Turning one’s significant other into a personal slut!

[RuReal]

Well all I am starting this thread for a few reasons. One is to get some input and suggestions from others on helping to turn ones mate into a sexual play thing. This is not a game of force or manipulation, this is more of a game of evolution and development.

I am also posting this to catalogue and chart the process I am making with my wife on this metamorphosis as she learns things about herself and I learn more about her. Portions of this will be helped along with links to pictures, and web sites with suggestions toys!

I am hoping this both helps other couples as well as myself in the development process as I am sure there are many people out there who wish to totally unleash their sexual side and the sexual side of their partners.

Here is a link to one of my fav pictures of her.

https://forum.literotica.com/attachment.php?attachmentid=619458

 

[RuReal]

A little bit about her

Well I have been her first and only so far. We met online someplace other than lit though she was the one to introduce me to the whole site. Here is a link to some of her stories. She wrote all of these before we met.

http://english.literotica.com/stories/memberpage.php?uid=51726&page=submissions

If someone takes the time to read some of the stories you can probably all see a nice common theme, and interest in BDSM. Both of us figured she was a sub she currently no longer thinks so, but I am of a different point of view from certain things I have observed.

So we met and both of us changed more than a little bit. We both put a lot of work and effort in breaking her out of some of her shell and making her confident and strong.

 

[RuReal]

Sex yes please

Ok now for the interesting bits, that I am sure people are waiting on. When we started she was a virgin as a result things had to go slow and easy. Even with the imagination and ideas she had things did not work the way she imagined as is often the case with fantasy. I will leap frog over normal intercourse, but we do have that worked out finally even though it felt like forever at the time.

Our first time together was interesting I did not manage to get off, but she did in a very large way. I have always been the found believer that every woman should have a vibrator. One never knows when one might need a special friend so I took it upon myself to by my wife one. It was nothing to intimidating it was small and blue, hell here is a pic of it.

http://www.arentwenaughty.com/images/products/tn/253.jpg

Me and my brand spanking new blue friend managed to make my wife… well girlfriend of the time have her very first orgasim and what an orgasim it was. I was running two fingers in and out of her very moist pussy and I had the vibrator working on her clit. Her hips where elevated on a pillow and we where in a downtown hotel. Her whole body flushed and jerked then the dams blew and she unleashed a flood of cum that I have never seen in person before. Yes my lovely girlfriend was a squirter and never knew it. She unleashed enough ejaculate to soak the pillow to the point that it weighed a ton when I threw it off the bed. She left a wet spot under it. Without her noticing I did check for odour just to be sure, then went into overtime trying to calm her down and keep her from freaking out.

For a first orgasim I did not want her worried about the stigma of making a mess I have heard of that happening to some women and it just would not do for such a wonderful ability. For me it was like a fantasy come true, for her I think it was a worry. Just goes to show the differenced between men and women, and that is where it all starts.

Attached you will find a picture from that very night that includes her our blue friend and the pillow she soaked through!

 

[witch_fire]

I think you should move this thread to BDSM Cafe. You might get a better result there than in here.

 

[Kylan]

I personally think it’s very sexually and mentally satisfying to be in a relationship with someone who views the relationship as a kind of ritualistic battle in which the winner and loser is not predetermined

My S.O. is a bit of a feisty creature. I know she loves me and wants to please me but she has a need to be able to just run free sometimes and I understand that, but there are times when she also needs tying and the occasional caning .

To some people, she is unmistakably submissive. To others, her submission would have to be more than that – perhaps servility all the time – but that idea holds very little appeal to me personally.

I am comfortable knowing that whatever happens, I prevail: either she obeys and I take satisfaction from her submission, or I get my cane, compel her to obey, and I enjoy my control and breaking her defiance.

In fact, being just as delighted by the whole thing as I am she also wins…but I’m not supposed to know that so don’t tell her I do.

I find myself curious as if you have experimented with conditioning training in your efforts to unchain her sexuality absolutely, RuReal?

 

[dave265rd]

Well all I am starting this thread for a few reasons. One is to get some input and suggestions from others on helping to turn ones mate into a sexual play thing. This is not a game of force or manipulation, this is more of a game of evolution and development.

I am also posting this to catalogue and chart the process I am making with my wife on this metamorphosis as she learns things about herself and I learn more about her. Portions of this will be helped along with links to pictures, and web sites with suggestions toys!

I am hoping this both helps other couples as well as myself in the development process as I am sure there are many people out there who wish to totally unleash their sexual side and the sexual side of their partners.

Here is a link to one of my fav pictures of her.

https://forum.literotica.com/attachment.php?attachmentid=619458

Hey just saw your thread.
Well, you know my story.
And BTW your wife is hot.

 

[RuReal]

This could work in BDSM, but I think this is not only part of that. You can have a sensual and charged relationship without most of the hard BDSM play. Don't get me wrong there can be some of that as well, but there can be more than that.

 

[RuReal]

Ohh so true it is all so complex and yet fun. I think I am going to have to do a little add on to this soon.

I personally think it’s very sexually and mentally satisfying to be in a relationship with someone who views the relationship as a kind of ritualistic battle in which the winner and loser is not predetermined

My S.O. is a bit of a feisty creature. I know she loves me and wants to please me but she has a need to be able to just run free sometimes and I understand that, but there are times when she also needs tying and the occasional caning .

To some people, she is unmistakably submissive. To others, her submission would have to be more than that – perhaps servility all the time – but that idea holds very little appeal to me personally.

I am comfortable knowing that whatever happens, I prevail: either she obeys and I take satisfaction from her submission, or I get my cane, compel her to obey, and I enjoy my control and breaking her defiance.

In fact, being just as delighted by the whole thing as I am she also wins…but I’m not supposed to know that so don’t tell her I do.

I find myself curious as if you have experimented with conditioning training in your efforts to unchain her sexuality absolutely, RuReal?

 

[the captians wench]

This could work in BDSM, but I think this is not only part of that. You can have a sensual and charged relationship without most of the hard BDSM play. Don't get me wrong there can be some of that as well, but there can be more than that.

There's more than BDSM? say it ain't so!