To my fellow subs

[sexychik69]

Hello fellow Lit subs! I haven't been on this board much, but I just wanted to come in with a bang... and a few questions. So here goes.

How did you meet your current Master? What was the thing he did that made him the perfect Master for you? What grabbed your attention?

How long have you been involved in the BDSM lifestyle? How old were you when you entered into this fantastic world?

What are some of the things that you particularly enjoy to do/have done to you?

What is your idea of punishment, and how does your Master inflict it upon you? (ie what does he do to you) Do you believe punishment should also be pleasurable?

Describe your Master in one sentence.

Describe yourself in one sentence. (As a sub.)

What things have you learned from your Master and what do you still hope to learn?

Keep this going... add on a question for all to answer if you have one I left out.

 

[sexychik69]

My answers

I met my current Master through Literotica. He was the first Dom that helped me realize what I wanted, and it was him. He definitely grabbed my attention with his techniques. While he is sincere and commanding, he also believes in giving his slaves a good chance to please him, encouraging them.

I’ve been involved in the lifestyle seriously not for very long… lightly for about four years. And how old was I? Well, we’ll just say young.

I honestly have not done much as a true sub… but I believe that what I will enjoy the most physically will be being spanked with a riding crop.

My idea of punishment, the most effective anyway, is for one’s Master to prohibit or take away something that their sub enjoys. For example, if she enjoys spanking, and expects that as a punishment, he would instead not give her the spanking, and not give her anything (a cold shoulder kind of thing). I believe that some punishment will be pleasurable, whether the Master or the sub intends it to or not. When you connect with someone, any touch or emotion they give you is always arousing.

My Master is what I have needed my entire life.

Just a once lost slave that will never be lost again.

So far I have learned that pain not only comes with tolerance, but with sexual arousal as well. As I said, I am new to the BDSM lifestyle, and have not experienced much. However, I never thought that I would become sexually aroused from pain, but I found that I do, and I am glad that my Master taught me that I could be aroused from it without embarrassment. I still hope to learn anything and everything… but what I mostly want to learn is where my limits are, and how to go steadily past them.

 

[FurryFury]

Hi Sexychick69!

1.) How did you meet your current Master?

I don't have a Master atm but because of a thread on here I saw him at collarme.com and sent him a note. I try real hard not to spend too much time staring at him these days.

2.)What was the thing he did that made him the perfect Master for you?

When I had an online Master too damn briefly, he honed in on the things I wanted that I hadn't consciously admitted to myself. He gave me things to do to achieve those goals. He helped me improve also my husband's understanding and acceptance of BDSM.

3.)What grabbed your attention?

His picture was fucking smoking! I swear his face was a dream archetype for me to drool over. Holy Shit! In fact in a survey of my best bud four out of five gf's were swooning. Only one didn't "get it." *shrugs*

Also his write up was good. He seemed knowledgeable and experienced, two things I seek. He mentioned being a "Daddy Dom" type. I found that appealing too and was curious about what that meant to him.

4.)How long have you been involved in the BDSM lifestyle?

One year.

5.)How old were you when you entered into this fantastic world?

Too fucking old, as old as the hills, AKA 44.

6.)What are some of the things that you particularly enjoy to do

Spanking, anal sex, deep throating wrapping.

7.)have done to you?

Spanking, anal sex, figging, temperature play.

8.)What is your idea of punishment, and

I hate the idea of it. The worst would be apathy or loss of time together.

9.)how does your Master inflict it upon you? (ie what does he do to you)

I don't believe I was punished by him. (Except he went away. So maybe I was.)

10.)Do you believe punishment should also be pleasurable?

I really, really don't. I don't think it's a damn game. If you want to make a game of it call it role play and I'll be happy to do that but if it's really punishment, it should not be pleasurable IMHO.

11.)Describe your Master in one sentence.

Hot, poetic, smart, intuitive and AWOL.

12.)Describe yourself in one sentence. (As a sub.)

Aw shit! Describe me??? Not bad, creative, diligent, average intelligence and present. LOL.

13.)What things have you learned from your Master and

I learned that some things I didn't think I could do anymore or ever, I could!!!. I learned how to take charge in scenes with my husband and that he'd love it. I learned that when everything is going great, the piano is just about to smush you into the ground and make your heart into goo. (not in a good way)

14.)what do you still hope to learn?

OMG!!! There is so much more to learn. Such as what happens if I ever get to be in a real life situation with a trusted Dominant and get what I really crave? Each thing I do now I learn from and that's from the safety of my own home. I've learned so much this year it's mind blowing. In person? I could only vaguely guess at what the true lessons might be.

Bonus: Keep this going... add on a question for all to answer if you have one I left out.

Geez! A question? *grr, thinking, thinking . . .* Okay, um . . .

15.)Where is that thread with the kinky Bed and Breakfast places and

16.)does anyone know some other kink friendly places for short romantic trips?

Fury

PS Some think I may not be a sub but I so want to be.

 

[shy slave]

Hello fellow Lit subs! I haven't been on this board much, but I just wanted to come in with a bang... and a few questions. So here goes.

How did you meet your current Master? What was the thing he did that made him the perfect Master for you? What grabbed your attention?

How long have you been involved in the BDSM lifestyle? How old were you when you entered into this fantastic world?

What are some of the things that you particularly enjoy to do/have done to you?

What is your idea of punishment, and how does your Master inflict it upon you? (ie what does he do to you) Do you believe punishment should also be pleasurable?

Describe your Master in one sentence.

Describe yourself in one sentence. (As a sub.)

What things have you learned from your Master and what do you still hope to learn?

Keep this going... add on a question for all to answer if you have one I left out.

My head hurts from all those questions.

Some answers are scattered in both random and specific threads, particularly punishment (I have strong views ) three of them I will answer now.

Describe your Master in one sentence.
Sexy, gorgeous, erotic, sadistic, fun

Describe yourself in one sentence. (As a sub.)
I am his slave, but I need towork on my sense of humour.

What are some of the things that you particularly enjoy to do
I have a spiritual home around the BDSM boards, that describes my favourite thing, over and over and over and over

 

[the captians wench]

Hello fellow Lit subs! I haven't been on this board much, but I just wanted to come in with a bang... and a few questions. So here goes.

How did you meet your current Master? What was the thing he did that made him the perfect Master for you? What grabbed your attention?

How long have you been involved in the BDSM lifestyle? How old were you when you entered into this fantastic world?

What are some of the things that you particularly enjoy to do/have done to you?

What is your idea of punishment, and how does your Master inflict it upon you? (ie what does he do to you) Do you believe punishment should also be pleasurable?

Describe your Master in one sentence.

Describe yourself in one sentence. (As a sub.)

What things have you learned from your Master and what do you still hope to learn?

Keep this going... add on a question for all to answer if you have one I left out.

Geeze oh pete! Okay let's see here....

How did you meet your current Master?
I met him here on lit, actually on my pic thread. *giggles*

What was the thing he did that made him the perfect Master for you? What grabbed your attention?
Both of these have the same answer for me. He was unlike most that contact me from my thread. When we started chatting on yahoo, he wasn't quick to get me on cam, and once I was on cam he wasn't quick to get me naked. At the time I still was not ready to submit to my own submissiveness and disires to be a slave, but he made me feel sucure in myself, in who I am. His gentle way of guiding me is what attracted me to him and led to my submission, and it's what i love most now.

How long have you been involved in the BDSM lifestyle?
Very short. I've only admitted to being a sub about 4 months ago. And I discovered I liked the feel of the strap only 9 months ago.

How old were you when you entered into this fantastic world?
The ripe old age of 22. *giggles*

What are some of the things that you particularly enjoy to do/have done to you?
I love having my hair pulled, and I really love a good flogging and or spanking.


What is your idea of punishment, and how does your Master inflict it upon you? (ie what does he do to you) Do you believe punishment should also be pleasurable?
He loves to see me tacked, and I'm not particularly fond of the sinsation, so that tends to be my punishment. For me tho, what gets to me the most is knowing I disapointed him. That pain is greater than any physical that could be inflicted upon me. He also loves to have me choose my own punishment when I've done something great to displease him. And because I'm so eager to get back in his good graces, I usually come up with things I would not normally be willing to do.

Describe your Master in one sentence.
Hot, kind, sweet, hot, firm, playful, hot, tender, strong, hot, funny, serious, did I menstion I think he's really hot?

Describe yourself in one sentence. (As a sub.)
young, timid, eager, childlike innocence

What things have you learned from your Master and what do you still hope to learn?
Most importantly that it's okay to be who I am. No matter what people think, or what they say, I am who I am and I should be proud of that. The lesson he's still trying to teach me is pacience. I'm not learning that one as quickly.

 

[the captians wench]

16.)does anyone know some other kink friendly places for short romantic trips?

To add on.... Anyone know of any in or near Dublin, Ireland?

 

[marieR19]

How did you meet your current Master? What was the thing he did that made him the perfect Master for you? What grabbed your attention?
Hmmm.... Well first, for me it's a Mistress, not a Master. But yeah. Um, I met Beth online and we were a couple for.... About eight months or so before I told her about my submissiveness. At first she was freaked, but the more she read/researched the more she liked. She's a total dominate at heart. As to the other two parts of this question.... She's not the perfect Mistress for me and I know that, but the person that I know is, she's no longer interested in me. But anyways, Beth is a wonderful Mistress and we are both inexperianced, so we are learning together.

How long have you been involved in the BDSM lifestyle? How old were you when you entered into this fantastic world?
Well, that depends what you mean exactly... I have know about my kinky/submissive side for a long time, since I was... eleven, I think. But I just started reading about it and stuff about two years ago, when I was sixteen, and Beth was my first (and only) partner in this, so yeah. I'm pretty new to it all, considering how long I've known.

What are some of the things that you particularly enjoy to do/have done to you?
Very limited experiance, but of the stuff I've had done to me... I love it when Beth pulls my hair really hard, and when she whips my ass with her belt.

What is your idea of punishment, and how does your Master inflict it upon you? (ie what does he do to you) Do you believe punishment should also be pleasurable?
Actually, not really a question I can answer right now, because as of yet I have never actually been punished. However, I do not think that punishment should be pleasurable, because then it's not punishment! For example, Beth has mentioned that she knows she can't whip me or hurt me as punishment, because I like it, so she would have to find another way.

Describe your Master in one sentence.
She is kind and dedicated and loyal, and very open-minded and understanding about limits and both of our needs, and she satisfies me very much.

Describe yourself in one sentence. (As a sub.)
A little scared and unsure about my place in this lifestyle, but very excited and determined to live out my dreams and fantasies.

What things have you learned from your Master and what do you still hope to learn?
I've learned that I'm not as submissive as I thought. lol Seriously though, I wanted to believe that I could totally and completely submit in like everything, but I just... I need control, I hate feeling helpless. However, there are still many aspects that I do like. I hope to learn... A lot. Just, a lot.

Didn't realize this would be so long. lol


Heather

 

[LunarKitten]

Hello fellow Lit subs! I haven't been on this board much, but I just wanted to come in with a bang... and a few questions. So here goes.

How did you meet your current Master? What was the thing he did that made him the perfect Master for you? What grabbed your attention?

I met him here on Lit, in the playground. We were both seeing someone else at the time, but lived in the same city, so we started out as just friends with similar interests. In fact, the interests were soooo similar, that when both our relationships ended, we decided to give it a try. What grabbed my attention? That's easy...he's into rope

How long have you been involved in the BDSM lifestyle? How old were you when you entered into this fantastic world?

I've been involved in my local groups for about five or six years now. Master over ten. I was about 29 at the time, I think.

What are some of the things that you particularly enjoy to do/have done to you?

I love rope play, especially shibari. (Master learned when he was in Japan for several years.) We also enjoy sensation play, spankings, floggings...

What is your idea of punishment, and how does your Master inflict it upon you? (ie what does he do to you) Do you believe punishment should also be pleasurable?

My worst idea of punishment is being ignored. Luckily, Master has agreed that it would be too psychologically damaging for him to ever implement it on me. Also, by luck, I've never pushed him to the punishment limit *wipes forehead* And, no, I do not believe punishment she be pleasurable - how would you every be sure that the bottom wasn't being bad on purpose?

Describe your Master in one sentence.

Master is increadibly kind, patient and still is able to look and speak to me in a way that makes my knees weak and a gives me a distinct need to serve him as well as I can.

Describe yourself in one sentence. (As a sub.)

Well, I have was upgraded to slave about a year ago, so I hope you don't mind if I give it a go:

I have always had a distinct need to please others, to make them happy and to take care of them.

What things have you learned from your Master and what do you still hope to learn?

I have learned I don't always need what I think I need when I think I need it. I hope to learn Japanese tea service before the year is out. We've bought the pot and little cups and a tray for it

Keep this going... add on a question for all to answer if you have one I left out.

 

[FurryFury]

I'm really taken by the number of people who met online and at Lit! Wow!

Fury