Try This & Report Back

[latebloomer124]

Well, you said in another thread that you are 18, and are still learning to have 'gasms from direct clitorial stimulation? Sounds like you're still exploring all the myriad of ways of cumming.

I think you have me confused with another poster. I am considerably older than 18...about 30 years older, to be exact. But thanks for the words of encouragement. Like the name says, I'm a latebloomer!!

 

[smilinjenn]

LOVE this thread!!! Hubby and I have playmates and about 2 weeks ago, one of my playmates made me squirt for the first time. Hubby and I had tried to 'find the spot' a few times to no avail, so I was beginning to think I could not squirt. Imagine my suprise when I finally did!!!! I looked up at my friend and said, "ummm, did I just squirt??" he said, "hunny, you just soaked the bed." hehehe He made me squirt 4 times that night. Gotta tell you though, I was SO dehydrated the next day. LOL Needless to say, my water intake has gone WAY up.....I'm in training, for the next time.

So, since then hubby and I have tried to make it happen but haven't quite gotten it right. Thanks for the tips!!! Hopefully we can take these tips and make it happen soon!

 

[eudaemonia]

I think you have me confused with another poster. I am considerably older than 18...about 30 years older, to be exact. But thanks for the words of encouragement. Like the name says, I'm a latebloomer!!

OMG! I am so sorry. Mea culpa.

 

[latebloomer124]

OMG! I am so sorry. Mea culpa.

No apology necessary.

 

[Geosynchronous]

So THAT'S what it was!

I used to watch a lot of porn when I was younger and read up about stuff, and got the idea about where the GSpot would be located. When I finally got my first girlfriend (I was shy as hell), the very first time I fingered her I used the "come here" motion where I thought her GSpot would be and she was cumming and cumming like I never could have imagined! I had her at like 7 or so in about 10 minutes! I had no idea that that's what I was doing at the time! Her and I broke up pretty fast though, and my girl now doesnt seem to respond very well to the same technique I used, but then again I haven't tried this exact method. If her and I have alone time tonight (meaning if her roommate doesnt come back), I think I'm going to try it out. But I know for sure it worked on someone! And I'm just hoping now that my girl doesnt NEED clit stimulation to get off, because what a fun night it would be

 

[TBKahuna123]

And I'm just hoping now that my girl doesnt NEED clit stimulation to get off, because what a fun night it would be

What, you mean it wouldn't be fun if she did need clitoral stimulation? Come on, let's face it, not all women respond to this the same way, but that doens't make them inferior to women who do. Your post seems to make it sound like this new girl will be somehow inferior to your old girl if she can't have a ggasm. that's dumb, and I hope I'm just misunderstanding your post.

Latebloomer, you don't need to resign yourself, jsut keep trying. For one thing all women respond differently. Some need more pressure, some a lighter touch, some need to have a few orgasms through oral sex before they can let go from g-spot stimulation. My wife for example can have a g-gasm, but doesn't squirt. The point is just keep working at it and enjoy the rush.

 

[ickle_stace]

What, you mean it wouldn't be fun if she did need clitoral stimulation? Come on, let's face it, not all women respond to this the same way, but that doens't make them inferior to women who do. Your post seems to make it sound like this new girl will be somehow inferior to your old girl if she can't have a ggasm. that's dumb, and I hope I'm just misunderstanding your post.

Latebloomer, you don't need to resign yourself, jsut keep trying. For one thing all women respond differently. Some need more pressure, some a lighter touch, some need to have a few orgasms through oral sex before they can let go from g-spot stimulation. My wife for example can have a g-gasm, but doesn't squirt. The point is just keep working at it and enjoy the rush.

i haven't ever cum just from g-spot stimulation, but i think i've cum from g-spot and clit at the same time, i get that "need to pee" feeling when my guy rubs against it, but he normally has to rub or lick my clit at the same time to make me cum from it being touched, I wanna cum just from my g-spot, but im not very sexually experienced yet, and if it takes practice, then i think my guy and i can have some fun trying hehe

 

[nainaiphreak]

Hey,

I was recommended to read this post from a friend. I tried it out with my boyfriend, with me over a pillow and him trying to find my G-spot from behind with his fingers. I could feel him, it just didn't make me want to cum at all. Infact, it actually made me bleed.

Help!

 

[smilinjenn]

Hmm, sounds like he might have been a little too deep....maybe bumping or manipulating the cervix instead????? Also, make sure his nails are short. When I say short, I mean VERY short. If bleeding occurs again, maybe try you on your back, so penetration won't be as deep. Good luck!

Hey,

I was recommended to read this post from a friend. I tried it out with my boyfriend, with me over a pillow and him trying to find my G-spot from behind with his fingers. I could feel him, it just didn't make me want to cum at all. Infact, it actually made me bleed.

Help!

 

[amiss]

Water falls

Ladies you aren't going to pee. It just comes from some kind of build-up and "about to release" feeling.

The sensation that a woman needs to urinate has to do with the positioning of the Gspot itself. As you can see here: http://www.libchrist.com/graphics/G-Spot.JPG the G-spot is located between the vaginal canal and the bladder. It's a sort of spongy tissue that engorges with fluid (lubricant, not urine!) when a woman is aroused. (i.e. when the G-spot gets hard)

It is not uncommon for this fluid to be released into the bladder upon orgasm, rather than the vagina. Ladies, that is why you feel the need to pee after good sex. If you've ever looked, you may have noticed that what comes out of your bladder is actually quite pale compared to urine and spells very different. Studies have shown that the fluid women often expel after sex is chemically more similar to natural librant than it is to urine. If a woman manages to relax enough, she may be able to release the fluid built up in the G-spot vaginally, and thus the "fabled" female ejaculate! Just be prepared for a huge mess!

Happy exploring! *S

 

[eudaemonia]

and thus the "fabled" female ejaculate! Just be prepared for a huge mess!

Funny. I've never thought of ejaculate, male or female, as a mess. I revel in all the wetness.

 

[smilinjenn]

Any other's that have tried to squirt lately? I alway's enjoy hearing people's stories.

 

[cock whore]

squirt often and lots

been doing this for years w/my husband and others... however my only complaint is that i am now so "programed" for this response that for one it takes very little stim. to make me squirt and have a g-spot O - but there are times when i'd like to go for that "ride" on top w/out cumming every few strokes - so that i can not break stride and "his" momentum that is building - so that i can make him cum inside of me... so in some ways it has kinds "ruined" me when on top... anyone else have similar experience or tips for re-programming???

tried thinking about baseball... lol

and even shouting out "NO" as he laughs at me knowing hes about to get soaked again

 

[smilinjenn]

I have a g/f that has a similar problem. She is extremely sensitive as well. I don't know of any tips to help you 're-program' yourself, unfortunately. Does this happen, regardless of the position, riding him? I was just wondering if you leaned forward more, maybe it wouldn't hit your Gspot as easily???? I'm hoping my response becomes a little more sensitive, so I don't have to work so hard to squirt. We alway's want what we don't have.... LOL.

been doing this for years w/my husband and others... however my only complaint is that i am now so "programed" for this response that for one it takes very little stim. to make me squirt and have a g-spot O - but there are times when i'd like to go for that "ride" on top w/out cumming every few strokes - so that i can not break stride and "his" momentum that is building - so that i can make him cum inside of me... so in some ways it has kinds "ruined" me when on top... anyone else have similar experience or tips for re-programming???

tried thinking about baseball... lol

and even shouting out "NO" as he laughs at me knowing hes about to get soaked again

 

[cock whore]

I have a g/f that has a similar problem. She is extremely sensitive as well. I don't know of any tips to help you 're-program' yourself, unfortunately. Does this happen, regardless of the position, riding him? I was just wondering if you leaned forward more, maybe it wouldn't hit your Gspot as easily???? I'm hoping my response becomes a little more sensitive, so I don't have to work so hard to squirt. We alway's want what we don't have.... LOL.

pretty much yes - in any position... me on top is the worst, me in doggie i'm pretty good and me on bottom is safer yet.

but he really wants me to be able to ride him on top to orgasm and we just can't accomplish that - yet. i break mine/his stride every few seconds while i have an O, squirt, stop and collapse - then get back up and go again... good thing the practicing is still lots of fun for us both wish i had tips to help you be more responsive and achieve your goal easier... wanna borrow my man? lol

 

[smilinjenn]

Woohooooooooo, sure do want to borrow him!!! Do you come w/him...package deal?? hehe

pretty much yes - in any position... me on top is the worst, me in doggie i'm pretty good and me on bottom is safer yet.

but he really wants me to be able to ride him on top to orgasm and we just can't accomplish that - yet. i break mine/his stride every few seconds while i have an O, squirt, stop and collapse - then get back up and go again... good thing the practicing is still lots of fun for us both wish i had tips to help you be more responsive and achieve your goal easier... wanna borrow my man? lol

 

[josephanthony69]

Ok, now you've gone and done it - the sharing thing to keep his mind off her cumming, let's see..save a horse ride a cowboy?

Woohooooooooo, sure do want to borrow him!!! Do you come w/him...package deal?? hehe

 

[smilinjenn]

Sounds like a plan to me!

Ok, now you've gone and done it - the sharing thing to keep his mind off her cumming, let's see..save a horse ride a cowboy?

 

[josephanthony69]

Ok - did u want the tongue side first? lol

Sounds like a plan to me!

 

[smilinjenn]

You know it!!!!!

Ok - did u want the tongue side first? lol

 

[psyche]

Funny. I've never thought of ejaculate, male or female, as a mess. I revel in all the wetness.

I agree, what a fucking lovely 'mess' it is..............

 

[psyche]

i haven't ever cum just from g-spot stimulation, but i think i've cum from g-spot and clit at the same time, i get that "need to pee" feeling when my guy rubs against it, but he normally has to rub or lick my clit at the same time to make me cum from it being touched, I wanna cum just from my g-spot, but im not very sexually experienced yet, and if it takes practice, then i think my guy and i can have some fun trying hehe

Eventually you may be able to cum just from g-spot stimulation. I can do it, but having my clit touched at the same time sends me so far over the edge that I never want to cum back again! LOL! It's all good. I become so sensitive after a series of body rocking g-orgasms that I can actually cum from him pulling or biting on my nipples. Yesterday we were fooling around and he got me so hot that when he came for me while I was giving him a blow job I squirted at the same time. He wasn't even touching me at the time.............

 

[Kinksville]

Man, I gotta find someone to try this with again

My ex and I tried this a number of times. She enjoyed it a lot but she never actually came from the G-spot stimulation. My wrists usually gave out first. We also wanted to see if she could squirt, but didn't have any luck with that.

Maybe my next partner will be able to. That would be very hot

 

[TBKahuna123]

My ex and I tried this a number of times. She enjoyed it a lot but she never actually came from the G-spot stimulation. My wrists usually gave out first. We also wanted to see if she could squirt, but didn't have any luck with that.

Maybe my next partner will be able to. That would be very hot

I'll tell ya, I've given up on making my wife squirt. Well, kinda, given up sounds defeatist.

The simple fact is I'm sure she could, but she'd take a number of g-gasms to get to that point. There have been an umber of times when she's release a small bit of fluid, but not a great amount with any force. The problem is with her condition (PCOS) she can only take about 4 or 5 g-gasms before it starts to get painful for her. So until we see some improvment in her, I'm not going to try and push her that far anymore.

Not that I'm giving up on the "technique" or the research or what-not. I really don't care if she squirts or not, just feeling her body implode when she cums this way is plenty of satisfaction for me.

Not that the idea of being drown by her explosion does make me grin.

 

[Lieren]

She Comes First

Has anyone read this book by Ian Kerner? My husband ordered it and read it and made me cum like a woman possessed *quiver*

He has a new one called He Comes Next, my only request for Christmas