Top, bottom or switch?

[Wild_Honey_66]

Have done that. Awesome

Definitely on my bucket list.

Btw, great thread, y.

Eh, I'm just a guy that hasn't done much experimentally, so I write about it

I think this is true of many of us.

 

[HypnosDenied]

I'm a top.

 

[ydahecnot]

Just so we are clear, Hypnos is a top

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Strangely, I am not really into corsets or thigh-high boots. It's more the psychology of the thing

Agreed. I'm definitely more about the mind fuck than the accoutrements.

 

[CoolDude397]

Not into labels and defined roles. It really depends on the partner, the mood, the situation...

 

[ydahecnot]

Honey: Within limits, of course. I recently saw a vid on xhamster where a domme who had edged a sub for three months without relief then made him give increasing amounts of money with each finger snap. He ended up giving $150,000 (she supposedly did let him cum). Her teasy ways got me off, but I am too thrifty to be a pay pig

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Just so we are clear, Hypnos is a top

Be nice. You want people to come back, don't you?

Not into labels and defined roles. It really depends on the partner, the mood, the situation...

Labels are a convenience, a shorthand. They're imperfect, but they do serve a useful purpose within certain contexts.

Honey: Within limits, of course. I recently saw a vid on xhamster where a domme who had edged a sub for three months without relief then made him give increasing amounts of money with each finger snap. He ended up giving $150,000 (she supposedly did let him cum). Her teasy ways got me off, but I am too thrifty to be a pay pig

Fin Dom. Definitely not my thing.

Teasing, on the other hand...

 

[Bjerget]

This thread is highly enlightening. I had no idea so many guys were so fluid with D/s kinds of things.

 

[ydahecnot]

When it comes down to it, all guys are fluid, as it were

 

[lowphat]

This thread is highly enlightening. I had no idea so many guys were so fluid with D/s kinds of things.

More women should take charge on occasion

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Men often say that they like a strong, confident woman who knows what she wants in the bedroom, but that's not the same thing as wanting to be controlled. I wonder where most men fall on a scale of 1 - 5 between being a fan of strong women and being willing to actually submit to one?

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[RideFl71]

Men often say that they like a strong, confident woman who knows what she wants in the bedroom, but that's not the same thing as wanting to be controlled. I wonder where most men fall on a scale of 1 - 5 between being a fan of strong women and being willing to actually submit to one?

I'm always willing to submit to a woman but it seems most woman don't like to take charge or know how too... I think most woman like the man to be in control take charge.

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[ydahecnot]

I'm always willing to submit to a woman but it seems most woman don't like to take charge or know how too... I think most woman like the man to be in control take charge.

This is why I had to develop my dominant side, to have a better chance at satisfying relationships here

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

I'm always willing to submit to a woman but it seems most woman don't like to take charge or know how too... I think most woman like the man to be in control take charge.

This is why I had to develop my dominant side, to have a better chance at satisfying relationships here

I think potential female PYLs have a hard time seeing what's in it for them, besides more responsibility.

Y'all need to work on your marketing skills.

 

[ydahecnot]

Mutual enjoyment/orgasms?

 

[Lunation]

Human sexuality is weird.

Why can't we just split in half into clones like reasonable organisms?

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Mutual enjoyment/orgasms?

Too vague. Paint me a picture!

 

[Bjerget]

When it comes down to it, all guys are fluid, as it were

Well all humans are what, upwards of 70% water?

More women should take charge on occasion

I'm going to remind you of this in another thread.

Men often say that they like a strong, confident woman who knows what she wants in the bedroom, but that's not the same thing as wanting to be controlled. I wonder where most men fall on a scale of 1 - 5 between being a fan of strong women and being willing to actually submit to one?

I've only ever met one truly submissive male before. (I don't get out much.) Most of the others really only wanted to please me and submit to me as a means to facilitate their own pleasure.

 

[ydahecnot]

You don't think I would do that? A bottom has to put in a solid effort to make the top thrill in her control

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

I've only ever met one truly submissive male before. (I don't get out much.) Most of the others really only wanted to please me and submit to me as a means to facilitate their own pleasure.

*sigh*

Yes, there are a lot of frogs out there...

This is part of why I typically prefer lifestyle D/s. I don't want to just be somebody's wank fodder.

 

[hotoldrguy]

*sigh*

Yes, there are a lot of frogs out there...

This is part of why I typically prefer lifestyle D/s. I don't want to just be somebody's wank fodder.

 

[ydahecnot]

*sigh*

Yes, there are a lot of frogs out there...

This is part of why I typically prefer lifestyle D/s. I don't want to just be somebody's wank fodder.

The thought of being a woman's wank fodder makes me smile greatly