There's a Facebook group pushing this meme "No Hymen no Diamond"

[LJ_Reloaded]

If she's not a virgin, don't marry her.

And some idiots are trying to say this is a MRA group even though they're not.

As a MRA I have but this to say to such a group:
https://s3.amazonaws.com/rapgenius/LOFI-HATERS.jpg

And this is what I wish groups like A voice for Men would say to "No Hymen no Diamond":

I feel that this “no hymen no diamond” is an utterly childish “standard” born of ignorance and hypocrisy.

First, the ignorance. Women lose their hymens for many reasons not related to sex with a man. Or maybe she was molested as a child? How do we know why she lost her hymen? “No Hymen, no Diamond” is largely based on an assumption. It’s a modern day witch hunt, or slut hunt.

Second, the hypocrisy. Where is the corresponding shaming campaign against men who take women’s virginity? Why is all the shame and vitriol directed at the women? If by not being a virgin, she is “ruined” for me (cue massive eyeroll, headdesk and facepalm), should I not also be angry at the man who helped “ruin” her?

And more hypocrisy: What about me? Should I not also be a virgin for her? Or is being “ruined” (again, cue massive eyeroll, headdesk and facepalm) only a thing that can happen to women and not men?

Men’s rights is not about double standards, not for men or for women. If a woman is ruined by losing her virginity, then so is a man. But men aren’t shamed for that, so why shame women?

Many genders, one set of rules to bind them all.

 

[Aella_]

Good thread, LJ.
Was it inspired by LadyF's puritanism?

 

[LJ_Reloaded]

Good thread, LJ.
Was it inspired by LadyF's puritanism?

No, it was inspired by that dumbass "No Hymen" group.

These fuckers have me seriously steamed. I'm also pissed off at Dean Esmay (A Voice For Men)'s pathetic response.

If AVfM were my organization I would have posted a scathing rebuke of this shit. Contrary to the lies you've heard, I don't support misogyny. This shit is misogyny and I call it out just as fast as I call out female privilege.

 

[4est_4est_Gump]

Good Lord...



Can you see Topeka from your molehill?

 

[4est_4est_Gump]

No hymen then cubic zirconia.

 

[Saint Peter]

Trampolina

Dr. Pete's Hymen Replacement Surgery.

 

[4est_4est_Gump]

Dr. Pete's Hymen Replacement Surgery.

JB Weld?

 

[Aella_]

Contrary to the lies you've heard, I don't support misogyny. This shit is misogyny and I call it out just as fast as I call out female privilege.

I never said that you support misogyny.
Au contraire. I always said that, imo, some users confuse your desire to advocate for men's rights - with misogyny.

And I agree with you on the topic of this thread.
It's just the way you included the words "hymen" and "diamonds" in the thread title: so f… ing funny!

EDIT.
this is my new id, I used to post as hssh345

 

[LJ_Reloaded]

I never said that you support misogyny.

It's not you that I'm talking about.

Au contraire. I always said that, imo, some users confuse your desire to advocate for men's rights - with misogyny.

And I agree with you on the topic of this thread.
It's just the way you included the words "hymen" and "diamonds" in the thread title: so f… ing funny!

That's the actual name of that silly group, or their official slogan. I shit you not. "No hymen no diamond" is what they actually said, un-ironically. Yes, fact is stranger than fiction. I had to check this story to see if it was an Onion article.

 

[4est_4est_Gump]

I wonder, is this a good spot in which to use Gorilla Glue?

 

[FredTissot]

Some people just don't deserve pussy. Virgin or otherwise.

 

[oddity83]

Change it "No hygiene no Diamond" see if there is still an outcry.

 

[LJ_Reloaded]

Change it "No hygiene no Diamond" see if there is still an outcry.

Der fuck? That's not even the same thing. Go away.

 

[ElijaRDC]

It really should be changed to, "No Hymen, No Diamond (from someone you shouldn't marry anyway)."

 

[lemonbread]

Virginity really needs to be abolished, as a social construct. It's not something that actually exists. It's just a way for someone to control someone else's sexuality. Like men to control the sexuality of women or organized religion to control the sexuality of it's followers.

Less than half of women still have an intact hymen the first time they have sex anyway.

 

[Aella_]

Virginity really needs to be abolished, as a social construct. It's not something that actually exists. It's just a way for someone to control someone else's sexuality. Like men to control the sexuality of women or organized religion to control the sexuality of it's followers.

Less than half of women still have an intact hymen the first time they have sex anyway.

wow, good point.

 

[Oh_That_Guy]

A very surprising number of people (both men and women) have no idea exactly what and where the hymen is anyway so they'd probably just take your word for it.

 

[Libsam]

No Hymen, get a Chocolate Diamond!

Fancy colors are more chic anyways

 

[4est_4est_Gump]

Virginity is one hell of a good way to avoid STDs no matter what sex you are.

 

[LJ_Reloaded]

Virginity really needs to be abolished, as a social construct. It's not something that actually exists. It's just a way for someone to control someone else's sexuality. Like men to control the sexuality of women or organized religion to control the sexuality of it's followers.

Less than half of women still have an intact hymen the first time they have sex anyway.

Seriously. I felt like I went back in time when I heard of this group.

 

[doowdniw]

Sounds somewhat Talibanesque.

 

[Aella_]

sorry, LJ.
But, while your thread was entirely appropriate,
the title + users comments were hillarious!

So I felt the need to bump it up

 

[4est_4est_Gump]

So LT, at what age wold you like to see the mandatory deflowering of women just to make sure that they are part of the modern secular world where everyone is as obviously sane as you are on the issues of personal modesty and belief?

First period?

 

[Aella_]

So LT, at what age wold you like to see the mandatory deflowering of women just to make sure that they are part of the modern secular world where everyone is as obviously sane as you are on the issues of personal modesty and belief?

First period?

"Mandatory deflowering" OMFG, this really tops them up, Looool!!

What's up with you tonight (uppers ritalin), the Lance/Smoot thread now this one, you're cracking me up!!

 

[4est_4est_Gump]

I feel whimsical...



... like a musical.

Master of the house, doling out the charm
Ready with a handshake and an open palm
Tells a saucy tale, makes a little stir
Customers appreciate a bon-viveur...