Warning: Hairy topic

[bashfull]

Many men nowadays manscape and many women don't shave anything. What is your view on the topic?

Should men shave their chests? Some say it gives the chest more definition.
Their underarms? Their groin?

Is it appealing for a women to have hairy underarms? Groin?

 

[JustAnotherFlower]

Aw, the muff and ever present sweater conversation... My response is- to each their own. I shave my legs and pits regularly, but since my garden isn't visited regularly, the hedgerows have been allowed to go wild. Should a visitor be expected, the hedges are trimmed but never torn asunder. (Been there, done that, about itched to death.)

As for a man and his fuzziness, I'm perfectly okay with it being however he is most comfortable. However, if I begin to choke on hairballs instead on a thick cock,then something has to give. A trim would suffice, and, I might even offer to assist.

 

[Apisto42]

For oral, I prefer to not floss with her pubs, and I assume she feels the same.

 

[Mrtenant]

It's a lot of work to keep all that stuff in check.

 

[JustAnotherFlower]

"You'll be here in 30 minutes?!"

 

[JustAnotherFlower]

 

[Noor]

Many men nowadays manscape and many women don't shave anything. What is your view on the topic?

Should men shave their chests? Some say it gives the chest more definition.
Their underarms? Their groin?

Is it appealing for a women to have hairy underarms? Groin?

Everyone shave what they want to shave or not for their own comfort, I prefer natural for myself.

 

[Desiree_Radcliffe]

I've not encountered any of the "manscaping" to be a female expectation. I thought it was more an expectation men had for men, but I could be out of touch.

Can't we just, like, be enthusiastic about a person without having to criticize their flesh prison? Like, if you are attracted to someone, I doubt body hair is going to be a dealbreaker.

As an example, when I was in one of the chatrooms here, I described that I had pubic hair in a group RP room (before I found all of that was silly). I got a PM aggressively saying that I never should have shared that I had hair there!!!! And that any REAL Dom would not even want a woman with pubic hair.

Flash forward a few years later, when I was actually in the IRL BDSM scene. I took a long time shaving it off and was proud of having done so. I displayed it to my person at the time...he didn't even notice a difference. Now, either he was not as interested in what it looked like down there or I was too obsessed with what I had seen in porn. Let's just do what we do and stop judging people for doing what we don't do.

 

[ericalauren]

People shave or not according to their own wishes. I get peeved when cis men expect AFAB people to be completely hairless everywhere except their heads. The double standard is asinine. There are so many cis men walking around with holes in their clothing and unwashed underwear, and then they expect their partners to be glamorous with a fresh manicure, nice outfit, good hair, etc.

 

[bashfull]

so what does everyone find attractive on someone else?

 

[sallysparrow23]

I like body hair and it doesn't bother me. If you want to be natural, awesome. If you want to be shaved smooth, cool. Do what makes you feel comfortable. I will take into consideration my partners preferences if they differ from mine. I personally don't like being completely shaved but that's mostly because I don't want to maintain that... However, if my partner helped, I'd be happy to stay smooth more often.

 

[hopeful_wife]

since my garden isn't visited regularly, the hedgerows have been allowed to go wild. Should a visitor be expected, the hedges are trimmed but never torn asunder.

This is a beautifully written metaphor.

It's a lot of work to keep all that stuff in check.

Yes! Unless I can afford to start paying someone to do my gardening (to steal JAF's metaphor), there's no way I'll ever be featured in Better Homes and Gardens.

Do what makes you feel comfortable. I will take into consideration my partners preferences if they differ from mine.

Seconded on both counts! I find a person most sexy if they're connecting with me and really want to be in that moment with me... That's it. I've been attracted to men who are all along the hair spectrum and none of the attraction has been about the hair (even if someone has the most beautiful fur I've ever seen).

So why would I consider his preferences, if I believe so strongly that he doesn't need to change for me? Because I have a deep desire to please.

 

[Sageboundtight]

1000% natural. Like the Nazarites of Jesus.

But each to their own.

 

[barefootgirl69]

I'm not picky about any hair, honestly. Being well groomed is a must, but I find hair to be sexy.

As for me, I'm also not picky, but if he wants it tailored to his specifications or desire, he better be prepared to do the work. (It's pretty intimate )

 

[Desiree_Radcliffe]

Body hair is nice. I actually prefer it to not-body hair. I also dislike the trend of every man shaving his head now. I get that the hair recedes after a certain age, but there are a lot of reasons I don't personally like it.

But if someone wants to shave to the hills, go ahead.

 

[SimonSex]

So, I am in the midst of a re-read of D.H. Lawrence’ Lady Chatterley’s Lover. There is a sequence of lines in which Connie (Lady Chatterley) describes the different kinds of hair on her lover’s (Mellors) body.
The fineness of his head hair, the color and bristle of the moustache, the altogether different hair about his “John Thomas”, and so on. It’s all in recognition of basic sensuality and what we are born with. She gazes in a appreciation of all there is to enjoy about this hair and to whom it is attached.

Personally, I concur. Give me hair, plz.

 

[Kitty_so_frisky]

For oral, I prefer to not floss with her pubs, and I assume she feels the same.

Pretty much this. Doesn’t have to be shaved for me to suck his cock, but if he wants his balls in my mouth, they should be shaved or trimmed closely enough that I won’t be picking hairs out of my teeth.

People shave or not according to their own wishes. I get peeved when cis men expect AFAB people to be completely hairless everywhere except their heads. The double standard is asinine. There are so many cis men walking around with holes in their clothing and unwashed underwear, and then they expect their partners to be glamorous with a fresh manicure, nice outfit, good hair, etc.

Evergreen sentiment.

 

[Orlando30]

I shave my beard, chest, armpits and pubic area as my wife prefers it that way. I prefer her with a full bush, so she doesn't shave or trim her pubic area because I like it that way. She does shave her armpits, though, and she hardly has any leg hair.

 

[bashfull]

People shave or not according to their own wishes. I get peeved when cis men expect AFAB people to be completely hairless everywhere except their heads. The double standard is asinine. There are so many cis men walking around with holes in their clothing and unwashed underwear, and then they expect their partners to be glamorous with a fresh manicure, nice outfit, good hair, etc.

My take on that is if your partner wants you to shave or not, I believe you should for that person. It doesn't put you out to please him/her.

 

[ericalauren]

My take on that is if your partner wants you to shave or not, I believe you should for that person. It doesn't put you out to please him/her.

Interesting. I would not shave or not just because a partner wanted me to. But I'm asexual, so it doesn't matter, anyway.

 

[Massacre_]

For guys, the only "requirement" is that they're at least trimmed down below, because pubic hair and oral just.. not the one. I know men that shave the majority of their body, I know others that only trim their pubic area, others that let it go natural.. do what you want but understand your choices might play into you not getting certain sexual acts.

My requirements for myself, when I'm sexually active, include shaving/ keeping pubic hair down to a minimum (so at least weekly) and my legs get shaved pretty much every shower unless I'm feeling lazy. That's more for me though, I like smooth legs. Arm pits are shaved as needed, I'm not a fan of hair there. I will admit I've got what feels like a lot of hair on my arms, but I can't be bothered shaving it because I know the stubble will feel like sandpaper..

 

[lowcollar]

I have no requirements. However, I prefer women who don't shave anything. I don't like a hairy face though. I do like being feminized by my Mistress requiring that I shave my armpits or legs for her.

 

[SimonSex]

I’m a hairy dude with a full beard and lots of body hair. I don’t get the manscaping thing for chests and back, but see the beauty of trimming the hedges at the base of my monument.

I prefer lady gardens that are trimmed, but if you are face-to-face with one, life is good.

 

[Blueeyes4u100]

Aw, the muff and ever present sweater conversation... My response is- to each their own. I shave my legs and pits regularly, but since my garden isn't visited regularly, the hedgerows have been allowed to go wild. Should a visitor be expected, the hedges are trimmed but never torn asunder. (Been there, done that, about itched to death.)

As for a man and his fuzziness, I'm perfectly okay with it being however he is most comfortable. However, if I begin to choke on hairballs instead on a thick cock,then something has to give. A trim would suffice, and, I might even offer to assist.

A great reply. Everyone needs to do what they are comfortable with. I trim down below but haven't shaved any other part of my body.