Upside Down Blow Job

[BackwoodsMama]

Help me make my husband’s desire a reality.

A couple times he has asked me to lay on my back on the the bed and suck his cock from below. I get the feeling he wants to throat fuck me like that. I’m all for it. I’ve seen videos and it turns me on. That said, I’m not sure of the logistics. Also, my gag reflex is kind of unpredictable. Sometimes I can suck him super deep and feel the velvety head of his dick at the back of my throat and I’m totally fine. Other times I gag pretty easily. He has a nice size cock that isn’t too long or too thick, so I’m not challenged by either of those issues.

So… how do I accomplish this for him? Numbing gel for my throat? What angle/height is best? Head off the end of the bed or supported?

We haven’t talked about this at a neutral time, so I do plan on doing that, but thought I could go into the conversation armed with some info and ideas.

Thanks in advance.

 

[RandallOldman]

First off, it's fantastic you're doing this for him!

It's an interesting position. Feels and looks great for us guys. You'd think it would make things easier, kind of like a sword swallower, but apparently it's not.

My gf can take all of me easily enough if she's kneeling, or if I'm laying on my back. But it is really challenging when she's laying back. She doesn't gag at all in other positions, but we have to be careful in this one.

She did say it helps her to try and swallow as the head of my cock passes the back of her throat. She was trying to just relax, and that wasn't working very well. Once the head is down in her throat, she's okay. It's only when the head passes the back of her throat that she tends to gag.

It's still hard for her, and we don't do it very often, but I am always thankful when she does. Good luck to you and your hubby!

 

[cubbyfire04]

Help me make my husband’s desire a reality.

A couple times he has asked me to lay on my back on the the bed and suck his cock from below. I get the feeling he wants to throat fuck me like that. I’m all for it. I’ve seen videos and it turns me on. That said, I’m not sure of the logistics. Also, my gag reflex is kind of unpredictable. Sometimes I can suck him super deep and feel the velvety head of his dick at the back of my throat and I’m totally fine. Other times I gag pretty easily. He has a nice size cock that isn’t too long or too thick, so I’m not challenged by either of those issues.

So… how do I accomplish this for him? Numbing gel for my throat? What angle/height is best? Head off the end of the bed or supported?

We haven’t talked about this at a neutral time, so I do plan on doing that, but thought I could go into the conversation armed with some info and ideas.

Thanks in advance.

As a man, in general... I can say please don't use numbing gel. It will also numb his cock (although I guess there are times that might be the desired result).

And as a bisexual man, who has trouble deep throating... I actually find this position much easier to prevent my gag reflex. Head off the end of the bed, and him standing over you, lines up your esophagus so his cock won't jam into the back of your throat. Think how you instinctively look up to swallow large pills... They don't have to make the 90⁰ turn to get down into your esophagus. Same with a cock. Head off the bed when lying down aligns things the same way. Not to say you won't gag, but deeper entry is possible. If you produce a lot of saliva, just be mindful you don't waterboard yourself as it can run down and into your nose.

 

[BackwoodsMama]

Thank you. I did wonder about the numbing gel. I wonder if there is a sweet spot where I’m numb but that there isn’t enough residue to affect my partner…

I really think talking about it ahead of time so that instead of being in the moment sorting it out, we can make a plan ahead of time.

We shall see…

 

[cubbyfire04]

If you think you need it... Vick's chloraceptic spray. I numbs but doesn't stick around like gel does.

 

[Lady2020]

Practice

 

[LittleSwitchy]

Thank you. I did wonder about the numbing gel. I wonder if there is a sweet spot where I’m numb but that there isn’t enough residue to affect my partner…

I really think talking about it ahead of time so that instead of being in the moment sorting it out, we can make a plan ahead of time.

We shall see…

I agree. Be open and communicate with your partner. Like after dinner watching a movie. Or wherever just not in the moment.
If this is something you want to try. Take your time and go at your pace. Have fun with it all.

 

[jsmiam]

…Head off the end of the bed or supported?..

Not sure if you meant what I’m about to say, but try your head off the bed tilted back, and him standing behind (above your head.) That lets him be much more accurate and controlled in his movements. From there, expand, practice, learn where the limits are. He sounds like a lucky fella.

 

[KatieDoes]

I actually find that position among the best for not gagging.

This part isn’t sexy, but if you’re at all congested, skip it. Even a mild allergy flare up will become a major obstacle when you’re upside down with a dick down your throat.

Next, the best location depends on his height. For me, lying on the bed with my head off the edge works perfectly. If he were much taller or much shorter, it might not. There’s a magic angle where it works, you just have to find it. Don’t rush it, and get yourself comfortable first. You have to be able to relax your throat muscles and if you’re struggling to hold your head in place, you can’t. Find that sweet spot where your neck is supported by the side of the mattress, and you can breathe easily. It’s less ‘upside down’ than you might think. You just need to have your eyes below your mouth. Not necessarily like standing on your head. Then start slow, and help guide him to the spot where the angle he’s pushing in goes down your throat, and not banging into the top of your throat where your gag reflex will be triggered. Once things are lined up well, I think youll find it mostly effortless and enjoyable. Wear something sexy…. It’s a super flattering angle from his perspective

 

[RipleNStllWtr]

I bet he won't mind you practicing on him as you are perfecting this talent

 

[need_2_cum]

Help me make my husband’s desire a reality.

A couple times he has asked me to lay on my back on the the bed and suck his cock from below. I get the feeling he wants to throat fuck me like that. I’m all for it. I’ve seen videos and it turns me on. That said, I’m not sure of the logistics. Also, my gag reflex is kind of unpredictable. Sometimes I can suck him super deep and feel the velvety head of his dick at the back of my throat and I’m totally fine. Other times I gag pretty easily. He has a nice size cock that isn’t too long or too thick, so I’m not challenged by either of those issues.

So… how do I accomplish this for him? Numbing gel for my throat? What angle/height is best? Head off the end of the bed or supported?

We haven’t talked about this at a neutral time, so I do plan on doing that, but thought I could go into the conversation armed with some info and ideas.

Help me make my husband’s desire a reality.

A couple times he has asked me to lay on my back on the the bed and suck his cock from below. I get the feeling he wants to throat fuck me like that. I’m all for it. I’ve seen videos and it turns me on. That said, I’m not sure of the logistics. Also, my gag reflex is kind of unpredictable. Sometimes I can suck him super deep and feel the velvety head of his dick at the back of my throat and I’m totally fine. Other times I gag pretty easily. He has a nice size cock that isn’t too long or too thick, so I’m not challenged by either of those issues.

So… how do I accomplish this for him? Numbing gel for my throat? What angle/height is best? Head off the end of the bed or supported?

We haven’t talked about this at a neutral time, so I do plan on doing that, but thought I could go into the conversation armed with some info and ideas.

Thanks in advance.

Go to Pornhub in video's and do a search for upside down blowjobs. Great instructional videos ! https://www.pornhub.com

 

[Bigspurt]

Watching her neck bulge with each thrust, priceless!

https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph5fe22d033ba82

 

[need_2_cum]

porn is hardly a good instruction only an idea-giver

Always love good ideas !

 

[tristantrotsky]

Watching her neck bulge with each thrust, priceless!

https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph5fe22d033ba82

I love the way that she's playing with her pussy throughout in order to provide additional stimulation...

 

[Goldenfinger]

I get light headed when I stand on my head for too long.

 

[Goldenfinger]

also when you let your head hang from the edge of the bed?

no light headedness then. This is something i have don’t to my wife and my wife has done to me with her strapon.

 

[the_single_gal_unconfidential]

Help me make my husband’s desire a reality.

A couple times he has asked me to lay on my back on the the bed and suck his cock from below. I get the feeling he wants to throat fuck me like that. I’m all for it. I’ve seen videos and it turns me on. That said, I’m not sure of the logistics. Also, my gag reflex is kind of unpredictable. Sometimes I can suck him super deep and feel the velvety head of his dick at the back of my throat and I’m totally fine. Other times I gag pretty easily. He has a nice size cock that isn’t too long or too thick, so I’m not challenged by either of those issues.

So… how do I accomplish this for him? Numbing gel for my throat? What angle/height is best? Head off the end of the bed or supported?

We haven’t talked about this at a neutral time, so I do plan on doing that, but thought I could go into the conversation armed with some info and ideas.

Thanks in advance.

are you trying to deep throat?
the only way I can do it is w the guy standing in front, and I'm on a bed like on all fours.
I'm able to take it all the way in that way. lube of course.
I like it, they seem to also. they say it feels good on the end of their cock.
to me, it just feels good haha.

 

[the_single_gal_unconfidential]

you might want to think twice about it - once the guys or guy knows of your skill - they'll like it or hope for it all the time haha.

I must say it's not very comfortable for either me or the guy. I've tried it w them on their knees.

I've only had one guy unload in there. swallowed w out swallowing haha.

I don't like it when they grab my head.

 

[petes478]

I don't mind men wanting blow jobs all the time. They're fun to give.

I’ll help you practice Ashley.

https://www.xvideos.com/video684954...side_down_and_her_face_is_covered_with_saliva

 

[lizard_lix]

A little late to this game, but here is my experience. I'm bi, really enjoy sucking cock, and I'm able to deepthroat pretty easily. If I am having any difficulty, the swallowing tick always works. I'm lucky almost no gag reflex and I can suppress it.

As for laying with my head over the end of the bed for an easy throat fuck, the angle seems to be critical. For it to go smoothly, my head has to be at pretty much just the right angle (as others have said, it can be easier in simpler positions like just kneeling in front with him standing). So how far my head hangs over the bed is the trick, not enough, and the angle is wrong, too far and it's the same. It might be easier to lay all the way on the bed, with a pillow of the right thickness under your shoulders to tip your head back, and then for him to kneel over your head/face (been there, loved it).

 

[moonchild06]

My ex boyfriends/ friend w benefits and even begged for me to let him fuck my mouth! I have a slight gag reflex so they enjoyed watching me gag on his dick but the best part of this whole thing would be when he would come all over my face and breast. Lets not forget pulling my hair and moaning my name.