Totally Turned Off

serijules said:
I have a question about these passive comments. Do you mean in general, a passive personality annoys you, or in-scene?

Passive in general. During a scene, when I'm on a roll, I don't usually stop to consult or ask for feedback. I may ask for feedback afterwards, to find out what is working and what isn't.
 
MissTaken said:
On line....

REALLY bad spelling. I am sorry. Maybe I am a bitch, but if someone is e mailing me and wants to get to know me, they could use spell check to make reading their thoughts a bit easier.

:)


I'm on the B list for sure then. lol
 
snoozebutton said:
I'm on the B list for sure then. lol


Nop. u r OK. I meen reellee badd spelin.

Oh and all those shortcuts for words make me a bit crazy, but not totally turned off.

:)
 
The biggest thing that bothers me is a submissive being under a Dominants "Protection." If a submissive isn't capable of saying no herself perhaps she isn't cut out for this way of living. My others aren't so much BDSM related. An older man than myself may not call me son. I seethe at the lack of respect as I had a father and this man isn't him. There are others but those are one and two on the list.
 
4 sure!
its very annoying when they do that.
yu no?
y would this be annoying?
I dont no!
ur pretty funny 4 being anoyed with this!

LMAO


MissTaken said:
Nop. u r OK. I meen reellee badd spelin.

Oh and all those shortcuts for words make me a bit crazy, but not totally turned off.

:)
 
MissTaken said:
Nop. u r OK. I meen reellee badd spelin.

Oh and all those shortcuts for words make me a bit crazy, but not totally turned off.

:)

I don't want you crazy just a little flustered. :p
 
"Bro". "Sis". Maybe that's an Australasian thing, because I haven't seen it much here.
 
FungiUg said:
"Bro". "Sis". Maybe that's an Australasian thing, because I haven't seen it much here.

Oh man, that makes me spittin mad...I hate it when another sub calls me "sis", especially when I don't know them.
 
I really hate,(Miss T pay attention) when someone posts a new av that is totally arousing and fails to inform me. :D

Wonderful av MT.

Oh and snoozebutton, that Dom guy gets all the prime choice subs. :D

Snoozebutton, Sir, I haven't spoken to you in a while since I haven't visited the NC playground thread. I envy you and also share your same distatse for being called son by anyone but my father.
 
I agree I'm had lots of subs call me "sis" I never even claimed to be a submissive LOL


serijules said:
Oh man, that makes me spittin mad...I hate it when another sub calls me "sis", especially when I don't know them.
 
also.. turn off...
Doms.... who disrespect... when preaching about respect.
was in a general D/s chat room on yahoo..
and this Dom came in....
from what I gather.. Hes into Gor..
I dont know anything about it.. but I hear its real strick.
ANYWAYS..
A sub said his name wrong..
and he got upset told her shed regret it and ran out of the room.

I was pissed off... One should respect the rooms rules!
this WASNT a Gor room.
he should have respected the members in it.
 
Master_Vassago said:
I really hate,(Miss T pay attention) when someone posts a new av that is totally arousing and fails to inform me. :D

Wonderful av MT.

Oh and snoozebutton, that Dom guy gets all the prime choice subs. :D

Snoozebutton, Sir, I haven't spoken to you in a while since I haven't visited the NC playground thread. I envy you and also share your same distatse for being called son by anyone but my father.

Hope to see youi in Asheville it's going to be fun. You should make plans to attend I know I'll be their with part of the family. :)
 
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Pixie Mischief said:
EB: I sooo understand you.
especially men from india...
I am like.. Do I know you.. there like no...
I'm like where you find me?? there like I was looking for people to talk to..
there like ASL???

I am like grrr its in my freaking profile!!!
I get ruder and ruder.

it just pisses me off.

Oh yeah, it is almost like they drop in from the sky! I am so NOT interested!
 
Spare Me

the disclaimer about the size of your penis.

I am a Domme. It is not like you are gonna get to USE that penis of yours. So whether large or small to nonexistent. it ain't gonna matter.

Keep that chestnut of info to yourself.
 
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and they dont get it!
you keep telling them your not interested and they just dont get it.

Ebonyfire said:
Oh yeah, it is almost like they drop in from the sky! I am so NOT interested!
 
My lover has almost given up on ICQ (which is where she and I met) because she gets constantly bombarded with guys from Egypt or India who want to marry her. So you're not paranoid, Pixie... they really are out to get you!

The whole penis size thing amuses me. I have never measured mine. 'Tis true! If I'm asked I say "Well, no one has fallen over laughing, and no one has run away screaming, so I'm satisfied."

The funniest thing I have ever seen was two men standing in the gentlemen's toilet, comparing cell phone size... "Mine's smaller than yours."
 
I hate the cock avs, myself. I look at them and think, "geez, put that thing away."

Not real fond of the pussy avs either, though I don't see much of them.

Then again, some of my own avs make me cringe too. LOL
 
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I don't look for partners online, so I don't really have a laundry list of online turnoffs. Cock avs, stoopid spelling, and bullheaded idiocy seem to be favorite annoyances and they sure don't make me want to talk to a person.

IRL. which is more my thang, turnoffs are: bicurious girls who chickenshit on me, people who have terminal Top's disease, people who think they know me better than I know me, and people who expect stereotypical Domme behaviors from me (pay me 200 an hour and maybe I'd consider.)
 
Netzach said:
IRL. which is more my thang, turnoffs are: bicurious girls who chickenshit on me, people who have terminal Top's disease, people who think they know me better than I know me, and people who expect stereotypical Domme behaviors from me (pay me 200 an hour and maybe I'd consider.)

My lover and I run into the same thing with women who are keen on threesomes. Her dreaded phrase is "I'm definately interested", which in practice seems to mean we will never hear from that woman again! Arranging a date to meet and chat in person over coffee and having the woman do a "no show" is quite common, also.

Terminal Top's disease? Hmmm... haven't run into that. I guess the reverse would be the "door mat" submissive for me. (See my earlier comment about passive women.)

Any stereotype annoys me!
 
redelicious said:
I hate the cock avs, myself. I look at them and think, "geez, put that thing away."

Not real fond of the pussy avs either, though I don't see much of them.

Then again, some of my own avs make me cringe too. LOL
I find the cock av's to be intrusive and overbearing. If I want to see it, I'll ask you. Making me look at it continually is just too much. I'm happy to see that I'm not alone here in the way I dislike that type of avatar.

Granted, many of the cock av's belong to brand new Lit members, mostly guys in the 18 - 25 age group. But I've seen older men that keep the av up long after hundreds of posts, as if anyone cares.

Some guys don't seem to see the correlation between cock av's and people not talking to them. My thoughts are this - if your entire personality is based on how gorgeous you think that your cock is, I don't even want to get to know you.

I don't see many pussy av's either, but I have to admit that I love tasteful butt photographs. ~smiles~

Emme :rose:
 
alright, i'll pipe up here and agree with all the "put your cock away, please" sentiments. come on, that's just tasteless.
 
~ Emmeline ~ said:


I don't see many pussy av's either, but I have to admit that I love tasteful butt photographs. ~smiles~

Emme :rose:

You should visit the Assmen thread over on the playground. It's full of beautiful butt pics, many of them b&w.


/hijack
 
Ok, I have another one.

Lying about your age, and I don't mean fudging. I mean by like 10 years or something. How rediculous is that? And, how is anyone supposed to trust you if you can't be honest about something as simple as your age?

SHEESH
 
Cock Avs

Are false advertising anyway. Any cock can look big and fat if the camera angle is right, so it is really wasted effort.
 
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