Think about your avatar

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LordLucan74 said:


I agree with everything said in the statement quoted save the equivocation.

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I don't really care. :D
 
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LordLucan74 said:


Another cleverly crafted statement explaining away bigotry and narrow-mindedness. Dr Alfred Rossenburg would be proud.

There is a difference between the way things are, and the way we would like them to be. Bigotry and narrow-mindedness are part of the world, sadly. Though those things are only a small part of what I was talking about.

Let me ask you a simple question, and I would like you to be 100% real and honest with me. When you see women you have never met before in real life, before they have ever said a word -- are you more attracted to some than others?
 
Naughty n Nice said:


Now see? At what point was I ever judging? I was merely point out the irony. It's you that has managed to put all of us down. Who are you to talk about emotional/intellectual maturity? I don't have 'standards' on which I judge people on, I'm better than that. I'm also mature enough to drop this before you make a bigger ass of yourself.

Your initial post to the querry belied your own criteria (qv).

I am a dick, not an ass. I refer you to the "all imortant av."

My standards are substantive. We all judge. Now, I am busy being stoned to death. :)
 
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takingchances42 said:


There is a difference between the way things are, and the way we would like them to be. Bigotry and narrow-mindedness are part of the world, sadly. Though those things are only a small part of what I was talking about.

Let me ask you a simple question, and I would like you to be 100% real and honest with me. When you see women you have never met before in real life, before they have ever said a word -- are you more attracted to some than others?

Bigotry and narrow-mindedness are not a part of my world.

I always wait until they talk. I was married to a beauty for 10 years who opened her mouth and ruined the entire persona. Alas, It took me too long to hear what she was.... I have learned to wait. Waiting is good. Look for substance. You will find it. Or, fuck the babe and push off when done. Depends on one's motives. I am beyond the "fucking for sport" phase. I want substance. So, I wait and I listen. I am 38 y/o. I have seen enough naked people and fucked my share. Now, I look beyond the T and A.
 
my question is this: why do we have the avs? aren't they intended to express something about ourselves, to project some kind of image even before the first word comes out? why do we get to pick our nicknames? i could just as easily be member number whatever. it's like clothes--you pick out what you wear because you want to feel comfortable and project a certain image. and if that image is "i don't give a fuck what you think about my image," that's okay too, of course. that's part of the projection.

okay, i'm a biggot because i look at things and make value judgements. but these are things you choose to project, thereby implicitly telling me there are of value to you. and in that way somehow represent you.
 
sxychick21 said:


Perceptive and a gentleman. A :kiss: for you. :eek:

Kind of sucks to follow that rant...

It was a great rant though. Very spirited. I admire the effort and feeling it contained. Its purpose is totally lost upon me, but it was grand.

Oh, to muster such elan for no real reason or purpose!!

We are often trapped by the dictates of life's negativity, ever fleeing from the wholesome embrace of the goodness.

Yet we long for that touch, That embrace. You know? Yet we worry about a dick or tits or a sheep in an av..... We really must get our priorities right.
 
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LordLucan74 said:

Let me ask you a simple question, and I would like you to be 100% real and honest with me. When you see women you have never met before in real life, before they have ever said a word -- are you more attracted to some than others?
Bigotry and narrow-mindedness are not a part of my world.


I always wait until they talk. I was married to a beauty for 10 years who opened her mouth and ruined the entire persona. Alas, It took me too long to hear what she was.... I have learned to wait. Waiting is good. Look for substance. You will find it. Or, fuck the babe and push off when done. Depends on one's motives. I am beyond the "fucking for sport" phase. I want substance. So, I wait and I listen. I am 38 y/o. I have seen enough naked people and fucked my share. Now, I look beyond the T and A.

You are evading the question. I didn't ask whether you were would date or marry the women. I asked whether you were more attracted to some than others at first glance?

Are you really claiming that looks are completely irrelevant to you? You do seem to post quite a few photos of very attractive naked women, for someone to whom looks are irrelevant...
 
kotori said:
my question is this: why do we have the avs? aren't they intended to express something about ourselves, to project some kind of image even before the first word comes out? why do we get to pick our nicknames? i could just as easily be member number whatever. it's like clothes--you pick out what you wear because you want to feel comfortable and project a certain image. and if that image is "i don't give a fuck what you think about my image," that's okay too, of course. that's part of the projection.

okay, i'm a biggot because i look at things and make value judgements. but these are things you choose to project, thereby implicitly telling me there are of value to you. and in that way somehow represent you.

The whole point of this thread, as I understood it, was: can you have a sexual av and be taken seriously. I say that you can. I look to the words and deeds of others before drawing conclusions. They tell more than a pic the size of a postal stamp. I use the av to display a flippant attitude to avs... You want to know something about me, ask...I am an open book. 100% NO SPIN truth. Just be careful, everyone is not comfortable with the truth.
 
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ProofreadManx said:


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I don't really care. :D
Obviously one who types messages about which no comments will prove satisfactory.....The poster-child of intellectual cyber-space disengenuity. Say what you mean, mean what you say, and be prepared to have it challenged. :)
 
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LordLucan74 said:

Obviously one who types messages about which no comments will prove satisfactory.....The poster-child of intellectual cyber-space disengenuity. Say what you mean, mean what you say, and be prepared to have it challenged. :)

And then prepare to answer when you are challenged. Still waiting here, LL... :rolleyes:
 
tc42....you excite the hell out of me!:)

kotori...yes! I have been wanting to ask this same question and express the same thoughts all day long. However, in summary, and for my last attempt at clarification...I DO NOT judge anyone by their av. Actually, the only av's I really notice are the face avs, and sometimes, yes, the "private parts" avs, but they mean nothing to me as far as associating the words with the pics. They are just something to admire...nothing more.
The irony, or atleast somewhat of an irony, is that my only point I have tried to make in this thread was that for myself, I removed my breast av for two reasons, it was part of a contest, and also, out of respect for others, as I do not feel it appropriate for me to shove my breasts down the throat of some unsuspecting soul. Thats just me, my personal feelings about MY OWN AV. I have not made any further statement about avs with regard to anyone other than myself.
All the rest of my comments were to LL, not because of his views, he has the right to them, but for the way in which he expresses them, and I am so sick of this topic that I am not going to address all that again.




*mutters why, oh why don't they return to real life, then?*


I need sex. :rolleyes:
 
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takingchances42 said:


And then prepare to answer when you are challenged. Still waiting here, LL... :rolleyes:

I believe your questions were answered. I shall scroll up and make certain, but I believe I responded to all of your questions. Thus, pending a review, I refer you to the answers I gave some moments ago... :)
 
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takingchances42 said:


You are evading the question. I didn't ask whether you were would date or marry the women. I asked whether you were more attracted to some than others at first glance?

Are you really claiming that looks are completely irrelevant to you? You do seem to post quite a few photos of very attractive naked women, for someone to whom looks are irrelevant...

I am the PORN CZAR...looks are quite important in sexually realted matters, to be sure. They mean little when discussing the political situation in Tegucigalpa.

When getting to know someone, I prefer to move past the tits and ass, and check for substance. I have been burned previously chasing "the wrong thing." I have learned. I have trouble meeting real people, not getting laid.

In a sexual way, looks are germain. Now, I take a holistic approach. I wait and listen....usually that is all it takes to ruin a lovely lady.... For me any way. :)
 
Re: Trail and TC42.....

intrigued said:
You two are too funny!:D




Follow me..........

A threesome with a dog?

Oh baby, you are even kinkier than I thought... :p

But, I get to go first!
 
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takingchances42 said:


A threesome with a dog?

Oh baby, you are even kinkier than I thought... :p

But, I get to go first!

TC42...I never thought I would say this, but you disappoint me....Go first??

Cumon, use your imagination, there's something for everyone to do :)
 
Oh, to have my webcam on now!

takingchances42 said:


A threesome with a dog?

Oh baby, you are even kinkier than I thought... :p

But, I get to go first!

*spews tea*

And I, my blankey and my pillows just fell from the chair!:D

Come on.....!
 
Hello....

So we really don'y seek sycophants, fans and hangers on??? Give me a wee bit of credit, at least in a moment of benevolence...
 
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Trail48 said:


TC42...I never thought I would say this, but you disappoint me....Go first??

Cumon, use your imagination, there's something for everyone to do :)

Sigh. You're right. I was being greedy about the main event. But the lady's pleasure needs to come first.

Trail!

Tongue!
 
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LordLucan74 said:


I am the PORN CZAR...
In a sexual way, looks are germain. Now, I take a holistic approach. I wait and listen....usually that is all it takes to ruin a lovely lady.... For me any way. :)


LL, I have never really been dissapointed in your post before, but this statement.....it sucks
 
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