Turning 30

[Guest]

Hi everyone, I'm turning 30 in a couple of weeks and something strange has been happening to me lately....I'm incredebly horny. I'm not seeing anyone right now, so I have been picking up guys in bars and screwing them all night. When I'm not with someone, all I want to do is go to chat rooms or masturbate. When I masturbate I use anything around me to get me off...last night I used a candle! I think I must be like this because I don't want to be 30 and I'm trying to feel young?


Ladies are any of you going through what I am? Any suggestions on different things you are doing to get you off would be appreciated.

Men, does this happen to you?

 

[Flagg]

Just for research value - which bars are you going to at the moment?

 

[Katerina Val-Kyrie]

*LMAO* AT Flagg....what a guy!...Right to the point!

Hi Almost 30...interesting you should bring this up,it's a great topic. They do say, women reach their peak much later then men. I do believe I have met mine, but it did not happen for me until I hit 40. I am now 41 and I think about sex alot, I think that is partly why I write erotica. I can't say my hubbie complains either, hehe...

Sounds like you are doing quite well in finding sexual fulfillment. If you intend to enjoy cyber play on the net...you might want to invest in merelan's quicker picker uppers... *LOL* If you are baffled check out the post in Authors Hangout, called Is It Me Or....

Hope you enjoy your new found lust... Hugs Kat

 

[Endlessly]

*nodding* I've heard the age when women reach their sexual prime is thirty, so that probably explains it for you.

Personally, I'm scared as HELL to turn thirty, considering the role sex plays in my mind and my life (alas, more in my mind than in my life) now at the tender age of 18. By thirty I'm going to need medication, a husband with flexible hours at his job, or a WHOLE bunch of rechargable batteries.

*cough*

Ummm.. Anyway.. HEY LOOK! This is my 600th post! *does the 600-post dance*

Go me..

*solo raves*

 

[CreamyLady]

I'm 47. I had shut down sexually after my divorce, and came back to sexual life at about 37. I didn't mind turning 30, and I liked turning 40. I'm pretty sure 50 is going to be great.

I can tell you, the lovemaking has just been getting better and better, possibly because I don't have all the expectations and baggage I did when I was younger.

 

[Guest]

I recently turned 30. My husband has been very happy. All I want to do is have sex. I even told him that I would be willing to try a threesome. But I want a man....if he finds me another man, I will make his day and try it with a woman too.

 

[Hardwood]

My wife shut me down when I was 33, 10 years ago!!!!!!? Anyway was getting along ...alright. and then I hit 43 and suddenly I have the drive I had when I was 17. Sex is all I think about.. If it was'nt for Literotica I'd probably be in jail, lol.

 

[Ted]

I wished that bug had hit my girl.....Im getting even less now than I ever had. I think Im growing my cherry back! Now I have to cum here to get my jollies. Pretty sad, huh?

 

[CreamyLady]

I don't think it's wanting to be young and being afraid to hit 30. I think it's just beginning to relax and enjoy sex a lot.

I'm 47, and it just keeps getting better and better. I'm really looking forward to 50.

 

[stargazer2]

Well, thirty is young. I'm 38 and hornier than ever. Not
to worry love, it just gets better and better.

 

[Skitten]

I agree with the majority here you are probally going through your sexual peak which is totally awesome that means you could be horny as hell for a while I know that me and the hubby have more sex since I turned 30 it and it is nothing to complain about and you are probally more in tune with your body than you were when you were younger. I wouldn't complain just go with it.

 

[Beebeeblue]

http://smilecwm.tripod.com/net4/summer.gif

http://smilecwm.tripod.com/cwm/eek2.gif I turn 30 in 2 years...is this what I have to look foward too???

 

[Bob Waters]

Dirty 30

I had ball on my 30th, now 35 - that was the tough one for me. Sounds like your self diagnosis is on the mark.

So, do you need someone to give you a birthday spanking?????

 

[Guest]

I am/went through the exact same thing. I went through a mid-life crisis....I kicked my husband out (my biggest mistake)and started hanging out on the computer all the time...I couldn't get enough of porn sies....even went out and bought myself a dildo for the first time in my life....eveynight I fuck myself with that dildo....my advice enjoy it and don't make the same mistake I did...if your married or have a boyfriend....enjoy this time with him.

 

[Savage Kitten]

30 today! yeah yeah oh yeah!!

man let me tell you! these last 2 years have been like a sexual awakening to me.. so much to learn and so much to explore... I am finally slowing down on the xxploration bit but only because I have a very good ideal of what i like now .. so now its time to indulge..

the # thing doesn't really bother me. its the thought of starting a whole new decade.. only the 3rd one of my lifetime... so many questions.. so many possibilities.. and you know.. the whole biological clock thing.. which is ok.. cause i don't really think i want any more children I'm not worried about getting old because I think thats a frame of mind.. and my mind feels so young.. refuses to slow down refuses to get caught in times grasp

so have fun 'Almost 30'.. its just the beginning of a whole new frontier!

 

[Bonnie Wee Lassie]

hmmmm I was dreading turning 30 but now I have something to look forward too. LOL

 

[Hecate]

From another Lady in her early thirties....

I can't say I had a peak with 30 *weg* - I am still climbing *chuckles*

I think it is maybe the hormones that set our female "fertile" bodies on "high" for sex - you know, aeons of genetic codes set to reproduction and all that .... but...

I think it is just as much a set of your frame of mind - in your thirties you know how to enjoy yourself to the fullest, you know what you want - and you are ready to say so! I can only speak for myself and hey - I have never felt so much in tune with me or my sexuality .. and therefore I think it is not me wanting more but me realizing I do and me giving in to my desires.

So all I can say - getting 30? GREAT! .. and hey - after that it is yet getting better *winks*

 

[Silverlily]

Turning 30 was fantabulous! I hated my twenties.

Now, I know what I want and know how to get it and I get it whenever I want it. (Oh dear, hip-deep in it!)

Yep, 30 was like waking up to a perfect morning and realising you don't have to go to work. I suspect 40 will be even better.

 

[Mensa]

just a thought

If your really looking for hot sex....light the candle!!

 

[Thor's Hammer]

Since everyone has been so open, here I go. I'm three score and four. It is a myth that men peak in their 20's. In fact, sex has never been better. (Perhaps because "mature" males last longer?..lol). Anyhow, enjoy and explore (safe sex always, of course). Most people have different levels of sexuality. There is no right or wrong....if consenting adults are involved.

There is a pretty good book - "Passages" by Gail Sheehey (spelling?). It gives you a perspective. Life is a series of experiences. I would not want to go back to being 20 or 30 or 40 or even 50. Life is too good now for that, even though, realistically, there are fewer pages to turn.

 

[Guest]

Justturned30, instead of using that dildo of yours why don't u drop me a note...I can definately help you.

hornyhubby@literotica.org

 

[Guest]

Men, did you feel a change at 30?

 

[RonG]

Ol' Kentucky joke

Why do Kentucky women hit their sexual peak at 30?

That's when their sons turn 15.

Truthfully, I am approaching 40 and I would like to think I am better than ever. Replacing that digital clock with an analog clock was the best decision I ever made!

 

[Rosebud]

I never felt any difference between 18 to 30 really, you are only as old as you feel...sometimes i am 70 other times i feel 25 again

and RonG how do you know that a kentucky girl is a virgin? she can still outrun her brothers

 

[Guest]

Willing to help

Almost 30, if you need some help with your sexual tensions, I am willing to help....I helped my wife through the same problems you're having...lol. If you need some help e-mail me at hornyhubby@literotica.org, I'm sure I can satisfy you.