Toot your own horn

[Krinaia]

So I was thinking .. sometimes you really just NEED an ego boost. And the best way is to remember something good about yourself OR give someone else a compliment. I once tried an experiment wherein I would compliment at least one person a day - and be geniunie about it. Within a week, I was more liked and felt better about myself. And why can't I apply this to myself too? So... everyone please either say something nice about YOURSELF or compliment someone else. And since I started this thread, you aren't allowed to compliment me. I won't take it personally. I promise.


Here goes:


To all those I have been speaking to privately of late - you know who you are - you have been a great help and I think anyone would be lucky to have you as a friend and confidant.


To myself, You aren't ashamed to be goofy in public and that takes guts and makes you very fun to be around.


I feel better already.

if anyone calls me pollyanna, i'll sic my lame ass golden retriever on your bootie

 

[Krinaia]

just humor me, people

 

[A Desert Rose]

LMAO...... commercial is almost over now.. I'll be back to this, I promise.

 

[bunny bondage]

ooh! i like this thread!

ok, here's one for WD - you're an awesome writer and i really enjoyed reading the story you wrote for me as you did a fabulous job of gaging how i'd react to certain situations. i know you've gotten lots of ladies' attention that way! you're a great contributer to this site (it IS a story site, after all), and you're one of the people helping to keep it alive!

and here's one for MissT - you're a great mod! you never get mad unless it's warrented, and even then you keep your cool. you continue to post as yourself, but then you have a seperate "mod-mode" that you use when appropriate! keep up the good work!

here's one for apet - you're not only a ball of sunshine, you've got the greatest bum ever! that was my fav av!

and quint - we young'uns have to stick together! congratulations to you (and me, while we're at it) for understanding your needs and wants at a young age. some people have to spend years in unhappy relationships before taking a stand and claiming what they want. way to be introspective and learn about yourself without shame!

Anelize - you do such a good job at keeping up the library! that's SUCH a great resource for people looking into bdsm. it's a non-scary way to get involved and learn. it's all catogorized and tidy! (i just love tidy)

and i wish Eb was still here, cuz i'd say something like "you've got such an expansive knowledge and your experience is invaluable to all of us" but she's not...so i guess if any of you see her, tell her something like that

and finally i'd like to thank Mike Patton for being such a sexy mother fucker. i know, he's not on this board, and he'll never in a million years read this, but DAMN if any of you haven't heard the Lovage album "songs to make love to your old lady by" then go get it NOW. no joke, it's like oysters + spanish fly + satin sheets + candle light + any other aphrodesiac you can think of all on one cd. mmmm...

i know i've missed a thousand people, and i'll be coming back to this thread as i think of more to say! but as it is, i've got a friend coming over in a few, and i should really get going!

 

[SweetDommes]

Very good idea pollyanna ... oh, wait, you said NOT to call you that

Anyway, for complementing others - Our boy has behaved himself very well *beams proudly* and has been treated well by everyone (pretty much)

And we've managed to give pretty good advice to multiple people lately, here and other places. I know that we've managed to give support to one of our friends from the munch that we are a member of, and I hope that those I/we have been chatting with lately have been helped by our views & advice as well.

 

[Krinaia]

SweetDommes, if i could get my fat lazy golden retriever to get up, he'd chase you... and probably lick your face... grr.


I'd like to compliment Mr. Mayberry and Anelize for being so down to earth. And fun. You guys rock out.

 

[bunny bondage]

oh right! i almost forgot johnny! you're a wicked cool guy with a sharp wit!

 

[SweetDommes]

SweetDommes, if i could get my fat lazy golden retriever to get up, he'd chase you... and probably lick your face... grr.


I'd like to compliment Mr. Mayberry and Anelize for being so down to earth. And fun. You guys rock out.

LOL, you know you love me

 

[Krinaia]

uhh.... so moving on peoples... i want to see loving going on


I'd like to compliment Quint: but I was having a hard time thinking of something appropriate - so let's try this: When I first started reading your posts - I would have never guessed you were so young because of the maturity and wisdom you have displayed. It is a joy to read your postings. And I loved your kitten AV.

 

[SweetDommes]

OK OK, I'll quit highjacking threads ...

I do want to say that lots of people have helped us, some more than others, but if I list everyone, the list will take 4 days to type ...

The big ones are MissTaken, EB, PB, Poet ... a few others who's screennames (of course) currently escape me ... Just by being friendly with us, even if not actually giving advice, you have helped us heaps as we have jumped headfirst into the lifestyle.

 

[Krinaia]

This isn't necessarily about people who are helpful. Let's see some frivulous compliments. The silly kind that will make the person smile. And the deeper kind that will warm their hearts. Not to be bossy - I just don't want this to turn into some actor on the grammy stage thanking everyone they've ever met. The purpose of this thread is to put a smile on either someone else's or your own face.


For example:

ADR - you have way sexy toes


Me - you are entirely amusing.





DON"T FORGET _ SELF LOVE IS PROMOTED HERE!!!


I'm going to back off now and let the rest of the forum take over.

 

[AnelizeDarkEyes]

To my Sir's evil twin in Holland....

I still smile every time I remember You in a certain *grin* demo from our get-together.

Your willingness astounded me. *hugs & kisses* to You and Yours!!

~anelize

 

[AnelizeDarkEyes]

I follow orders REAL good.

To the letter.

down to the very last bite and lick of the bottom of the bowl of Ben & Jerry's.



~anelize

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

I rock, I rule, I kick ass...


...some of you folks are ok, too.

 

[James G 5]

If I could toot my own horn I wouldn't spend so much time on Lit....

I read bunny's comment, EB left???

 

[Shadowsdream]

My compliments to those of you that know how to say enough without saying too much about your personal BDSM bumps and grinds. I would like to compliment you on having the class and integrity to not throw too much mud on faltering relationships or yesterdays dreams.
My hats off to your intellect and honesty when you bite your lips and hold in the anger that wishes to spew out in a million recriminations. The fact that you also take a piece of the responsibility for *how things are* is an incredible show of integrity in My opinion.
Y/you know who you are!

 

[bunny bondage]

If I could toot my own horn I wouldn't spend so much time on Lit....

I read bunny's comment, EB left???

i haven't seen her in forever - but then there's the chance that i'm just completly missing her posts because, while i never miss the smallest thing, the big things quite often escape me.

 

[catalina_francisco]

I am forever amazed at the twinlike pair http://emoticons4u.informationalot.com/cool/715.gif we met at a certain get together....almost like looking in a mirror at ourselves. I am sure the fun and depth will continue and if they get to visit "hint hint BIG hint!!" I think we will discover much more we have in common and in like. Is a bit scary though being in the presence of 2 Domly ones with such identical sadistic thoughts and evil grins. Oh don't you love that thrill factor though. http://www.smilies4you.de/content/boese/a5.gif

EBhttp://users.pandora.be/eforum/emoticons4u/angels/teu06.gif...well I miss her presence here on the board and perhaps we need a''Come back please' thread with more begging and praising and love than she can stand to deny. If that doesn't work maybe the memory of one of our all time faourite past times will. http://www.smilies4you.de/content/nahrung/a3.gif

Failing that we could hold her to her promise to dazzle us with some new cool AV's that were discussed and planned?!! And of course there are more Dommes and male subs here lately so that might work. Nah, we should just pray, pray, pray!!

Keeping with the get together mode as it featured in my dreams last night, I would love to say Zaudika is a beautiful, real, and sweet person who has a depth to her to be treasured and admired, while still maintaining an air of innocence that just comes natural. http://users.pandora.be/eforum/emoticons4u/angels/littleangel.gif

Ezarc http://users.telenet.be/eforum/emoticons4u/trans/fahr03.gif was cool, even while trying to follow the wheels of the great Eb to the best food joints we could find!! For a guy who rarely sleeps, he has an amazing attention span and a devilish mind to match the evil twins!!

Il Mio Angelo http://www.smilies4you.de/content/sonstige/c90.gif, what can I say..she is a sub to warm a Dom's hands and heart, and with the determination she maintains despite the disappointments along the way, she will find the one she longs for. http://www.smilies4you.de/content/sonstige/c92.gif I have a feeling he will have his hands full, but I imagine if he is red blooded enough, he will find that a tantalising challenge too hard to resist.

Catalina http://www.smilies4you.de/content/sonstige/c86.gif

 

[MissTaken]

Fluffy tooting?

bunny, you have an incredible face. Now, I would love to see it contorted with pain/pleasure and then, see it at peace in the aftermath!



Serious tootabilty is given to so many on the forums. Those who challenge me intellectually and/or in terms of moderating are key players in making this forum unique. Thank you to all.

Then, those who challenge me by being angry and disappointed, if you were special to me before a falling out, you remain special. Sending you *hugs* (I hope he knows who he is and realizes I am sincere.)

There are those who have made me laugh when my life was at a low.

Then, there are those incredible folks I have spoken to on the phone or in real life. What to say? I am sorry I missed the get together as I would have an even more clear picture in terms of who you are, but thank you for sharing your time with me.

Every one of you are special.

Then, there is the one little gal who will be visiting me soon. A dear friend over the copper wires who feels like a little sis. Hopefully, she leaves me TOYS alone!



And sweet cherry?
Darlin, I sooo need to get you on your knees, darlin! You have great posture!

 

[lrisheyes]

oh right! i almost forgot johnny! you're a wicked cool guy with a sharp wit!

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I gotta agree with you there bunny!! johnny is a class act!

Another witty guy here is DVS, always enjoy his postings

Thanks to all here that warmly welcomed me when I first showed up here.

 

[WriterDom]

SkylineBlue, loved her 3rd story. scary to think that she'll only get better.

desert rose, yes, I'm not much into feet, but I would suck her toes. And other things.

big thanks to bunny for her pics, she's the ultimate schoolgirl fantasy

Shadowsdream, well, if she'd write a book, I'd buy it in a minute

Netzach, she has a sharp wit and a way with words

And I miss lovetoread. I hope her situation improves soon and she will visit more often.

 

[Krinaia]

Thanks WD but you weren't supposed to compliment me

But hehe - yah just imagine the stories I could write if I had MORE real time experience.

 

[il mio angelo]

Il Mio Angelo http://www.smilies4you.de/content/sonstige/c90.gif, what can I say..she is a sub to warm a Dom's hands and heart, and with the determination she maintains despite the disappointments along the way, she will find the one she longs for. http://www.smilies4you.de/content/sonstige/c92.gif I have a feeling he will have his hands full, but I imagine if he is red blooded enough, he will find that a tantalising challenge too hard to resist.

Catalina http://www.smilies4you.de/content/sonstige/c86.gif

Catalina... you are very astute... or am I just that transparent?

I guess in keeping with the GT theme here I will say the following.

Zaudika is one of the sweetest people I know. She can be blunt when I need it, but she also makes a great shoulder to cry on. Not to mention all the trouble she helps me cause.

Anelize, also someone to tell me the straight poop, caring and funny.. and a damn fine librarian to boot!

catalina_francisco, their posts are enlightening, at times challenging, but always a great example of a loving, caring, (and might I add oh so cute) 24/7 D/s couple.

Johnny, what can I say.. you make me laugh so hard sometime I nearly bust something (no comment there please). You have also made me think of muppets in a whole new way.

Ezarc, I apprectiate the big brother protection... not to mention the great driving skills. How many yellow traffic lights did you blow through that weekend? lol

Eb, your laugh is infectious.. you are a sweetie (shoot, was that supposed to be a secret? ) I look forward to reading your 'balls to the wall' posts again soon (I hope).

Miss T... you were there in spirit.. you are a great mod, and I am very happy that things are going so well for you.

CavaliereScuro.... well, I don't have to say it here.. you already know.

OK, and to myself.. you are a pain in the ass, but your heart is in the right place. lol

 

[ghosst_K&H]

i am too humble to toot my own horn, so instead i'd love to thank Mistress Karen, and Mistress Holly for offering me my dream

P.B., you dont know what your missing brother

I'd also like to thank all the regulars who post here, i really appreciate the wealth of knowledge this group holds pertaining the lifestyle, also for the warm welcome.

 

[Zaudika]

I of course have to contribute to this thread...

il mio angelo - My lil twin it seems sometimes. You've been an amazing addition to my life. There's several times that would've been a lot harder for me to make it through without your support. It's wonderful to have such a close friend that I share the same interests with, the same thoughts and mind set with. I always enjoy our time together and always appreciate your advice and straight-forwardness with me.

Anelize - I haven't gotten to know you as much as I would have liked to yet, but you're just so awesome!.. I always enjoy our conversations and your input and advice. I love the knowledge that you have and your openness.

JM - Another that I don't know well, but you're great to have around. You're sense of humor is wonderful. The knowledge that you've gained in what would be such a short time to some is amazing. And you take great care of your woman.

Catalina_Francisco - You both are so sweet. Your words above brought such a shy smile to my face. I love the intelligence that you both hold and your willingness to always share it. As I said at the time we met, your relationship is something that is wonderful to see. You two are amazing together.

Eb - I miss you being here!!!!!... I miss your presence, your advice, your bluntness. I loved having the chance to meet you at the GT. I love your smile and your willingness to be able to take in all those around you and make all feel welcome and adored. I love how you have such a sweet side and such a wicked side all rolled into one.

Ezarc - You know all my feelings concerning you pretty first hand. Kind of the open communication thing we have going. .. You're a wonderful, supportive, and amazing man. You've helped me through some of my worst times also... and always been there when I truly needed you to be.

MissT - The older loving sister that I never got to have growing up. I don't know what I'd do without you in my life either. You've been such a great friend and I love how open and blunt you are with me at all times. I adore you... and I can't wait to get to see you.

And pretty much to everyone else in the BDSM forum - you're all just f'ing awesome. ... without everyone here this board would be nonexistant. All the various opinions, thoughts, tastes, etc is what brings this entire place together and while I don't post very often at times. I always enjoy lurking at very least and seeing whats going on here.