Threesome

[SweetErika]

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[tomwantstosee]

Thanks Erica,
as you see the thread has been moved. And I hope it is moving on, as gthe subject seems to interest many people... And they may not have looked in the "how to" section- now it is here, in the Playground.
For those who come accross, please read the very beginning. And then, please tell your experiences, wishes and so on.
We are still exploring how to carry on, and are grateful for any experiences with threesomes.
THanks!

 

[tomwantstosee]

Let´s see if the subject of "threesomes" is a turn on for the readers of the Playground, too!
We are still very much interested in experiences, thoughts and advice.
Our favourite fantasy is a threesome with an additional male- would you prefer a stranger or a friend? What happens to friendship if one is included? How can you be safe with a stranger?
Did anyone try to have another one around just as a voyeur (as a start)? Club experiences?
Looking forward to rerading your thoughts and real-life-stories!!!

 

[2bmarion]

My experience

I have only had one threesome in my life and it has been MFM. It was in my "slut" days and I had been doing things I shouldn't have. This is not to say that I wouldn't do it again, but more as to an explanation as to why that experience wasn't the best for me.

I don't remember how it got started (I had been dabbling in drugs at the time) but I do remember feeling awkward with the whole situation. These guys were supposed friends of mine (in that lifestyle, it's hard to tell who are truly friends). They were also cousins.

I was not the central focus. It seemed to be more of a gang bang scenario with just the 2 guys. One did anal while I sucked the other guy off.

All the rest of the details are fuzzy. I tell you this because I think you should be aware that your safety is paramount in any kind sexual encounter with someone other than your chosen partner. Luckily these guys were known to me, and I was able to make it safely home afterward, but I realized that in other situations that is not the case.

While the reality of what happened to me wasn't anywhere near ideal, I still have a craving to have other threesomes in the future including other MFM relations. I just know to be much more careful now!

 

[In Anticipation]

Let´s see if the subject of "threesomes" is a turn on for the readers of the Playground, too!
We are still very much interested in experiences, thoughts and advice.
Our favourite fantasy is a threesome with an additional male- would you prefer a stranger or a friend? What happens to friendship if one is included? How can you be safe with a stranger?
Did anyone try to have another one around just as a voyeur (as a start)? Club experiences?
Looking forward to rerading your thoughts and real-life-stories!!!

Nice to see you posting again!

Do you and your wife have any further ideas?

 

[tomwantstosee]

bmarion,
I think this is very important advice. Safety has to be paramount, although in fantasy it isn´t always the first thought. But you are definetively right- and that brings back the question whether one should try with friends or casual encounters?
I can understand why this wasn´t the greatest of experiences- ideally no drugs should be involved (although a glass of wine or so maybe good to overcome inhibitions?) in order to really enjoy conciously.

In Anticipation,
the only thing we did in reality was during a short trip to the seaside: THe wheather wasn´t too great, and so not to many people at the beach. My fingers went down her stomach, and ended in her pants... We enjoyed quite a few moments, knowing that the few people were close enought to guess what was going on, but not close enough to see everything. Well, I would have liked to take this further...

 

[cruzn2u2]

Mail Lady MFM

My friend and I were in Little Rock and met a cut blonde mail woman. She told us she wanted her first threesome and wanted to have her first DP. Well after she got off her route, we met her at our hotel and after she showered she said lets get started. We tried every combination of having sex with her. I think all of us came several times each that night. The next morning said thanks and said when I get home, I am going to make my husband lick me out.

 

[In Anticipation]

bmarion,
I think this is very important advice. Safety has to be paramount, although in fantasy it isn´t always the first thought. But you are definetively right- and that brings back the question whether one should try with friends or casual encounters?
I can understand why this wasn´t the greatest of experiences- ideally no drugs should be involved (although a glass of wine or so maybe good to overcome inhibitions?) in order to really enjoy conciously.

In Anticipation,
the only thing we did in reality was during a short trip to the seaside: THe wheather wasn´t too great, and so not to many people at the beach. My fingers went down her stomach, and ended in her pants... We enjoyed quite a few moments, knowing that the few people were close enought to guess what was going on, but not close enough to see everything. Well, I would have liked to take this further...

Did anyone take particular interest?

 

[tomwantstosee]

Well, a couple walked by, and she was saying something into his ear- he looked towards us and then they started laughing. You know, the sort of laughter which is a bit nervous. And if others noted, they hid it well...

 

[tomwantstosee]

Since I have moved this thread (on advice from Erica) from the "How to.." to the Playground it seems that it is less often visited or seen- although the subject seems of interest, and further threads seem to grow on the same...
I try to find these, but maybe I miss one or the other. Maybe cross-linking would be a good idea?

Still keen on real experiences, thoughts etc. Would be more than happy to have this thread revived!

 

[In Anticipation]

Since I have moved this thread (on advice from Erica) from the "How to.." to the Playground it seems that it is less often visited or seen- although the subject seems of interest, and further threads seem to grow on the same...
I try to find these, but maybe I miss one or the other. Maybe cross-linking would be a good idea?

Still keen on real experiences, thoughts etc. Would be more than happy to have this thread revived!

Perhaps you should start another on 'how to?' It's possible though that the next step is one only you can take ...

 

[tomwantstosee]

There is always more than one direction- athough I know what you mean...
But there maybe other options, close to a threesome, i.e. watching another couple (I don´t know if I could withstand to participate, but it would put me in the position of the addition- maybe a good experience.) But again, the couple isn´t certain yet, and as I know things take their time... to be good!

 

[TheLM]

Oddly enough, I turned down a threesome with two knockout babes this week.

Sometimes my own intelligence and morality is a detriment to good times!

 

[In Anticipation]

Oddly enough, I turned down a threesome with two knockout babes this week.

Sometimes my own intelligence and morality is a detriment to good times!

Send them to London! We can take good care of them here!

 

[tomwantstosee]

Oddly enough, I turned down a threesome with two knockout babes this week.

Sometimes my own intelligence and morality is a detriment to good times!

Well, did you try this before? Or are you in a relationship with another one (not these two)? Or what sort of morality hindered you?
Would be interesting to know...

 

[tomwantstosee]

I started this thread quite a while ago in the "How to" section, and as you all see this subject earned some interest and a lot of replies. As per Erika´s wish (she now edited her response) it was moved to the playground- where it died quickly.
It seem that this fate is shared by other threads. The playground is not as cosy as the How To section, and less frequented.
If the threesome subject is still of interest- shall I consider starting a new thread? Or ask for this one to be moved back to "How to"?

 

[In Anticipation]

I started this thread quite a while ago in the "How to" section, and as you all see this subject earned some interest and a lot of replies. As per Erika´s wish (she now edited her response) it was moved to the playground- where it died quickly.
It seem that this fate is shared by other threads. The playground is not as cosy as the How To section, and less frequented.
If the threesome subject is still of interest- shall I consider starting a new thread? Or ask for this one to be moved back to "How to"?

I think you should start a new thread in the 'how to' forum but phrase it as more of a question. I could come up with suggestions if you like.