Umm...questions.
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curiouslez84
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Er...hm? Watchoo talkin' 'bout? 0_0
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Well, I didn't think this was important enough to start a whole new topic for it - so I'm just responding here. Last night, Brianna and I tried something new.
How many of you out there put your hand on your lover's throat when you have sex?
My g/f fingered me in both holes last night from behind while she held my throat with her other hand. She didn't do it tight, but rather like she was just holding it there. It did press in a little at times...
But the whole thing was kinda hot. I didn't really like the feel of the collar we bought (I think I mentioned that earlier), but hand and fingers on my throat while she fucked me...wow, that still makes me hot.
How many of you out there put your hand on your lover's throat when you have sex?
My g/f fingered me in both holes last night from behind while she held my throat with her other hand. She didn't do it tight, but rather like she was just holding it there. It did press in a little at times...
But the whole thing was kinda hot. I didn't really like the feel of the collar we bought (I think I mentioned that earlier), but hand and fingers on my throat while she fucked me...wow, that still makes me hot.
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curiouslez84 said:Well, I didn't think this was important enough to start a whole new topic for it - so I'm just responding here. Last night, Brianna and I tried something new.
How many of you out there put your hand on your lover's throat when you have sex?
My g/f fingered me in both holes last night from behind while she held my throat with her other hand. She didn't do it tight, but rather like she was just holding it there. It did press in a little at times...
But the whole thing was kinda hot. I didn't really like the feel of the collar we bought (I think I mentioned that earlier), but hand and fingers on my throat while she fucked me...wow, that still makes me hot.
The fake picture thread claiming you were porn star Gina Ryder wasn't enough?
Move on, unless you want to start being honest with people.
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LadyAria...i agree with you on this one.
That said, at this point, any type of choking is a limit for me. Perhaps i will explore it on the future, but not right now.
That said, at this point, any type of choking is a limit for me. Perhaps i will explore it on the future, but not right now.
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You said you enjoy being tied to the bed...so it sounds like you might be submissive. If your girlfriend is into being a little bit Domly, give it a try. See what you enjoy and what you don't.
It's all different for everybody, so it's difficult for someone to explain to you what it's like. Even if they do explain it to you, it might not make sense to you. It's a very personal thing. Experiencing it is the best way to understand it.
Now, don't give it a half hearted test and decide it's not for you. Read up on a few things, and then if anything strikes your fancy, give it a try. You have to try different things to find what interests you.
Then, when you find something that interests you, go from there. Expand on that a little at a time, involving other things that you might enjoy. Bondage takes away your control, so if your girlfriend likes taking control, have her use you to do her bidding. Whatever she wants done, you must do, within reason, of course. And, if you don't satisfy her, she can think of a way to punish you.
If you want to be in charge sometime, tie her up instead. Just because you like her to tie you up, doesn't mean you don't have some Dom in you, too. But, whatever you do, it must be something you both want to happen. And, look up SS&C to find out what that means. SS&C and trust...live by these and you can't go wrong. Explore what's in your mind.
It's all different for everybody, so it's difficult for someone to explain to you what it's like. Even if they do explain it to you, it might not make sense to you. It's a very personal thing. Experiencing it is the best way to understand it.
Now, don't give it a half hearted test and decide it's not for you. Read up on a few things, and then if anything strikes your fancy, give it a try. You have to try different things to find what interests you.
Then, when you find something that interests you, go from there. Expand on that a little at a time, involving other things that you might enjoy. Bondage takes away your control, so if your girlfriend likes taking control, have her use you to do her bidding. Whatever she wants done, you must do, within reason, of course. And, if you don't satisfy her, she can think of a way to punish you.
If you want to be in charge sometime, tie her up instead. Just because you like her to tie you up, doesn't mean you don't have some Dom in you, too. But, whatever you do, it must be something you both want to happen. And, look up SS&C to find out what that means. SS&C and trust...live by these and you can't go wrong. Explore what's in your mind.
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I will, thanks. And yeah, I know. That's what we're doing - experimenting with different things. 
