and risk disappointing him, and you ought to feel elated that when you used it, he demonstrated his trustworthiness.

I am overjoyed that you had such a wonderful time. You deserve nothing but the best.

Thank you!

He was most understanding and comforting which certainly helped.



I know after this weekend, I have learned what to look for in a Dom and what to avoid. Unfortunately, I have spent far too much on the "what to avoid" list

 

[Ebonyfire]

Re: Okay! Okay!

I will leave out many little details, but it all started with some chit chat on the street in Ottawa. After a bit, he asked if I wanted to come to his home for dinner. Yes. I knew he was safe at the very least and kind as well.

We sat side by side on the couch, me blushing and anxious, until I felt him slip a grape into my mouth. Then his hand at the back of my neck caressing as we we talked.

Keeping in mind that I have real time experience with wanabee Doms, some of what happened is BDSM 101, but oh so, exciting for me.

When I felt comfie, he lead me into the hall, told me to present myself. I assumed the position and sighed as his hands roamed over my body.

He lead me into a dark room where there was only a chair, a pillow and a riding crop lain across the chair.

Now, a list:
Ice
Chocolate during the entire evening. Hmmm a wonderful treat for good behavior or simply a piece of chocolate on his body that was where my mouth needed to go.
Feather duster
Blindfolds
Candle wax
Rope flogger (Delicious)
Riding crop (lovely)
Hands and knees for different things
Wonderful hair pulling! Incredible turn on.
Restraints. He didn't use full body restraints so as not make me feel uncomfortable.
Orgasm Control
Feeding him of my own volition
Sitting on the floor at his feet of my own volition
(The above two were very telling activities for both of us.)
He bathed me after
Urine play.
Fisting...(RED on this one. I simply wasn't going to happen as it hurt and I couldn't relax to allow it to work. We will try again, though )
All varieties of intercourse, oral, anal and vaginal
Biting, spanking, etc
A game??? Nipple clamps on my breasts with magnets. I then, had to lean over to pick up metal objects strewn about the floor while he encouraged me with the flogger.

And things I simply don't remember, but remember the feeling or sensation.

This reads more like an essay , "How I spent my summer vacation!)

And "Look mom, no marks!!!!"

Amazing. *giggles*

Who turned up the heat? Glad you are enjoying yourself!

Eb

 

[MotorCitySam]

Miss T, I am glad to read of your exciting weekend. I am very pleased that it was so successful for you.

 

[Persephone36]

Oho!

...I missed that MissT had put the *full* detailed description on this thread.

Wow, MissT! Sounds like you had a wonderful time and met someone who as a Dom in r/l -- you thoroughly enjoyed! Sounds like he more than met your expectations.

Well, I sort of ran through my dirt on Quint's exhilaration thread...but I'll add a few things here as well.

I had a great weekend -- I know we both did. Funny, activesense and I only met about 5 weeks ago, on LIT (okay -- I hit on him, lol) and it turned out that we "clicked" in person the way we had already through PM's and emails and the phone. I know that's not always the case -- so I consider my lucky. Oh, lucky in *a lot* of ways, lol. He was in person, the genuine lovely, incredibly intelligent, silly, fun, sensitive, caring man he always seemed to me to be. And in fact, lol, he was better than I could have imagined. I mean -- put that bundle of attributes in a tall, handsome man who's *extremely* sexy -- well, I mean -- *rowr*

And *rowr* my head off I did this weekend, lol.

Oh, in all ways -- just being with him as a friend and getting to know him better as a person...just being so lucky enough to have him let me know him better, just the ways he's been letting me in over the last few weeks -- that was very special in and of itself.

But great sex doesn't hurt either.

We're both new to searching out our Dom and sub sides. I'm not giving away secrets here, lol -- he's written about that on this board too. But this weekend, I asked and we agreed to keep it relatively vanilla -- but we also did some exploring. Pushed a few boundaries of mine. That was wonderful too. Just trusting someone that much to take you to new places is a big compliment itself, I believe. (I know he's going to get around to reading this -- so I want him to really hear me say it, lol.)

I will honestly say -- there are not that many people I like and admire and respect and wish to put in the energy to genuinely care about -- but he's one of them.

How's that for a testimonial about a great weekend?

Got to deepen a friendship, think about where we want to go next, have some play, have some fun times out in New York.

How many people are as lucky as me?

Oh, yeah, lol -- he is. After all -- he got to do all the same above -- with someone as special as me.

(do you think he'll catch the subtlety in that last remark???)


P.

 

[MotorCitySam]

Congratulations to you as well, Persephone!

 

[Persephone36]

Congratulations to you as well, Persephone!

Thank you, Sam!


P.

 

[Verypowerful]

Re: Okay! Okay!

MissTaken; I have one word: WOW!

Actually I have more; inspiring, beautiful, intense, impressive!

VP

 

[cymbidia]

I already said this on Quint's thread but here it is again: i'm blazingly glad that MissT and Perse had such amazingly wonderful meetings/first times with these two special dominants. That one of them is even, also, one of our own makes it that much more stupendous.

I feel as if the black cloud of unrest and dissention and unkindliness that so plagued us this past summer is finally dissapating! Hurrah for us all!

We've been due some open-hearted smiles round here.
Really good sex never hurt anyone's attitude, either.
I'm all for good sex - for me and for you, too.

 

[Ebonyfire]

Re: Oho!

...I missed that MissT had put the *full* detailed description on this thread.

Wow, MissT! Sounds like you had a wonderful time and met someone who as a Dom in r/l -- you thoroughly enjoyed! Sounds like he more than met your expectations.

Well, I sort of ran through my dirt on Quint's exhilaration thread...but I'll add a few things here as well.

I had a great weekend -- I know we both did. Funny, activesense and I only met about 5 weeks ago, on LIT (okay -- I hit on him, lol) and it turned out that we "clicked" in person the way we had already through PM's and emails and the phone. I know that's not always the case -- so I consider my lucky. Oh, lucky in *a lot* of ways, lol. He was in person, the genuine lovely, incredibly intelligent, silly, fun, sensitive, caring man he always seemed to me to be. And in fact, lol, he was better than I could have imagined. I mean -- put that bundle of attributes in a tall, handsome man who's *extremely* sexy -- well, I mean -- *rowr*

And *rowr* my head off I did this weekend, lol.

Oh, in all ways -- just being with him as a friend and getting to know him better as a person...just being so lucky enough to have him let me know him better, just the ways he's been letting me in over the last few weeks -- that was very special in and of itself.

But great sex doesn't hurt either.

We're both new to searching out our Dom and sub sides. I'm not giving away secrets here, lol -- he's written about that on this board too. But this weekend, I asked and we agreed to keep it relatively vanilla -- but we also did some exploring. Pushed a few boundaries of mine. That was wonderful too. Just trusting someone that much to take you to new places is a big compliment itself, I believe. (I know he's going to get around to reading this -- so I want him to really hear me say it, lol.)

I will honestly say -- there are not that many people I like and admire and respect and wish to put in the energy to genuinely care about -- but he's one of them.

How's that for a testimonial about a great weekend?

Got to deepen a friendship, think about where we want to go next, have some play, have some fun times out in New York.

How many people are as lucky as me?

Oh, yeah, lol -- he is. After all -- he got to do all the same above -- with someone as special as me.

(do you think he'll catch the subtlety in that last remark???)


P.

Perse why be modest, it is all true! You are all that and 5 bags of Doritos! I am so happy for you!

Eb

 

[Daddyslilpet]

Miss T and Perse, I very happy for both of you. Sounds like you both have had a great weekend. Here's hoping that things will go whatever way makes you the happiest.

to each of you
dixi

 

[MzChrista]

Well I got no action this weekend but I went and had lunch with Caroline today at Mongolian Barbeque and then we went to Noir leather and looked at all cool stuff.
Then we ate chocolate gelato and talked about all of yous.

 

[Ebonyfire]

Well I got no action this weekend but I went and had lunch with Caroline today at Mongolian Barbeque and then we went to Noir leather and looked at all cool stuff.
Then we ate chocolate gelato and talked about all of yous.

How was the chocolate gelato?

Eb

 

[MzChrista]

How was the chocolate gelato?

Eb

It wasnt as good as if I was eating it off of Miss T, but it was pretty good.

 

[P. B. Walker]

I got some good action this afternoon. Came home from a long bike ride in the rain and my right hand was in the naughtest of moods. So of course... I had to let the slut out. hehe.

PBW "Congrats to everyone on their fun weekends"

 

[Ebonyfire]

It wasnt as good as if I was eating it off of Miss T, but it was pretty good.

I swallowed my water, thank god! but the sputter was there!

Eb

 

[Ebonyfire]

I got some good action this afternoon. Came home from a long bike ride in the rain and my right hand was in the naughtest of moods. So of course... I had to let the slut out. hehe.

PBW "Congrats to everyone on their fun weekends"

Being a slut does not make you a bad person!

Eb

 

[MissTaken]

It wasnt as good as if I was eating it off of Miss T, but it was pretty good.

Did I mention that chocolate is my favorite treat?

 

[MzChrista]

Did I mention that chocolate is my favorite treat?

Girl, we all read about your weekend. But it didnt sound like the chocolate was your #1 favorite.