to cheat or not to cheat

[hot_s3x]

Ok, an ex who I still have feeling for texted me last night, just saying hello.. Now I'm married, hubby is ok, we fight about stuff a lot, I've cheated on him in the past so doing it wouldn't be THAT big of a deal except I've been trying to work on that. We've had an open relationship so he's been with others, but I don't think me getting sex from my ex would be fair to ask for. Should I just do it, or ask?

 

[earthseed_77]

Ok, an ex who I still have feeling for texted me last night, just saying hello.. Now I'm married, hubby is ok, we fight about stuff a lot, I've cheated on him in the past so doing it wouldn't be THAT big of a deal except I've been trying to work on that. We've had an open relationship so he's been with others, but I don't think me getting sex from my ex would be fair to ask for. Should I just do it, or ask?

sounds complicated...and besides it is not "cheating" if granted permission right?

 

[sno_22]

Ok, an ex who I still have feeling for texted me last night, just saying hello.. Now I'm married, hubby is ok, we fight about stuff a lot, I've cheated on him in the past so doing it wouldn't be THAT big of a deal except I've been trying to work on that. We've had an open relationship so he's been with others, but I don't think me getting sex from my ex would be fair to ask for. Should I just do it, or ask?

If you have an open relationship it isn't cheating, at least as I understand how those relationships work. Whether or not you ask depends on the rules the two of you set up to begin with. Did you have to ask with the others, and what about him; did you have to tell after, etc.