This isn’t just jerking off anymore… who else gets lost in it?

[Mr. Briggs]

I'm a very sexual guy in a non sexual life.

I love my wife. We don't have a super sexual life. I'm ok with that. I don't need or want anyone else. But my sexual energy builds and builds and builds. So I've become the master at satisfying myself

I’ve built a little world around it.
Erotic stories and filthy fantasies are one outlet.
Toys are another, dildos, prostate toys, the works.
Sometimes it’s JOI, CEI, or anal JOI videos… though honestly, most fall short. Not enough new material. Not enough that really hits.

But when it does all line up?
The right JOI or story… paired with the perfect toy…
That’s the Super Bowl of the month.

So I’m curious, what’s your escape?
What gets you lost in it?
What makes your cock jump or clit tingle? Or keeps you on edge for hours?


Let’s talk about it.

 

[mrdiscreetshh]

Right there with you! I need a friend that'll share his cock whenever I desire it. Everything you listed gets old when you don't have someone to share the energy with. Im hoping the right person will come my way

 

[Mr. Briggs]

Right there with you! I need a friend that'll share his cock whenever I desire it. Everything you listed gets old when you don't have someone to share the energy with. Im hoping the right person will come my way

You are 100% right

 

[stargame]

You are 100% right

There are several things that get me going. I absolutely love going shopping for myself. I find that extremely arousing.
New panties and lingerie are so fun. Nonetheless I do need to keep renewing and reinventing what keeps me going. The female form still intrigues me very much, as does the masculine.

 

[LustyScribe]

The stuff that gets me going most is...all the stuff that isn't "me." At least, not the IRL me. I'm a big man, broad shouldered, strong, masculine. People throughout my life have expected me to fit a certain mold: Decisive, commanding, forceful.

So my fantasies, the ones that keep me awake at all hours, are ones where I lay all of that down. I'm submissive, surrendered, vulnerable, and for all of that, I'm taken advantage of, even abused. I revel in having it all stripped from me, being used by stronger, better men and commanding women. The particulars of what they do to me is hot, but nowhere near as much as the powerlessness (and lack of will) I have to resist them.

Impossible dreams, to be sure, given the realities of my marriage to a woman who has no real interest in her own sexual fulfillment, and even less in mine. Nonetheless, the fantasies persist.

 

[Erosfan]

I'm a very sexual guy in a non sexual life.

I love my wife. We don't have a super sexual life. I'm ok with that. I don't need or want anyone else. But my sexual energy builds and builds and builds. So I've become the master at satisfying myself

I’ve built a little world around it.
Erotic stories and filthy fantasies are one outlet.
Toys are another, dildos, prostate toys, the works.
Sometimes it’s JOI, CEI, or anal JOI videos… though honestly, most fall short. Not enough new material. Not enough that really hits.

But when it does all line up?
The right JOI or story… paired with the perfect toy…
That’s the Super Bowl of the month.

So I’m curious, what’s your escape?
What gets you lost in it?
What makes your cock jump or clit tingle? Or keeps you on edge for hours?


Let’s talk about it.

You have described a life that I have lived. This is my first marriage. I have been fortunate enough to have moved on and discovered better things. What was left, is the ability, and maybe habit to fulfill my desires myself. Even in much better relationships, I am always reminded of times when it was me that was responsible for my sexual happiness and fulfillment.

 

[Idyll]

The lack of sex and or denial becomes a turn-on in itself. Scrolling through some clips of regular couples playing with chastity, "Slut wife puts hubby in cage" sorts of titles. That's never happened in my life, but it feeds into the sex desert fantasy.

Humiliation plays a part in a long edging session. Here's a kinky note: Pinterest is hot! Like, all these everyday women, modeling their outfits. Some are conventionally sexy, but there are so many who are just "neighbor lady" plain janes showing off their skirts or blouses. Good lord...that can distract me from a whole day's work.

They KNOW I'm hopelessly frustrated...some like to tease me in kind of a sexy mean way. Others feel sorry for me, but know I want the agony prolonged. Some are masturbatrixes who tie me up for an hour or so. Others, model their outfits to see my response.

Growing up when I did, no guys admitted to masturbating. And "being caught" was the ultimate humiliation. I think that heightens the arousal of this kind of kink. All those Pinterest women know what I get up to.

 

[perturbedmusic]

You have described a life that I have lived. This is my first marriage. I have been fortunate enough to have moved on and discovered better things. What was left, is the ability, and maybe habit to fulfill my desires myself. Even in much better relationships, I am always reminded of times when it was me that was responsible for my sexual happiness and fulfillment.

This really hits home for me, as this was my first marriage as well. My sexual frustration and boredom led to a practically non existent sex life. I have much healthier sex life with my wife now, but can still get frustrated with her closed-mindedness. So I often have to give myself gratification through self pleasure and fantasy.

 

[pntyhseluvr]

The eternal hope that there are some ladies on Lit that enjoy voyeurism and would like to get off while watching me get off watching or hearing them.

 

[Imperfect_Guy]

This really hits home for me, as this was my first marriage as well. My sexual frustration and boredom led to a practically non existent sex life. I have much healthier sex life with my wife now, but can still get frustrated with her closed-mindedness. So I often have to give myself gratification through self pleasure and fantasy.

It's nice that you have the freedom to do that.

 

[Erosfan]

This really hits home for me, as this was my first marriage as well. My sexual frustration and boredom led to a practically non existent sex life. I have much healthier sex life with my wife now, but can still get frustrated with her closed-mindedness. So I often have to give myself gratification through self pleasure and fantasy.

I hear you. I am fortunate to have found some one that is open to trying new things. So far, we are doing pretty well. I still find the occasional need to take care of myself, and for the most part, I enjoy doing that.

 

[BDA73]

I'm a very sexual guy in a non sexual life.

I love my wife. We don't have a super sexual life. I'm ok with that. I don't need or want anyone else. But my sexual energy builds and builds and builds. So I've become the master at satisfying myself

I’ve built a little world around it.
Erotic stories and filthy fantasies are one outlet.
Toys are another, dildos, prostate toys, the works.
Sometimes it’s JOI, CEI, or anal JOI videos… though honestly, most fall short. Not enough new material. Not enough that really hits.

But when it does all line up?
The right JOI or story… paired with the perfect toy…
That’s the Super Bowl of the month.

So I’m curious, what’s your escape?
What gets you lost in it?
What makes your cock jump or clit tingle? Or keeps you on edge for hours?


Let’s talk about it.

Right there with you...lately my outlet is posting pics of my cock..and chatting with willing beautiful ladies on here

 

[Ciceri]

I'm a very sexual guy in a non sexual life.

I love my wife. We don't have a super sexual life. I'm ok with that. I don't need or want anyone else. But my sexual energy builds and builds and builds. So I've become the master at satisfying myself

I’ve built a little world around it.
Erotic stories and filthy fantasies are one outlet.
Toys are another, dildos, prostate toys, the works.
Sometimes it’s JOI, CEI, or anal JOI videos… though honestly, most fall short. Not enough new material. Not enough that really hits.

But when it does all line up?
The right JOI or story… paired with the perfect toy…
That’s the Super Bowl of the month.

So I’m curious, what’s your escape?
What gets you lost in it?
What makes your cock jump or clit tingle? Or keeps you on edge for hours?


Let’s talk about it.

That’s me. JOI can be really hot. I like milf Julie Snow. She seems really cool. Not overdone. Subtle and sexy

 

[Travler99921]

I must admit I have my best orgasms by masturbating. However I miss the intimacy of having sex with a man or woman. When I have sex withmy wife it usually involves cunnilingus and her helping me masturbate. When i have gay sex it is usually me sucking a guy while I stroke myself. After he cums I masturbate.

 

[wouldloveto]

I'm a very sexual guy in a non sexual life.

I love my wife. We don't have a super sexual life. I'm ok with that. I don't need or want anyone else. But my sexual energy builds and builds and builds. So I've become the master at satisfying myself

Very similar for me...

I’ve built a little world around it.
Erotic stories and filthy fantasies are one outlet.
Toys are another, dildos, prostate toys, the works.
Sometimes it’s JOI, CEI, or anal JOI videos… though honestly, most fall short. Not enough new material. Not enough that really hits.

yep

But when it does all line up?
The right JOI or story… paired with the perfect toy…
That’s the Super Bowl of the month.

So I’m curious, what’s your escape?
What gets you lost in it?
What makes your cock jump or clit tingle? Or keeps you on edge for hours?

JOI is a big go to for me... and the perfect toy... and the time to be unleashed...

Let’s talk about it.

I would love to...

 

[Cabeza]

I'm a very sexual guy in a non sexual life.

I love my wife. We don't have a super sexual life. I'm ok with that. I don't need or want anyone else. But my sexual energy builds and builds and builds. So I've become the master at satisfying myself

I’ve built a little world around it.
Erotic stories and filthy fantasies are one outlet.
Toys are another, dildos, prostate toys, the works.
Sometimes it’s JOI, CEI, or anal JOI videos… though honestly, most fall short. Not enough new material. Not enough that really hits.

But when it does all line up?
The right JOI or story… paired with the perfect toy…
That’s the Super Bowl of the month.

So I’m curious, what’s your escape?
What gets you lost in it?
What makes your cock jump or clit tingle? Or keeps you on edge for hours?


Let’s talk about it.

I’m right there with ya. I’ve come to understand that jerking off IS my sex life now. But i haven’t really found a Super Bowl yet. A great night for me is a long slow session with erotic stories, some porn, and maybe some sexy chat here. Would love to hear what others do to spice up their masturbation lives.

 

[BiCuriousWriter]

Right there with you...lately my outlet is posting pics of my cock..and chatting with willing beautiful ladies on here

I guess I have the same reason and goals. Started posting pics, and started chatting, mostly work guys so far, which is good, but looking for chats with women as well

 

[Richelieujuniour]

I always thought id reallyvfet off to JOI stuff, as I am always dominant and in control…

TBH, even tho it often irritated me at the time, one of ly fave memories of doibg oorn was that id sjow ip and theyd tell le who i was going to fuck, where, even where to shoot my load.

And i was a pro, so i did it.

Once, my ex forced me to cum to a celeb she inew i hated. I fought it, tried to resist, but in the end blew the biggest, hottest load of ly life. I am still embarrassed to have had my strongest lrgasm to that chick.

Ive even tried to relive it alone, with less-tgan-srellar results.

Perhaps ive just not found the right JOI clips, but id gove anyyhing to cum like that again. Or at least not have to scroll/search/worry about wjo to cum to because it somply isnt up to me…

A boy can dream, can’t he?

I'm a very sexual guy in a non sexual life.

I love my wife. We don't have a super sexual life. I'm ok with that. I don't need or want anyone else. But my sexual energy builds and builds and builds. So I've become the master at satisfying myself

I’ve built a little world around it.
Erotic stories and filthy fantasies are one outlet.
Toys are another, dildos, prostate toys, the works.
Sometimes it’s JOI, CEI, or anal JOI videos… though honestly, most fall short. Not enough new material. Not enough that really hits.

But when it does all line up?
The right JOI or story… paired with the perfect toy…
That’s the Super Bowl of the month.

So I’m curious, what’s your escape?
What gets you lost in it?
What makes your cock jump or clit tingle? Or keeps you on edge for hours?


Let’s talk about it.

I always thiught id love JOI, but have never found the right clip.

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I'm a very sexual guy in a non sexual life.

I love my wife. We don't have a super sexual life. I'm ok with that. I don't need or want anyone else. But my sexual energy builds and builds and builds. So I've become the master at satisfying myself

I’ve built a little world around it.
Erotic stories and filthy fantasies are one outlet.
Toys are another, dildos, prostate toys, the works.
Sometimes it’s JOI, CEI, or anal JOI videos… though honestly, most fall short. Not enough new material. Not enough that really hits.

But when it does all line up?
The right JOI or story… paired with the perfect toy…
That’s the Super Bowl of the month.

So I’m curious, what’s your escape?
What gets you lost in it?
What makes your cock jump or clit tingle? Or keeps you on edge for hours?


Let’s talk about it.

I'm a very sexual guy in a non sexual life.

I love my wife. We don't have a super sexual life. I'm ok with that. I don't need or want anyone else. But my sexual energy builds and builds and builds. So I've become the master at satisfying myself

I’ve built a little world around it.
Erotic stories and filthy fantasies are one outlet.
Toys are another, dildos, prostate toys, the works.
Sometimes it’s JOI, CEI, or anal JOI videos… though honestly, most fall short. Not enough new material. Not enough that really hits.

But when it does all line up?
The right JOI or story… paired with the perfect toy…
That’s the Super Bowl of the month.

So I’m curious, what’s your escape?
What gets you lost in it?
What makes your cock jump or clit tingle? Or keeps you on edge for hours?


Let’s talk about it.

 

[whoaitzbreezy]

honestly i was hoping you were saying that you cum so much when you jack off that people were getting lost in the flood.

 

[mijayoo]

I would watch that haha

 

[armyjoe19k]

I would watch that haha

Kinky, I'd let you watch me!

 

[Uncut1969]

When I chat with another guys I get lost and try so hard to please them with my words to make them cum! Feel like a slut and used but enjoy it

 

[nostuff]

It sounds like we have much in common, Briggs. I.e., I can't imagine I'll ever leave my wife, but the physical relationship is gone.
What's my outlet? Largely jerking off to my fantasies, videos and erotica such as your writings, or by posting on Lit. And on occasion, I have the chance to indulge in other men, though those opportunities are infrequent.

Yes, I have discovered an interest in men, or more specifically cock. Though I worry too much about giving up my cherry ass, I absolutely love sucking men, even though I still identify as masculine. Surprisingly, I love sucking more than being sucked. I certainly don't mind a man taking care of me, but there is a thrill I can't adequately describe to letting a man slide his shaft between my lips and into my throat. It's the pleasure, I suppose, of being wanted and being able to satisfy my lover.

Most posters on Lit seem to think such lust for men is because of the wife's lack of interest. I don't believe that's true for me. If I didn't have gay tendencies, I would simply look for pussy. Now, I wouldn't hesitate to hook up with a beautiful woman, but I have no doubt I would still want cock. In other words, I am bisexual, and my choice of porn generally reflects that.

Most of what I turn to is men sucking men. From time to time, I enjoy gay anal videos, but the oral stuff feels much more personal, i.e. you see the sucker's face as well as the penetration. I really get off on a woman coaching her husband to suck cock, and amateur is much better than professional.

I also enjoy amateur lesbian videos, especially Girls Gone Wild. The pros can still be good, but the amateurs feel much more real.

 

[live4thebj]

#1 a good well written incest story. I can’t help but jerkoff.

#2 a good porn. More lame ones than good ones but once in a while a film nails it.

#3 when I know I will be alone for 3 hours or more and my ass is fine (no hemroids) and I am horny. A good session with my prostate massager.

#4 a massage from my massage therapist. Especially the part where I am face-down and she is working on my left leg and slides her hands up and up to my ass; my hips rise each time and I moan sexually. I swear her and I are strictly professional but she has a way to turn me on. And no she is NOT hot. But nice.

 

[StrongMaster7]

Wow, I don’t think I’m quite into it the same way you are, but to each his own.

While I could claim (and have claimed) that I masturbate every day at least once to relieve the pressure of not having sex with my wife. It’s also at least as much about just giving myself some pleasure. I just need a little privacy, a good internet connection and the porn of my choice. I’ve been jerking off to porn videos since 1984, so I have a lot of favorite female performers, scenes, etc. When I have to opportunity, I may make it last (edge?) for up to an hour, but usually, it’s 15 minutes or so.