Threesome

[janeyl]

Hello everybody,
I thought to update you on some progress- well, almost progress... As a first step we wanted to be watched, not include someone straight away.
We went on holiday and discovered a wonderful bay in the beautiful south of France. It was close to a larger beach with some more sunbathers. We thought of lying there, then getting aroused, and then perhaps being viewed by a stranger or so. We went there early, and that may have been the mistake. We were still in our bathing suits, when a woman with a nosy dog came along. OK, we thought, she´ll pass and then let´s see... But unfortunately the next people to come along were a family with little children- nothing more lust-killing than that! And of course we didn´t want any children being confused by the sight of two possibly coupling adults. So, that´s the update. We didn´t come any closer to reality otherwise (yet)...

I was going to come and find you after our chat and see if you'd got any closer to making it a reality. Sounds like you're having fun exploring some possibilities though

J

 

[tomwantstosee]

Hi Janey,
yes, there are several possibilities, and this thread is really helpful. We thought to go slow pace, perhaps being watched "by chance" initially, and then- who knows?
But it maybe things develop differently. But isn´t that the beauty of erotics? That nothing can be completely planned?

 

[Lizzie_Borden]

Hello everybody,
I thought to update you on some progress- well, almost progress... As a first step we wanted to be watched, not include someone straight away.
We went on holiday and discovered a wonderful bay in the beautiful south of France. It was close to a larger beach with some more sunbathers. We thought of lying there, then getting aroused, and then perhaps being viewed by a stranger or so. We went there early, and that may have been the mistake. We were still in our bathing suits, when a woman with a nosy dog came along. OK, we thought, she´ll pass and then let´s see... But unfortunately the next people to come along were a family with little children- nothing more lust-killing than that! And of course we didn´t want any children being confused by the sight of two possibly coupling adults. So, that´s the update. We didn´t come any closer to reality otherwise (yet)...

Hmmm, public displays, and hoping that the people seeing like it, is way risky and probably not a good way to go about. If they *don't* like it, you could get into a world of trouble, and it's not really fair to be putting that on people.

You're better off finding a nudist beach if you want that to happen. Some are notorious for a bit of play/watching etc as well.

 

[tomwantstosee]

You´re probably right- actually the part of the beach/the bay was part of a nudist friendly beach- unfortunately a walking path went alongside for a few hundred meters, which we didn´t know...
But in this way things might happen or not, and it is not as planned as by going to a club or so. Difficult...

 

[polyamorous]

I participated with a husband and wife couple about two years ago, I had "performance anxiety" but it was still one of the most erotic and incredible experiences in my life.
I think it was a little more his idea than hers, but she warmed up and had no problems once we all had a beer and chilled out for a while.
I was honestly very nervous, that and the condoms made it impossible for me to fuck, but she gave me an incredible blow job, and I got to watch and touch/fondle while they had sex, and I was the grand finale with the most incredible orgasm i have ever experienced all over her tits right at the end.
I would LOVE to try it again sometime with the right couple.

 

[tomwantstosee]

Poly,
thanks for the very honest description- to tell about the difficulties you had, but at the same time to have enjoyed the situation nevertheless! Sounded very encouraging!
Thanks!

 

[Hannah90]

We have actually done this before, with my boyfriends friend, but that was ages ago now. The other way has been through a few different sites, but actually talking to them for quite a while just to make sure they're 'safe', like the last threesome we met through gumtree, and were emailing, calling, and texting backwards and forwards for a week or two, and then we decided to set it up. I wouldn't like to go to a club just in case you meet the wrong type of person, I know that can happen on the internet but like I say the communicating back and forth really worked.

Once we met we started with a couple of drinks to help any possible nerves, and then I would be sat next to my boyfriend and start with him, and then the other would come and join us, or i would sit inbetween the two playing and teasing to begin with.

Yes it does feel natural, admittedly we did have one man that left about 10 minutes later oncebut that's because it didn't feel right.

If, say, my boyfriend orgasmed first, I would then carry on with the other man whilst stroking my boyfriend back to hard. You could always have a break and then start again.

Oral, vaginal, and dp, the way I enjoy is if they're sat next to each other and I'm on my knees licking the two at the same time, going back and forth, or one inside and one in my mouth, whichever shape.

Both of use enjoyed it, if one of us didn't enjoy it as much as the other then we wouldn't continue.

 

[In Anticipation]

We have actually done this before, with my boyfriends friend, but that was ages ago now. The other way has been through a few different sites, but actually talking to them for quite a while just to make sure they're 'safe', like the last threesome we met through gumtree, and were emailing, calling, and texting backwards and forwards for a week or two, and then we decided to set it up. I wouldn't like to go to a club just in case you meet the wrong type of person, I know that can happen on the internet but like I say the communicating back and forth really worked.

Once we met we started with a couple of drinks to help any possible nerves, and then I would be sat next to my boyfriend and start with him, and then the other would come and join us, or i would sit inbetween the two playing and teasing to begin with.

Yes it does feel natural, admittedly we did have one man that left about 10 minutes later oncebut that's because it didn't feel right.

If, say, my boyfriend orgasmed first, I would then carry on with the other man whilst stroking my boyfriend back to hard. You could always have a break and then start again.

Oral, vaginal, and dp, the way I enjoy is if they're sat next to each other and I'm on my knees licking the two at the same time, going back and forth, or one inside and one in my mouth, whichever shape.

Both of use enjoyed it, if one of us didn't enjoy it as much as the other then we wouldn't continue.

Interesting . . . I think gumtree have stopped carrying that sort of thing though haven't they? You could always work something out through here I guess, although as you say extensive communication ahead is a good move.

 

[Hannah90]

I think gumtree may have stopped it now, we used amateur album once, there's a few local sites, but yeah extensive communication is a must!! xx

 

[tomwantstosee]

Hi Hannah,
who made the contacts via gumtree (they definetively stopped any dating ads) or elswhere? Was it you or your partner? Did you decide more on the texts, or the pictures of the guys advertising themselves? Or did you post an advert? And then you needed to choose...

 

[Hannah90]

Hello
We posted an advert onto gumtree whilst it was still running, but like I say there are other ones open that are very similar to that. We would wait for the replies and either text or email them back on forth, but we both had a go, I would find a few and any I thought were good, I'd tell Chris to see what he thinks of them and vice versa. We'd firstly choose people primarily from the conversations we'd have with them, and then we'd look at pictures and short list people that way. However some times you find they may not be the most attractive yet they suit your plans more than any of the others. xxx

 

[Hannah90]

amateuralbum.net is always a good one, we used to use it all the time before we got to know our 'favourites' hee hee. xxx

 

[tomwantstosee]

Thank you Hannah,
will have a look at this website. Guess I will not be the only one... ;-)

 

[tomwantstosee]

An interesting website, I have to say. Especially for people who want to have a look...
So Hannah, thanks for the recommendation (whatever comes out of it...)

 

[tomwantstosee]

Wonder if anyone had taken pics of themselves as a couple (yes, more explicit pics), so that the third party´s commitment was clearly defined to watching/taking pics?
This is one of the fantasies we share, and then take it from there.

 

[wellnow]

amateuralbum.net is always a good one, we used to use it all the time before we got to know our 'favourites' hee hee. xxx

interesting site. Thanks.

 

[cruzn2u2]

Mother and Daughter

Last night I got a great treat. My Russian girlfriend's daughter left her boyfriend and moved back into home. She was living with a guy who drank and hardly ever made love to her. My girlfriend and I have a passionate love life and she tells her daughter everything. Well last night I came over and made dinner for both of them. Later Sophia and I went to the bedroom to make love. After she came several times she excuse herself and brought back her 29 year old daughter and said she was joining us. She stripped naked and crawled into bed and started to give me a blowjob. Sophia then sat on my face and I licked her into another orgasm. Her daughter then mounted me and Sophia relocated her position and licked my balls. Her daughter got off many times last night as well as Sophia. At the end they let me cum on both of their faces at once. We all three crashed on the bed. I think this is going to be a regular program until she finds a better boyfriend.

 

[tomwantstosee]

This is hardly believable!
I couldn´t stand the thought of involving children, however old they might be! No way... But if it works out for you and you gf...
No, if you read the whole thread this is about something different, about giving and receiving, about trust and- yes, love.
And about being proud to be with whom you are with!

 

[tomwantstosee]

To come back to the initial thoughts of this thread - we got very helpful comments and pm from nice people here on lit, some very experienced, some with a "one off", some with just fantasies as well.
There are so many helpful thoughts and ideas how to make things work comfortably for all that I hope this thread will help other readers as well.
As the slowest one sets the pace we´re still not much further- but even the thought of making things come reality gives another kick...
And we even had offers from some guys- some were very nice and at least there is cyber-contact. All very exiting.
Thanks especially for all the feamle perspectives! Would be nice to see/read more of these.

 

[In Anticipation]

To come back to the initial thoughts of this thread - we got very helpful comments and pm from nice people here on lit, some very experienced, some with a "one off", some with just fantasies as well.
There are so many helpful thoughts and ideas how to make things work comfortably for all that I hope this thread will help other readers as well.
As the slowest one sets the pace we´re still not much further- but even the thought of making things come reality gives another kick...
And we even had offers from some guys- some were very nice and at least there is cyber-contact. All very exiting.
Thanks especially for all the feamle perspectives! Would be nice to see/read more of these.

You're up early for a Sunday! Let's all hope that things move along a little faster for you now.

 

[tomwantstosee]

Thanks for the good wishes!
THings move in their own pace, and due to a lot of travel on my side we enjoy ourselves when meeting. Lots of talk about this fantasies, at least while in bed...
But I am not in a hurry- still feel young enough to experience a lot of things!

 

[aniowachick]

I have always loved women and always wanted to be with one. Of course my hubby is all for that.

My best friend knew I was bi curious and one night in front of hubby, lifted my shirt and started playing with my nipples.. Well in the bedroom we all had oral, Him and I with her.. Her with him, Him with me. She was horny but not into licking girls pussies.

Well a few weeks later, it happened again, This time she preformed oral on hubby, My and him on her and then they fucked while hubby fingered me.

It was very hot, but I want a girl to want me too.
We got involved with a couple.. which didnt work out but now have met a great couple, have befriended them, grown to trust and our next meet will be sexual. 2 Bi girls, 2 straight guys.


It hasnt hurt our marriage at all as long as we both know and agree yanno?

 

[tomwantstosee]

And you were not at all jeleaus when she was pleasuring your husband? Great vexpereince, by the sounds of it...

 

[In Anticipation]

And you were not at all jeleaus when she was pleasuring your husband? Great vexpereince, by the sounds of it...

No need to be jealous if you are secure in your relationship. I'm happy for my wife to flirt and more because I know she will be coming home to spend the night with me.

 

[aniowachick]

And you were not at all jeleaus when she was pleasuring your husband? Great vexpereince, by the sounds of it...

Not jealous at all, there seems to come a point where a couple can distinguish the difference between love and sex. I would allow him to be with select women even without me there, but he says no. He wouldnt want me too, so he won't do it either.

Maybe it is because I know this man loves me to death and I him.. While he was having sex with my friend, he was looking in my eyes... They were doggy style and had no acts of love if that makes sense?

I am finding while looking around on swingers sites, that it is not abnormal to enjoy seeing your partner with another.

We have been getting to know a couple for a while and our next meeting will be sexual. That is the only way another guy is to be allowed in the picture. My sweetheart does not find it erotic to have a threesome with another man in the room and since we both need to enjoy ourselves and each other, we do not invite single men. It isn't about him being jealous or anything, just not something that excites him.
Im bi, he is not.. We can both enjoy ourselves with women, but if he cant enjoy seeing me with another man... then it isnt going to happen