I've searched though topics on this site and all and learned some useful stuff through other's questions. So, hopefully I can find some good information from you guys through this question...Anyways, My girlfriend and I were talking the other night on the phone and she told me there was something she has been wanting to try on me for a while...I was all like "okay, cool!" Then, she told me something that made me sit there in shock. She wanted to try "fisting" me. I am always up to trying new things with her, so I need to know if anyone has any tips on anal stretching. I'm not really sure where to start.....and yes, I'm a male.
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SweetErika
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A lot of the same rules for anal sex apply to fisting, like: go really slow, work up to it, use tons of a good quality sexual lubricant, make sure nothing's sharp, pain is your body's way of telling you something's wrong...
Believe it or not, there's already some great advice on anal fisting/handballing in other threads here.
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Believe it or not, there's already some great advice on anal fisting/handballing in other threads here.
Google of site:forum.literotica.com anal fisting
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chaosgirl42
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Oh jeez! I'm commenting mostly to make sure this stays near the top, but there are three things you need to keep in mind: lube, take it slow, and lube. Maybe even a little liquid courage if you're as new to anal play as you sound. Good luck, and props for being open minded to her requests.
(oh, and if this is fake, well...it still might make for an interesting thread)
(oh, and if this is fake, well...it still might make for an interesting thread)
SweetErika
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Absolutely, you could do that. It certainly helps to be comfortable with yourself and find what works for your body.
I'd suggest getting a set of butt plugs to practice with. Start with the smallest, and work your way up to the largest. Sets of 3 vinyl plugs are relatively inexpensive, and they come in a variety of sizes (but if you're working toward fisting, you might want to get somewhat larger plugs).
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Ha ha- someone whose situation is reversed. I would like ( I think ) my wife to fist me, but it is not really within HER comfort zone. Yes, sometimes we do head down the path of anal play, and she has at least once made an attempt ( at my request) to see how much she could fit in- but it's not something she wants to do regularly. Shame, too- I think I would get there with more regular practice and I can only imagine the feeling of her being able tomassage me from the inside that way. I do plenty of solo anal play, and am very comfortable with being penetrated there, but when she's apprehensive it rubs off on me as well- not a good thing. Apprehension and anal DO NOT work. The most important things to remeber: the aforementioned lube ( no numbing lube!) total relaxation, go slow, and you MUST be comfortable with the notion first! Your ass will not let you lie about your desires. Best of luck!
Yes, I do...but I have become pretty curious about it over time and decided this is what I wanted to do.
I didn't even know they made numbing lube! lol. Yea, I do a lot of anal masturbation, especially now as of late and thanks.
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This...
Your ass will not let you lie about your desires.
is brilliant! May I use it?
Your ass will not let you lie about your desires.
is brilliant! May I use it?
