Vaginal dryness

[BrunoSammartino]

Hello,
My wife has diabetes typ II and therefore she got vaginal dryness. Sorrily this means getting into her got some pain.
Yep, she takes those cremes, but casual sex is not than before. Honestly i am afraid touching here or get my fingers in the clit.
This also means, sex is not the first thing she thinks on now. As i am in the beginning sixties, i often have lust, but will not set her
under pressure, because of that. Perhaps any woman have/ had similiar problems and have advice or what you have done.
Also she is no fan of jerking me and ass fucking is not my priority . So not completely easy with me. Thanks in advance

 

[HumpDayHoratio]

Tell her to look into Peachy Crème. Wife is menopausal and she says this helps with dryness.

 

[BrunoSammartino]

Tell her to look into Peachy Crème. Wife is menopausal and she says this helps with dryness.

Thanks a lot. My wife has diabetes and women doc gives https://www.vagisan.com/de-de/vagin...ewoLEt083DIbbQum8p_zvFoF4yYHBAAG-uA_iNc3pu4ho
Its a German site. Are you afraid of doing oral with creme, when i am allowed to ask.

 

[Lifestyle66]

Hello,
My wife has diabetes typ II and therefore she got vaginal dryness. Sorrily this means getting into her got some pain.
Yep, she takes those cremes, but casual sex is not than before. Honestly i am afraid touching here or get my fingers in the clit.
This also means, sex is not the first thing she thinks on now. As i am in the beginning sixties, i often have lust, but will not set her
under pressure, because of that. Perhaps any woman have/ had similiar problems and have advice or what you have done.
Also she is no fan of jerking me and ass fucking is not my priority . So not completely easy with me. Thanks in advance

My wife has similar dryness. She requires a few drops of silicone lube (Pink Lady brand is her preferred) or coconut oil on me, otherwise it's slow and painful for her when I enter. Even when playing with her own clit, she needs some coconut oil on her fingers to enjoy it.

 

[HumpDayHoratio]

Thanks a lot. My wife has diabetes and women doc gives https://www.vagisan.com/de-de/vagin...ewoLEt083DIbbQum8p_zvFoF4yYHBAAG-uA_iNc3pu4ho
It’s a German site. Are you afraid of doing oral with creme, when i am allowed to ask.

Never be afraid!

The creme she puts on daily, and I can’t say I’ve noticed a taste. Her arousal oil on the other hand is a different matter. This is a CBD type oil applied right before “the Deed” and consists of a suppository and the oil. This leaves a bad aftertaste that was most off putting.

She sent them an email and the company was perplexed as they said it was supposed to taste like chocolate! Once that seed was planted in my head, it made the difference? It’s’ weird I know, but it doesn’t bother me as much now, but there is still an aftertaste I could do without.

If she only uses the Peach creme you’ll be fine! Happy Muff diving!

 

[el_uno77]

Hello,
My wife has diabetes typ II and therefore she got vaginal dryness. Sorrily this means getting into her got some pain.
Yep, she takes those cremes, but casual sex is not than before. Honestly i am afraid touching here or get my fingers in the clit.
This also means, sex is not the first thing she thinks on now. As i am in the beginning sixties, i often have lust, but will not set her
under pressure, because of that. Perhaps any woman have/ had similiar problems and have advice or what you have done.
Also she is no fan of jerking me and ass fucking is not my priority . So not completely easy with me. Thanks in advance

try Astroglide. you can find it in any pharmacy. it is water based so it will not leave any stains. i put some on my cock before we have sex and it works wonders. it is odor free and it does not have any after taste if you taste it.

 

[butters]

lots of lube... helps enormously. It's not just dryness, though, which i experience externally but not internally; as one ages there's generally a thinning of the external vaginal/labial skin as it loses its elasticity so tears easily.
i cannot take hormone replacements due to being on a low dose bp medication, so it's lube and that's about it. I can still enjoy receiving oral without it, but only for a limited time and very very gently before things get too tender, but then we can just move forward to other niceties. Masturbation's just about a no-go but with lube i can still enjoy penetrative sex. Understanding your wife's discomforts and finding ways around them is nice, and i hope you both find ways to gain fulfilment... and that's not always about sex.

 

[Fingerfuxs]

Tell her to look into Peachy Crème. Wife is menopausal and she says this helps with dryness.

This stuff is a da Bomb and works so well. A lady friend 67 years young of mind told my wife **55 years young about it a year ago.

It’s a night time *her thing that does * it’s thing within the lady woo woo …lol As I understand it and was told by my lady friend Not TO GET IT IN or on MY DICK it’s not a lube it’s a medicine. { or in layman’s term don’t fuck right after she applies it. } estrogen

They meet via a phone hall pass verification meet and greet. As I understand it there is a Facebook group about older cougars or something similar that it’s discuss‘d at length.

best of luck

I tell my wife her pussy time traveled back to being 45 years old , it’s tight , wetter and increased her libido back to pre menopause levels . It took about a month of following the night,y regimen to take full effect.

 

[BrunoSammartino]

Thanks a lot for your replies, very helpful to discuss this here.

 

[HumpDayHoratio]

This stuff is a da Bomb and works so well. A lady friend 67 years young of mind told my wife **55 years young about it a year ago.

It’s a night time *her thing that does * it’s thing within the lady woo woo …lol As I understand it and was told by my lady friend Not TO GET IT IN or on MY DICK it’s not a lube it’s a medicine. { or in layman’s term don’t fuck right after she applies it. } estrogen

They meet via a phone hall pass verification meet and greet. As I understand it there is a Facebook group about older cougars or something similar that it’s discuss‘d at length.

best of luck

I tell my wife her pussy time traveled back to being 45 years old , it’s tight , wetter and increased her libido back to pre menopause levels . It took about a month of following the night,y regimen to take full effect.

Just to clarify one point.

The FB group is a thing, but it’s a true support group, as some of these women couldn’t have sex at all, and like most everything, everyone is different and have varying degrees of symptoms.

I’m sure my wife and the others probably would love the “cougar” reference but just wanted to make the point it’s a very serious support group.

 

[Fingerfuxs]

Just to clarify one point.

The FB group is a thing, but it’s a true support group, as some of these women couldn’t have sex at all, and like most everything, everyone is different and have varying degrees of symptoms.

I’m sure my wife and the others probably would love the “cougar” reference but just wanted to make the point it’s a very serious support group.

Cool beans , good call

We aren’t Facebook users so never followed up fact checking that. Good call . Clarifying it. My bad

I meet her on plenty of , she is an insurance executive in Tenn. { I have a type , what can I say }

She is a professional networker type woman that just wanted to fuck a pirate lol , but she was very sincere with her advice to my wife when those two talked. She mentioned that FB reference so I figured if anyone looked it up they could fact check it there. It might not be the same one too. There’s Purple or Red hats too that’s a ladies social group.

insurance executive by day , crazy bitch by night very fun person when she doesn’t have to always be “ On “ because of work and responsibilities to her Social Reputation and community status.

 

[HumpDayHoratio]

I get it, and didn’t mean to finger wag, just wanted to make sure that a bunch of hard-legs didn’t go over and try to score a cougar in a group that is for moral support for a serious issue that not only effects their sex lives but also their mental condition to a certain degree.

It’s early and I didn’t have my coffee yet! That’s my story and I’m sticking to it!. Sounds like you found a “keeper” FingerFuxs?

 

[Fingerfuxs]

I get it, and didn’t mean to finger wag, just wanted to make sure that a bunch of hard-legs didn’t go over and try to score a cougar in a group that is for moral support for a serious issue that not only effects their sex lives but also their mental condition to a certain degree.

It’s early and I didn’t have my coffee yet! That’s my story and I’m sticking to it!. Sounds like you found a “keeper” FingerFuxs?

AYE , MATE it might sound Krass , but in those situations I’m a one a done swinger manwhore. They all know that up front ! Crazy bitches are fun like ! You’d be surprised at how cool they are with it too.

nice use of the word finger wag too. , I’m going to use that in some thirst trap line somewhere , on some beach to some__________ , somewhere lol

 

[Fingerfuxs]

Wait my bad , you meant my wife Mrs. Fingerfuxs lol

u could have wingman potential when in granny porn rich environments !! * like this old timer’s section of the site. lol

 

[bbwgrannylover]

Hello,
My wife has diabetes typ II and therefore she got vaginal dryness. Sorrily this means getting into her got some pain.
Yep, she takes those cremes, but casual sex is not than before. Honestly i am afraid touching here or get my fingers in the clit.
This also means, sex is not the first thing she thinks on now. As i am in the beginning sixties, i often have lust, but will not set her
under pressure, because of that. Perhaps any woman have/ had similiar problems and have advice or what you have done.
Also she is no fan of jerking me and ass fucking is not my priority . So not completely easy with me. Thanks in advance

Im 49 my wife is 66. She has some vaginal dryness. Found out best thing is no fingers but eat her pussy really long it does the trick..

 

[DoctorSmith8]

Hello,
My wife has diabetes typ II and therefore she got vaginal dryness. Sorrily this means getting into her got some pain.
Yep, she takes those cremes, but casual sex is not than before. Honestly i am afraid touching here or get my fingers in the clit.
This also means, sex is not the first thing she thinks on now. As i am in the beginning sixties, i often have lust, but will not set her
under pressure, because of that. Perhaps any woman have/ had similiar problems and have advice or what you have done.
Also she is no fan of jerking me and ass fucking is not my priority . So not completely easy with me. Thanks in advance

Most post menopausal woman undergo changes that make penetration painful. I've just surrendered to this fact of life. The loneliness is the worst part.