Unfair comparisons.

[Freya]

Have you ever felt as though, no matter what you do, you'll be compared to another person by someone in your life? a parent forever comparing you to your sibling, or your S/O comparing you to a previous relationship? It's as if it just doesn't fucking matter how you act, or what you do in life, you'll always be judged by anothers actions.

I am so completely and utterly tired of this crap.

 

[Lancecastor]

Oh stop it. You sound just like your mother when you do that.

 

[*bratcat*]

 

[Freya]

Oh stop it. You sound just like your mother when you do that.

Ugh! I officially hate you for saying that.











Of course, I still want to fuck you senseless, just so I can continue my shallow bimbo trend of the week.

 

[Freya]

Hell, Freya...in 18 years...not once have I ever cooked or cleaned like my mother-in-law. Hmmm...makes me wonder what her blowjobs are like?

Oh god - if I ever get married, his mother better be dead. I don't cook or clean well - I'll be living in comparison hell forever.

 

[hogjack]

Freya

That is a bunch of crap. Inevitable, but generally frustrating.

Each unto thine ownself, uh, yadda, yadda, yadda.



My mother compared me to the great poet Emily Dickinson one time and I just burst into tears. Not fair, just not fair!

 

[Freya]

My mother was famous for this when I was growing up. "Why can't you be more like what's her face? She doesn't get in trouble/skip school/sleep with all the boys/get pregnant/whatever my crime of the week was."

 

[The Tin Drum]

Hell, Freya...in 18 years...not once have I ever cooked or cleaned like my mother-in-law. Hmmm...makes me wonder what her blowjobs are like?

She's a little toothy, but not bad.

 

[Lancecastor]

Ugh! I officially hate you for saying that.
Of course, I still want to fuck you senseless, just so I can continue my shallow bimbo trend of the week.

Yeah, yeah, that's what all the LitGrrls say...they hate me, they wanna fuck me senseless; they hate me, they wanna fuck me senseless....

 

[freakygirl]

Yeah, yeah, that's what all the LitGrrls say...they hate me, they wanna fuck me senseless; they hate me, they wanna fuck me senseless....

Thats not what I said. It was "I like you. I couldn't possibly fuck you senseless, you are already senseless."

Jeez.. get it right. Would ya?

 

[Freya]

Thats not what I said. It was "I like you. I couldn't possibly fuck you senseless, you are already senseless."

Jeez.. get it right. Would ya?

Would you fuck me senseless instead Freaky- I need it tonight.

 

[freakygirl]

Would you fuck me senseless instead Frekay- I need it tonight.

If I ever get rid of this headache.. I promise to fuck you senseless.

 

[nike]

Have you ever felt as though, no matter what you do, you'll be compared to another person by someone in your life? a parent forever comparing you to your sibling, or your S/O comparing you to a previous relationship? It's as if it just doesn't fucking matter how you act, or what you do in life, you'll always be judged by anothers actions.

I am so completely and utterly tired of this crap.

yep, i always assume that my boyfriend is comparing me to his highschool girlfriend. He swears he's not.

they dated for 2 years. we've dated for 5. I might be paranoid, but i know how you feel.

 

[Freya]

If I ever get rid of this headache.. I promise to fuck you senseless.

Well, you know....the best cure for a headache is sex.

 

[A Desert Rose]

Well, you know....the best cure for a headache is sex.

Absofuckinglutely Freya. Just got rid of one myself. ~smile~

 

[Artemesia]

Have you ever felt as though, no matter what you do, you'll be compared to another person by someone in your life? a parent forever comparing you to your sibling, or your S/O comparing you to a previous relationship?

The one that haunts me the most is... "You're spouse material for me, but I'm still in love with what K. was." in reference to the ex-wife that left him.

Oh, you mean you're in love with manipulation, lies, and infidelity?

No wonder I'm warped.

 

[Freya]

Absofuckinglutely Freya. Just got rid of one myself. ~smile~

I need to get me some of that.


Hiya Arte!

 

[Freya]

Re: Re: Unfair comparisons.

yep, i always assume that my boyfriend is comparing me to his highschool girlfriend. He swears he's not.

they dated for 2 years. we've dated for 5. I might be paranoid, but i know how you feel.

Mine is more my parents. They constantly do it - even now.

 

[freakygirl]

I don't think sex will help this headache.

This is the kind of headache were every move hurts. My skin hurts because of this headache.

This is one of those "Don't-fucking-look-at-me-let-alone-touch-me-headaches"

But Freya might be the one that is able to change that.

 

[Artemesia]

Heya Freya

oops, an inadvertant rhyme!

Keep your chin up, you are a grown up. Don't let your parents destroy your self-confidence.

 

[Freya]

Heya Freya

oops, an inadvertant rhyme!

Keep your chin up, you are a grown up. Don't let your parents destroy your self-confidence.

Not a chance - it's just irritating.


Freaky - anytime you're ready, you just whistle.

 

[bknight2602]

Have you ever felt as though, no matter what you do, you'll be compared to another person by someone in your life? a parent forever comparing you to your sibling, or your S/O comparing you to a previous relationship? It's as if it just doesn't fucking matter how you act, or what you do in life, you'll always be judged by anothers actions.

I am so completely and utterly tired of this crap.

Happens all the time to me, I get tired of it and go down the road without arguing about it. Life is to short to fight this windmill, even if you being judged unfairly.

 

[A Desert Rose]

Re: Re: Re: Unfair comparisons.

Mine is more my parents. They constantly do it - even now.

Are you being compared to a sister, I assume?

Do both of your parents do this to you, or is it just one of them?

 

[Freya]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Unfair comparisons.

Are you being compared to a sister, I assume?

Do both of your parents do this to you, or is it just one of them?

Stupidly enough, it's my brother. He's 2 years older than me, has never held a job, grows pot in his basement, and has been arrested with over 1000 pot plants. I asked for access to my inheritance from my grandma so that I can use it to go back to school in Febraury - but they said no, because my brother has asked for his and they said no to him. It's like apples and friggin oranges - one asks for money to buy a new hydroponics system, or whatever - and one for education. Drives me buggy. My father wants me to use it to buy a house, I don't want to buy a house. Besides it's only about $6000 - which isn't anywhere near what I'd need for a house, yet would give me the chance to do something I've always wanted to do.

ugh now I'm ranting.

 

[A Desert Rose]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Unfair comparisons.

Stupidly enough, it's my brother. He's 2 years older than me, has never held a job, grows pot in his basement, and has been arrested with over 1000 pot plants. I asked for access to my inheritance from my grandma so that I can use it to go back to school in Febraury - but they said no, because my brother has asked for his and they said no to him. It's like apples and friggin oranges - one asks for money to buy a new hydroponics system, or whatever - and one for education. Drives me buggy. My father wants me to use it to buy a house, I don't want to buy a house. Besides it's only about $6000 - which isn't anywhere near what I'd need for a house, yet would give me the chance to do something I've always wanted to do.

ugh now I'm ranting.

God, I know this rant..... ~smiling~ I can understand completely what you are feeling. You are in a no win situation, doll.

My advice for what it's worth: Do what you want, on your own and without "help" (whether financial or verbal) from family members.