Want to enjoy anal better

[Thenewerpenguin]

I've always had a fascination of getting my ass fucked. I've tried using toys on myself and even had my g/f fuck me with her dildos. It starts out great each time, the anticipation, the initial penetration; but once it's all the way in and the fucking begins I lose my erection. The excitement is still kind of there, but I go limp. Just wonder if i am doing this all wrong.

 

[priapusone]

want to

just a suggestion, but try here:

https://www.aneros.com/forum/

 

[Thenewerpenguin]

Read some of the posts. Beginning to wonder if I need male stimulation to help with the desire and need to keep me erection going

 

[bluesky496]

I've always had a fascination of getting my ass fucked. I've tried using toys on myself and even had my g/f fuck me with her dildos. It starts out great each time, the anticipation, the initial penetration; but once it's all the way in and the fucking begins I lose my erection. The excitement is still kind of there, but I go limp. Just wonder if i am doing this all wrong.

no youre not doing it wrong honey ,sometimes it happens and other times you will stay hard all the way through ,try manual stimulation at the same time ,it works for me .

 

[Thenewerpenguin]

Will definitely give it a shot (later tonight no doubt) I'm just hoping the act itself will eventually be enough to keep me up.

 

[priapusone]

yeah

just keep trying

 

[nkdjim2]

Your sensations are coming from your prostate/anus not from your cock.
If you are lucky you may have an orgasm from that type of play. I am still working on it myself. Not getting or keeping an erection is not unusal.
Shoot for that orgasm without cock play and be sure to include other visual/mental/physical stimulation. ie nipple play, rubbing stomach etc., just not cock.
orgasm may be dry also but can be multiple. Ck out Aneros site.
Good luck and keep us informed..

 

[stickygirl]

Men can't multi-task: here is the proof
Loss of erection is perfectly normal with anal - don't worry! Besides you can still come without one

 

[salonee6]

anal

just play with your nipples then your erection will stand long

 

[stickygirl]

just play with your nipples then your erection will stand long

pouncetacklesquishieboobies - Dang me, if it ain't another virgin Welcome! And I love my nipples being tweaked whilst it's all going on down there

 

[kelli_qcd]

i never really thought about it but i too get soft or at least softer when my boi-pussy is being pounded.. i get so lost in how good it feels that my "cock" isn't even a part of the feelings...

 

[boi6969]

i never really thought about it but i too get soft or at least softer when my boi-pussy is being pounded.. i get so lost in how good it feels that my "cock" isn't even a part of the feelings...

I'm so much like u, I never think of my own cock when I got a wonderful cock buried deep in my man-pussy.

 

[bigwarwood]

When its intense it kind of goes either way. In my case it depends on whats leading up to it. I've had a 3some and was getting it mauled while getting pried open and it was an amazing situation. Every thrust felt like it was going right through me and out the end of my cock and into the mouth slurping on it. Other times, you're absolutely right, it didn't matter with the trashing that was taking place. Even other times, it just took that penetration and that threw me over the edge. I've been fortunate enough to have had lovers that worked it like they owned it and fucked an ass orgasm out of me, its incredible the first time your ass blows up and out the end of a flaccid cock and it just pours out in a flowing gush with no squirting. I think if done right and caught at the right time, that orgasm can be sustained for a longer period of time. Ummmm, something to experiment with and try to accomplish.

 

[priapusone]

want

I get lost too

 

[klippert]

I lost my erection when I used toys as well... and the times I took a real cock.. I can say I did maintain my hard-on when I was fucking his wife, when he had my ass with his tongue first then his cock... on other time I held on when he did me by the pool. hot day, sicked up with lotion, and several drink down my throat

 

[Stella_Omega]

Read some of the posts. Beginning to wonder if I need male stimulation to help with the desire and need to keep me erection going

Only if you actually want to have sex with men. if your do, then enjoy-- remembering, of course that you will need to square it with your girlfriend, because cheating is cheating.

If you are not turned on by men, then getting a man up your butt won't be of much use to you.

And remember, your dildo doesn't ever cum too quickly.

 

[bicurious19]

Just keep doing it. When I was a lot younger, I stuck a toothbrush in my ass in the shower, didn't see how anal was encouraged In porn. Tried the toothbrush over and over. Then something bigger, then a cock balls deep in ur ass. If ur asking how to make anal better, just keep doing it. Over and over harder and harder deeper deeper. Then you'll crave it

 

[stickygirl]

What is it with guys ( and girls ) that turned on has to = erection? You can have so much fun without a stiffy. I'm sure there's some sound anatomical reason for losing your erection whilst being penetrated, but I've never bothered Googling because It Doesn't Matter.

I read somewhere else today a reply from a woman saying that if a guy wasn't hard she would go into therapy?! FFS. It's a body, not a freakin machine - it's such left-brain thinking even from a woman. Does a guy fancy his mattress because he wakes up with a woody? Our bodies are just a big swirling soup of hormones and to try and make sense of it is almost self-defeating.

I'd go with the some of the previous posts: if you getting humped then enjoy the privilege: it's amazing, it's so many sensations. No wonder your hormones centers are going like "He has something up his ass. Whadda we do? Is this flight or fight? Does he need adrenalin right now or what?!"
So... calm down. Enjoy it. Sheesh!

 

[JaxRhapsody]

I just figured it was normal.to loose it. Itll get right back up
.

 

[blubyuf6]

I have stayed hard and have not, I have cummed many times with my dick not hard while I ride my dildo, but I like to suck it for guys or girls on cam,that gets me hard...

 

[Thenewerpenguin]

Thanks for all the encouragement. I've kept at it (so to speak) and have met with some success. The good feeling of toying with myself is getting better, and have stayed hard a couple times. Don't think I will try an actual man though, not a realistic option. Unless ,of course, my gf agrees to a bi three way; which I don't think she'd be too opposed to. But for now ill just continue to find new ways to pleasure myself.

 

[bluesky496]

I've always had a fascination of getting my ass fucked. I've tried using toys on myself and even had my g/f fuck me with her dildos. It starts out great each time, the anticipation, the initial penetration; but once it's all the way in and the fucking begins I lose my erection. The excitement is still kind of there, but I go limp. Just wonder if i am doing this all wrong.

no honey it is perfectly natural to lose your erection but you will find you can still enjoy it .x

 

[Seamen]

no honey it is perfectly natural to lose your erection but you will find you can still enjoy it .x

I totally agree.. i am rarely hard during anal... mostly i am semi-hard or limp.... i can cum without being hard, so that's not an issue.. and for me at least being turned on has nothing to do with being hard... being a pure bottom, for me the erection is purely for decoration, really

 

[kelli_qcd]

I've always had a fascination of getting my ass fucked. I've tried using toys on myself and even had my g/f fuck me with her dildos. It starts out great each time, the anticipation, the initial penetration; but once it's all the way in and the fucking begins I lose my erection. The excitement is still kind of there, but I go limp. Just wonder if i am doing this all wrong.

as long as it feels good... so what if you lose your erection?

 

[PleasePeesMe]

You only need your erection

if you're doing the fucking. If you're being fucked, who cares? (But I'd like to be sucked while I'm being fucked. Preferably by my wife.)