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Nemain23
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I'm seriously interested in going to a swinger party as a single girl. Anyone have advice or personal stories to share, or know what I might expect from the experience?
I was single, young and going in alone when I went to my first one. I contacted the organizer and got contact information of a regular who was willing to meet with me before the party and took me under her wing when I went to the event
I got a lot of attention, but without exception everybody respected my limits there. I was told by the more experienced regular that playing coy and saying "no" when meaning "yes" could potentially land me in trouble in the long run, so she encouraged me to be clear with my limits and restrictions from the beginning. I did that and it was a good experience
My advice is to be prepared to get a lot of attention and make sure you have a clear idea of what your limits are before going in. It can be very easy to get lured into things you might not feel comfortable with afterwards, so proceed with caution. There's always the next time
I got a lot of attention, but without exception everybody respected my limits there. I was told by the more experienced regular that playing coy and saying "no" when meaning "yes" could potentially land me in trouble in the long run, so she encouraged me to be clear with my limits and restrictions from the beginning. I did that and it was a good experience
My advice is to be prepared to get a lot of attention and make sure you have a clear idea of what your limits are before going in. It can be very easy to get lured into things you might not feel comfortable with afterwards, so proceed with caution. There's always the next time
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Nemain23
Guest
I was single, young and going in alone when I went to my first one. I contacted the organizer and got contact information of a regular who was willing to meet with me before the party and took me under her wing when I went to the event
I got a lot of attention, but without exception everybody respected my limits there. I was told by the more experienced regular that playing coy and saying "no" when meaning "yes" could potentially land me in trouble in the long run, so she encouraged me to be clear with my limits and restrictions from the beginning. I did that and it was a good experience
My advice is to be prepared to get a lot of attention and make sure you have a clear idea of what your limits are before going in. It can be very easy to get lured into things you might not feel comfortable with afterwards, so proceed with caution. There's always the next time
Thank you so much for your advice
