Transition

[Mz_Cunningham]

When Lilac and I got together, it was probably the most perfect I've ever felt. We have never felt instantly more comfortable than we have with each other. The first time I visited her I came out the airport gate and held her in my arms and it felt right.

This has pretty much been synonymous with our relationship in that we never had any awkward learning moments, barely even learning moments since we clicked together so well.

Geez, I sound like a school girl with a crush

And though we were both sad after the times we had to leave, lots of crying, it was tears of happiness, no sub or domme drop. I know this may not be the norm, but I have only had good experiences with the people I've met, though Lilac is by far the most perfect

 

[kimuk]

When Lilac and I got together, it was probably the most perfect I've ever felt. We have never felt instantly more comfortable than we have with each other. The first time I visited her I came out the airport gate and held her in my arms and it felt right.

This has pretty much been synonymous with our relationship in that we never had any awkward learning moments, barely even learning moments since we clicked together so well.

Geez, I sound like a school girl with a crush

And though we were both sad after the times we had to leave, lots of crying, it was tears of happiness, no sub or domme drop. I know this may not be the norm, but I have only had good experiences with the people I've met, though Lilac is by far the most perfect

i'm so glad for you both .....makes me smile when i see you post about each other

 

[Jack199]

So we have chatted for hours on line. We text each other until our fingers ache. We find time to talk on the phone as often as we can. We play on cam. He instructs me. I obey. We reveal our sercets. Discuss our fetishes. Tell each other things we have never divulged to anyone else.

And now its time to cross the line.

To move our "relationship" from on line to real life.

How was it for you?

When you made the transition? Awkward ? Perfect?

Did he feel like someone who were destined to meet or a stranger with which there was no connection?

The most amazing experiance of your life?

Or your biggest regret?

Share the story here of how you crossed the line.......how the D/s fantasy became your reality.

Prepare me for when I leave the virtual world and enter the flesh and blood one.

Kim

All of my real life D/s relationships have started out in real life. All I can do is wish you the best of luck

 

[shy slave]

I have read this thread with interest.

I am glad it has worked out for you both.

I am curious though, why was it so long before you both met?

I thought you were both in the UK, or have I got that wrong?

 

[kimuk]

Yes wer both in the Uk but have other comitments, so it was about timing , but we have dates set up for september and october.

It is working out well, very well.

Thanks

 

[gingietastic55]

Thanks

Thanks so much for sharing this! I'm fairly new to all this and your story has really been helpful!The insight into how things progressed for you was great to learn from. I too have found myself talking with someone for hours on end lost in each other's company much like you seem to have found yourself. You seem to have gotten great and helpful feedback on your thread. At least, I know it was helpful to me reading it as a third party! (I haven't been so lucky in my own thread) Anyhow, congrats. I'm so happy things worked out so well for you! Your story has given me hope and courage to take things to the next level with the DOM I've been talking to and I'm keeping my fingers crossed that I end up as lucky as you seem t have been.

 

[kimuk]

Thanks so much for sharing this! I'm fairly new to all this and your story has really been helpful!The insight into how things progressed for you was great to learn from. I too have found myself talking with someone for hours on end lost in each other's company much like you seem to have found yourself. You seem to have gotten great and helpful feedback on your thread. At least, I know it was helpful to me reading it as a third party! (I haven't been so lucky in my own thread) Anyhow, congrats. I'm so happy things worked out so well for you! Your story has given me hope and courage to take things to the next level with the DOM I've been talking to and I'm keeping my fingers crossed that I end up as lucky as you seem t have been.

I'm glad it has helped. I think its such a useful forum to be able to ask questions, to get advice, gain reassurance that your fears and desires are "normal". I love the different opinions offered. The contrast. Your often find someone who is in a similar situation and I;ve found it encouraging to hear their stories and how their relationships have progressed.

Its give me the courage to ask for and discuss things. My Dom likes to see what I've written to. He says he helps him know me a little more and shows him ways to make things work for us.

I have been very lucky in finding him . Were on the same wavelenght. We may not have a traditional D/s realtionship. But what we have works very well for us. It keeps evolving. It never gets stale. We like each other on an everyday level as well as a sexual one.

I'm very happy and I think he is as well.

I think I've learnt never to be afraid to ask. Listen to what others say and then decide how it relates to you and the situation your in. No two realationships can be the same because the people involved are individuals and their personalities and history dictates how they interact togeather.

Its a rollercoaster, but if you dont take the first step of getting on the ride, then your never know if your enjoy the thills.

Good luck

Kim

 

[kimuk]

Meeting number 2 in 17 days time!

So explain this to me , why do I feel more nervous about it this time even though we know each better now than we did 3 months ago?

I'm getting really jittery?

Kim

 

[J D Danger]

Meeting number 2 in 17 days time!

So explain this to me , why do I feel more nervous about it this time even though we know each better now than we did 3 months ago?

I'm getting really jittery?

Kim

I would think it is just nervous excitement...that kind of I can't wait but I hope everything goes right kind of feeling....I know I am having that right now for a trip I have planned..and it does not even have any romantic ties

 

[chelleb]

I'm glad to hear everything seems to be working out for both of you!

I have actually met three people in person that I've met online. Interestingly enough, all three were from Lit, lol.

The first one....we talked online/phone (mostly online) for about 5 months before getting the opportunity to meet in person (1000+ miles). It was a two day meeting, and it went really well. We hung out and had fun. I missed him terribly when I left to go home. It didn't last much more than a few months after that.....he unexpectedly became quite controlling and that coupled with his trust issues was more than I was willing to deal with.

The second one.....I don't actually remember how long we talked online before meeting. I'm thinking it was a few months maybe. I drove about 300 miles to meet him. We got along great online and never seemed to run out of things to talk about. In person was very different. We got along good, but something was missing. He also turned out to be quite boring in person (something I did not expect at all). I was there for 5 days and stuck it out hoping it would get better. It didn't. It wasn't bad, but he was just boring and a home body, which I am not. We stopped talking online shortly after I came home.

The third one.....It's probably been almost two years that we talked on and off online. It started as flirty fun and something I never thought would materialize. We just wanted different things out of it...I wanted a relationship and he did not. I did agree to meet for lunch, etc... but every time we made plans, he would break them. After the third or fourth time of that, I made a decision that if I wasn't important enough to keep plans with, he wasn't worthy of my time. I continued to talk to him on and off because he was a cool person to talk to, but wasn't taking it any further. Somehow (and I still don't know how it happened), his attitude changed and we started talking/texting more regularly. I met him in person this past June and we hung out for the weekend. We had a great time. I was camping and he came up for a few days to visit. I was actually laughing at him when he showed up because he got lost! It was strange at first, and I was highly impressed that he didn't try anything when we went in the tent to sleep at night. I've talked to him more since then, and this past week he came camping with me for 4 days (cut short by Irene). I have no idea where this is going, and I'm not speculating on it. Whenever I do, things go badly. I'm just taking it one day at a time and seeing what happens.

~Chelle

 

[kimuk]

I would think it is just nervous excitement...that kind of I can't wait but I hope everything goes right kind of feeling....I know I am having that right now for a trip I have planned..and it does not even have any romantic ties

i think I'm just having a feel old fat and frumpy week. I hope he dosent remember me better than I really am! lol

 

[J D Danger]

I can kind of understand that..but I am sure no matter what you will look great and I am also sure that he is having the same kind of nervous/excited feelings

just stop thinking so much..I know.easy to say but hard to do..but try to relax and enjoy each other

 

[kimuk]

It will be fine on the day, the excited anticipation and the build up , although delicious foreplay , always bring up the same anxieties for me!

 

[MissHolly]

So we have chatted for hours on line. We text each other until our fingers ache. We find time to talk on the phone as often as we can. We play on cam. He instructs me. I obey. We reveal our sercets. Discuss our fetishes. Tell each other things we have never divulged to anyone else.

And now its time to cross the line.

To move our "relationship" from on line to real life.

How was it for you?

When you made the transition? Awkward ? Perfect?

Did he feel like someone who were destined to meet or a stranger with which there was no connection?

The most amazing experiance of your life?

Or your biggest regret?

Share the story here of how you crossed the line.......how the D/s fantasy became your reality.

Prepare me for when I leave the virtual world and enter the flesh and blood one.

Kim

I doubt I can properly describe how I felt the 1st time we met. The best I can say is it was like an out of body experience. I could barely breath...could not think...and could barely manage to talk. A simple touch was like a lightning bolt went through me...and that was just the beginning. My adrenaline and endorphins were flooding my body and I was no longer in control. It truly was the most amazing experience of my life. Every touch...every kiss ..every stroke set me on fire. My pussy flooded and I came repeatedly.

But the best part of that day...was when I was allowed to serve him...as I do best. To have control for just a few minutes and bring Master the kind of joy he gave me....was the ultimate reward. Be sure to take lots of pictures. We do on each occasion we see each other.

Master was happy...he was proud...and I made him happy. I could not have asked for a more perfect experience!

 

[kimuk]

I doubt I can properly describe how I felt the 1st time we met. The best I can say is it was like an out of body experience. I could barely breath...could not think...and could barely manage to talk. A simple touch was like a lightning bolt went through me...and that was just the beginning. My adrenaline and endorphins were flooding my body and I was no longer in control. It truly was the most amazing experience of my life. Every touch...every kiss ..every stroke set me on fire. My pussy flooded and I came repeatedly.

But the best part of that day...was when I was allowed to serve him...as I do best. To have control for just a few minutes and bring Master the kind of joy he gave me....was the ultimate reward. Be sure to take lots of pictures. We do on each occasion we see each other.

Master was happy...he was proud...and I made him happy. I could not have asked for a more perfect experience!

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