To fanstasy about a family member- right or wrong???

[Youngdog]

Is it wrong to fantasize about a family member. And for those who do(or don't), how many actually carry through with that? Personally, i think any fantasy is ok, but carrying it through with your brother, sister, dad, mom, etc., that's just wrong. What are your opinions on it?
Sorry about the terrible spelling in the subject space- brain block or something.

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[Patryn]

I would say if it feels wrong to you, keep it as a fantasy. I've never been sexually attracted to a family member, so I really can't help you there, but I do have some fantasies that are very arousing to me AS FANTASIES, but I would never act them out.

 

[Guest]

I have to agree with Patryn. Wonderful thing about the fantasy world is...anything goes! I have had some nice thoughts about my cousins, but I wonder if that is my southern upbringing (just kidding). As far as sisters or mother...nope. Don't think I would ever act on those fantasies, but they make for some nice "alone" time.

 

[Stump]

Fantasies about people close to you are very normal. As for acting on them, well that is totally up to you. When i was younger my cousin and her friend would eat each others pussies and we would watch then go at it. I used to get very turned on by them but i never tried to join in. I would have loved to screw her friend but i knew she would want to join us and that just didnt feel right.

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[ZULUBOY]

I think most people (if they're honest) would admit to some kind of a fantasy at some stage of their life, but most of those never act on them. I admit I've had many fantasies, but I'm one of those who simply couldn't do it (I think; who knows what would happen if the opportunity presented itself?).

 

[OldDog]

Lajo/youngdog -- fantasy is healthy as long as you keep it a fantasy when the other person doesn't now/wouldn't participate. As far as being "southern"; I'm convinced that being brought up in Texas helped contribute to my wonderful "experimenting" with some equally overly curoius cousins. Being outnumbered 7-1 at family reunions is okay when the reunions are in the country, or your relatives live next to a 5000 acre game preserve, and all the adults are otherwise occupied watching football or the Jack Daniels bottle.