Vulnerable outfit

[Cattypuss]

If you wanted to feel controlled you could try deciding and writing down six scenarios to act out, ranging fom entirely within your comfort zone to just ouside your comfort zone, and roll a die.. or 11 scenarios and roll a pair of dice.

 

[Myskaninen]

I really liked to put my ex girlfriend vunareble outfits but only when I was there to protect her as I know many guys don't know where their hands are from experience in those situations...
but if you find the loose blouse with nothing under to start with as a vurnerable outfit go for it though a picture of you bending forward would be nice

 

[DiscusDave]

You could spill a drink on your work clothes, an hour or so before the end of your shift. That would force you into having to change..but also allow you an out to be able to go home soon after in case your fantasy starts to feel uncomfortable or dangerous. You can look revealing by wearing something simple like a white, almost sheer, blouse and a bra that shows 1/2 your nipples underneath. Or no bra at all with a at-the-knee skirt with no panties only nylons and a garter belt. Start out conservatively.

I think the drink spilling is a pretty cool idea. That definitely has the sense of "it's out of my hands" kind of control loss. And the point about it giving you an out is very true too.

Forgive me for being a moodkiller once more but you could be making a mistake here. Wearing an outfit that makes you vulnerable in a nightclub full of drunk, horny men could get you assaulted or raped. If you look and act as though you are 'asking for it' in a horny man's booze crazed opinion, it may only be a matter of time before some guy corners and attacks you. Also, nightclubs have only a handful of security guys. Counting on one to spot you and rescue you in a crowded environment like that is incredibly dicey.

I would like to comment about the idea of wearing an outfit that's "asking for it." I, sadly, know quite a few people who have been victim to rape or intense sexual assault, and honestly there is no "asking for it." Granted showing a bit too much skin can and probably will arouse attention/suspicion/guys' wood; by no means should that be construed as sara_l asking for it and she would not be at fault for the reactions men give her. Empirically, she would be arousing men with skimpier outfits, but what the men do is out of her control for the most part. Her posts here make it clear of her reservations and fears about this. I don't want to seem like I'm trying to moot your point Velvet, I just want to clarify who's fault (regardless of skimpy clothing or acting extra flirtatious) any malicious or inappropriate actions would be.

I do agree though, that night clubs or bars aren't necessarily safe, for anyone; let alone the people working there. But I think you're on to something sara_l. It does seem like a social enough place where you are "required" or "forced" to wear skimpier clothing. Your tips will count on it.

Besides the starting slow (i.e. no bra/panties, ben wa balls, chance dice rolls picking your scenario, etc.) I would suggest using possible coworkers as good sources of control loss. Other female bar tenders or waitresses probably know what cloths to wear to rake in a little extra dough. Give them some of your clothing to have on hand at the bar/club, and ask them to dress you up to get the most tips. That could be an excellent way to lose control of what you wear.

 

[Sir Victor]

Any updates sara?