Today I learned

It stated never had an orgasm.

Sad!
....

That's a crime against humanity in general, and femininity specifically. Men need to do better, and also, sex ed in schools needs to happen. I've met women who genuinely didn't know how to masturbate. I had to teach them what felt good.

A lot of this is culture and religion-based aversion to female sexuality and stigmatizing masturbation and also, sex outside of marriage. Women are sometimes afraid of even looking up how to masturbate because they think they will go to hell if they do. I despise religious sexism and misogyny.
 
What to do about it, on a societal level, see above.

But what about a specific woman reading this who this applies to-

I would genuinely offer a woman who has never had an orgasm whatever skills I learned from being a lover of women for the past 24 years.

I can say not only have I given lots of orgasms to all of them, but also, including women who never had an orgasm before, or a stubborn / rare orgasm.

The key is good communication and patience- Chances are, she is a stubborn orgasm and needs multiple forms of pleasure simultaneously.

I would ask that she brings her favorite vibrator, because the only thing a toy can do that I can't, is vibrate like that.

I will experiment with every combination of oral sex on her, pleasuring her with fingers, vibe on her clit while I lick her pussy, vibe on her clit while I finger her pussy, vibe on clit while I enter her with my cock and give her a gentle fucking, doggy style with her touching her clit, or with vibe, suckling her nipples or fondling them and caressing them and feather touching them with my fingertips while she masturbates.... everything.

Over and over, for hours, every single day, until she has an orgasm.

I would make it my mission in life.

No woman I've ever met needed more than the first hour.

This is not a boast, if someone genuinely hasn't had an orgasm after being with several partners, or by say, the age of 25.... tell me this in my inbox.

We will talk. I will help give you ideas where you can do it yourself.

If we hit it off or you're willing to meet me, and if she doesn't want to have penile penetration with a stranger, I can guarantee I can make you cum without even touching you with my cock. I'm drug and disease free. I wouldn't ask for anything in return. Nothing.

You do not need to pleasure me in any way or have sex with me.

Ending the streak of no orgasm is its own good deed, but, chances are, if you want to show appreciation, we can discuss that as an option. None is required. You can get dressed and leave. It's fine.

They would need to be okay with a 42 year old man giving them the orgasm, I'm not 20 anymore. But I am still handsome. You'd never guess I was older than 35 either.

But yeah, I've never not been able to give women an orgasm, so let me know. I am single and I would like to still be of use to women before I actually get old.
 
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