A question for women about post-orgasm regret

JusticeGrey

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I have a question for the ladies of lit: is post-orgasm regret (or guilt) a thing for women? If so, is it immediate, or is it something that sets in the morning after, when arousal has passed?

As a man there have been times where, after an orgasm, I immediately feel bad about what just happened, or at the very least lose ALL interest in sex for a time, lose any desire to keep kissing, etc. I know that some (many/most?) women can have multiple orgasms, or at least don't have a refractory period like men do, so does that prevent this phenomenon from occurring in women?

I am working on several stories that center around married women who have sex with people who are, for various reasons, bad choices (hubby's dad, for example). Would a women who did such a thing regret it immediately while possibly still aroused, the next day when no longer aroused, or potentially not at all (or, as with many men, no longer regret it once aroused again)?

Any input/feedback to these questions is much appreciated!
 
I'm not surprised this didn't get a response. And It's probably because the obvious answer is that it all depends on the woman and the circumstance. Use your imagination and your sense of empathy. Create the woman, imagine how she would feel. Men often imagine women's emotions as this great mysterious enigma, but the reality is if you've known a woman, or loved a woman, you already know how they would feel.
 
There are times when your forced, almost like raped, and you don't want to give in, but you can't help it if the guy is strong and overpowering knows how to massage you the right way and screw you the right way. Then I immediately hate myself for giving in and orgasming, I hate the guy for forcing me, but even worse fantasize about it in my sleep, and kind of hope it happens again when the guy ghosts you. ...
 
The odd time where the feeling was better than the level of protection used...just met her, couldn't resist taking her word for not having to use birth control and cum inside...like I simply can't help if asked to..🥂⚔️
 
Some might have a second orgasm once they taste that hot, buttery mess!..lol..I bet you it's a kink somewhere on here. Can I take you to the cinema?..🍿🍦...baby...haha..you're good!🥂⚔️
 
I have a question for the ladies of lit: is post-orgasm regret (or guilt) a thing for women? If so, is it immediate, or is it something that sets in the morning after, when arousal has passed?

As a man there have been times where, after an orgasm, I immediately feel bad about what just happened, or at the very least lose ALL interest in sex for a time, lose any desire to keep kissing, etc. I know that some (many/most?) women can have multiple orgasms, or at least don't have a refractory period like men do, so does that prevent this phenomenon from occurring in women?

I am working on several stories that center around married women who have sex with people who are, for various reasons, bad choices (hubby's dad, for example). Would a women who did such a thing regret it immediately while possibly still aroused, the next day when no longer aroused, or potentially not at all (or, as with many men, no longer regret it once aroused again)?

Any input/feedback to these questions is much appreciated!
I don't think I do..I mean if I feel regret I don't think any amount of kissing or cuddling is gonna rectify the situation...but I'm going to put more thought into it
 
My wife said she felt immediate regret, even as it was happening, when she lost contol and had an orgasm with someone other than me. She was my girlfriend, permitted to date others in college, but having sex and certainly having an orgasm were cheating.
 
No. The only regret I've ever felt has to do with ol. You'd think men can be upfront on an anonymous adult site. To the contrary, they waste their time and mine with extremely irrelevant bullshit and mind-numbing games.
All they have to do is read my profile
Why is that so hard
But I get men messaging me all the time anyway
 
Ok, well- I'll toss in a "yes", lol. Not on regret, buy on the description of at times having an orgasm and the switch of sexual interest IMMEDIATELY flips off. I'm up, moving, done and moved on within seconds of cumming, sometimes.
 
No. The only regret I've ever felt has to do with ol. You'd think men can be upfront on an anonymous adult site. To the contrary, they waste their time and mine with extremely irrelevant bullshit and mind-numbing games.
We jump into the chase like a wolf, but then we turn into a stupid little puppy that just wants to please. It’s a weird thing.
Sounds like you just have to keep working on narrowing the field…
 
I have so had regret sex. Was in a toxic relationship for a while but omg the fucking sex was great, he was actually the only guy I've ever came so freaking hard I squirted on him while he was fucking me. Even after we split up we'd still get together. And after the sex I'd be going wtf did I just do, I can't do this no matter how good the sex was. But that was years ago.
 
In regard to “Post Orgasm Regret”… there are various reasons that may cause it.
1. He was the only one to have an orgasm.
2. You discover he was married afterwards.
3. You discover YOU were married once you sober up.
4. You find explicit photos of you “doing it” on the internet.
5. He was AMAZING but only wanted a one-night stand.
 
I’m not a woman but I’ll answer anyway. I’ve never regretted having an orgasm. This may be because I’ve never had sex, so I have no place to regret my choice of partners.
 
I’m not a woman but I’ll answer anyway. I’ve never regretted having an orgasm. This may be because I’ve never had sex, so I have no place to regret my choice of partners.

Just so you don’t keep missing out….. You don’t have to have sex with another person in order to experience an orgasm. I was having orgasms long before I ever even saw a naked boy in person.
 
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