Wasted 2 years of my life

tdot28

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I just wasted two years with a woman I met on Lit :(

I hate myself for getting involved with someone I met online but it just happened - We talked everyday, we were essentially a real couple - except for one major detail we never video chatted, never met, only spoke on the phone and exchanged photos.

I shared my life with her, she shared hers with me, I tried to set up meet ups, I bought her webcamS (plural) but there was always an excuse - not enough money, computer doesn't work, etc etc. We fought about this all the time, and she would try to end things and I would feel like a jerk for pushing the issue.

I recently decided that I was going to book a trip regardless of what she said, I had it all ready to go, flight hotel etc. 1 week before we were supposed to meet up, she sent me an email basically saying that she was not the person that she said she was! She sent me photos of one of her friends, and it turns out she has 2 KIDS! WHAT THE HELL?!?! I was always suspicious but I was so into this girl I buried my suspicion!

Clearly what I thought was a real relationship was a big bag of countless lies!

What the hell is wrong with people? Why are people so fucking unsatisfied with themselves that they have to lie about who they are for 2 years!!

In hindsight I'm really happy this relationship is over, this person was a professional liar, who needs help!

Im just dumbfounded for what to say, what crazy fucking situation!

PS: if you have something rude to say go fuck yourself - I just need to let this out.
 
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I just wasted two years with a woman I met on Lit :(

I hate myself for getting involved with someone I met online but it just happened - We talked everyday, were essentially a real couple. Except for one major detail we never video chatted, never met, only spoke on the phone and exchanged photos.

I shared my life with her, she shared hers with me, I tired to set up meet ups, I bough her webcamS (plural) but there was always an excuse - no enough money, computer doesn't work, etc etc. We fought about this all the time, and she would try to end things and I would feel like a jerk for push the issue.

I recently decided that I was going to book a trip regardless of what she said, I had it all ready to go, flight hotel etc. 1 week before we were supposed to meet up, she sent me an email basically saying that she was not the person that she said she was and she had sent me photos of one of her friends, and it turns out she has 2 KIDS! WHAT THE HELL?!?! I was always suspicious but I was so into this girl I buried my suspicion!

Clearly what I though was a real relationship was a big bag of countless lies!

What the hell is wrong with people? Why are people so fucking unsatisfied with themselves that they have to lie about who they are for 2 years!!

In hindsight I'm really happy this relationship is over, this person was a professional liar, who needs help!

Im just dumbfounded for what to say, what crazy fucking situation!

PS: if you have something rude to say go fuck yourself - I just need to let this out.

That's what I meant to do.
 
No it wasn't, rather not share her name - I am not a dick.

Sorry, was alluding to the last time something like that happened here, it was a guy pretending to be a girl, and used pictures from a friend named Natasha to mislead folks.
 
So you got catfished. It happens.

You cant blame her if you kept up the pretense once the first webcam didn't work.

I am trying out the catfish thing now.

I am pretending to be a woman.

I am hoping it works.

:cool:
 
...we were essentially a real couple - except for...

You - and all bottom suckers - really need to learn the definition of delusional...

...until then, Tryharder will just keep reeling you bozos in.
 
You - and all bottom suckers - really need to learn the definition of delusional...

...until then, Tryharder will just keep reeling you bozos in.

You missed the most important part: GO FUCK YOURSELF
 
So you got catfished. It happens.

You cant blame her if you kept up the pretense once the first webcam didn't work.

I am trying out the catfish thing now.

I am pretending to be a woman.

I am hoping it works.

:cool:

Just keep your cock tucked when we meet.
 
PS: if you have something rude to say go fuck yourself [/QUOTE]

Okay.
 
I just wasted two years with a woman I met on Lit :(

I hate myself for getting involved with someone I met online but it just happened - We talked everyday, we were essentially a real couple - except for one major detail we never video chatted, never met, only spoke on the phone and exchanged photos.

I shared my life with her, she shared hers with me, I tried to set up meet ups, I bought her webcamS (plural) but there was always an excuse - not enough money, computer doesn't work, etc etc. We fought about this all the time, and she would try to end things and I would feel like a jerk for pushing the issue.

I recently decided that I was going to book a trip regardless of what she said, I had it all ready to go, flight hotel etc. 1 week before we were supposed to meet up, she sent me an email basically saying that she was not the person that she said she was! She sent me photos of one of her friends, and it turns out she has 2 KIDS! WHAT THE HELL?!?! I was always suspicious but I was so into this girl I buried my suspicion!

Clearly what I thought was a real relationship was a big bag of countless lies!

What the hell is wrong with people? Why are people so fucking unsatisfied with themselves that they have to lie about who they are for 2 years!!

In hindsight I'm really happy this relationship is over, this person was a professional liar, who needs help!

Im just dumbfounded for what to say, what crazy fucking situation!

PS: if you have something rude to say go fuck yourself - I just need to let this out.

What a fucking crybaby.

Here is a woman who thought you are so much, she created a whole fantasy personality, just to please you. It takes a lot of time and effort to do that. She must have thought you were worth it and all you can do is bitch.

Actually, no. We've seen plenty of people who fell in love with a fantasy lover, only to discover the deception, and this is not how they act.
 
What a fucking crybaby.

Here is a man who thought you are so much, he created a whole fantasy personality, just to please you. It takes a lot of time and effort to do that. He must have thought you were worth it and all you can do is bitch.

Actually, no. We've seen plenty of people who fell in love with a fantasy lover, only to discover the deception, and this is not how they act.

FYP, yw.
 
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