Then I guesss I'm a curious sub (male), in Ottawa (Canada)

[memyself_andi]

And apparently I need instruction

 

[Shadowsdream]

All subs need instruction and most will find it a long road of searching for the right instructor.
I hope your search will be productive and pleasing...you have not mentioned if you are looking for online instruction or realtime.
Which might be a very good place to begin

 

[MissTaken]

I would suggest you post an ad in the personals forum.

 

[memyself_andi]

*thankyou both*
And good points, so posted, and am looking for online instruction that might lead to real time

and ty for running a wonderful site

(my apologies for not quite knowing the parameters as of yet)

 

[MissTaken]

This link will tell you a bit more about the parameters and guidelines for the BDSM forum.

I look forward to hearing your questions, reading your input and insight into the thread topics and best wishes on your personal ad.

http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=93088