virgin

[HARDKOREBJ]

being a virgin just sucks.maybe i should just give up and end it all.

 

[Shy Tall Guy]

being a virgin just sucks.maybe i should just give up and end it all.

Bullshit - BTDT; it is only slightly worse than being abstinant and some ways better; you don't remember what you are missing.

Sex, while a very fun endeavor, can be highly overrated. Don't let it get you down - it will happen eventually. Meanwhile find something else to keep your mind off it.

STG

 

[sexy-girl]

ive been sad some today for some obvious reasons everyone knows about and a few personal ones (i dont reveal everything on the board just nearly everything) but i know im still a VERY lucky girl i have family i have my health and all my limbs i never have to worry about not having food to eat or a roof above my head


there is alot worse people off in the world then me or you ... being a virgin isnt the WORSE thing in the world you seem to be suffering perhaps some kind of depression and i do feel for you ... but seeking pity on here isnt the answer ... you have friends here but they arent a subsitute for real life ... you should considor talking to a docter im only saying this because i honestly wish for you to get better and i really think it would help you

 

[HARDKOREBJ]

sorry

if your health was in danger what would you do.i can`t seem to keep my mind off of my sickness

 

[Shy Tall Guy]

Re: sorry

if your health was in danger what would you do.

I've never been there for more than a few minutes at a time, and then it was a life or death situation and I was mostly concerned with trying to live through what was happening - I didn't have time to think about it, I just had to act to stay alive from one second to the next.

However, I do know a few people who have had illnesses that were/are life threatening, including one very close to me right now, and while it weighs on their mind they found solace in living life to the fullest as tomorrow may not be so kind as today. In short, get out and do something if you are able.

STG

 

[HARDKOREBJ]

tough

it is tough being sick and working.

 

[Willing and Unsure]

ya know... not being a virgin doesnt really change your life that much... i just lost my virginity about 3 weeks ago... and i'll say that except for the love i'm giving and receiving, i feel the same as i did before i lost it...

if you're not happy, it is not because of whether or not your a virgin.. if you give up your virginity to someone thinking you'll be happy afterwards, you are greatly mistaken.. you will probably be just as unhappy as you were before if not more than you were before you gave it up

if you want to be happy, you have to make yourself happy. no one else is going to do that for you. if you're sick, no one is going to make you better but you.

you can lead a horse to water, but you cant make it drink.

 

[lilfrk]

Lots of people that are sick work BJ. That's life, it's just how it works. We all have choices to make. Are we gonna live life to it's fullest or curl up in a ball and be a lump.

I've done both. I've been a curled up lump of nothing. It's not fun. I got tired of being young and letting my illness run my life. So I decided to live again, for me, for my daughter, for my friends and family. I have good days and bad days like everyone else.

My question to you is this: What exactly is wrong with you? Besides being depressed.

 

[HARDKOREBJ]

not sure

no one know why i can`t keep the food down.it is fatal though

 

[lilfrk]

If they don't know what it is...how do they know it's fatal?